amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
Think about it!
Imagine this; What if you never had approach anxiety? What if you realized from a young age that girls aren't scary to talk to? Think about all the mistakes you've made, and the experiences you've deprived yourself just out of fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of kissing. Fear of sex. The list goes on and on. What if we grew up just knowing that girls are no big deal?
I'll admit it. Once I hit puberty began having these sexual thoughts, and I started masturbating at about 13. I had these manly desires but I was afraid to act on them. Sometimes I was terrified in the presence of a girl I liked. What if I just embraced my sexuality? Why was I so afraid?
All you ever needed was mindset. We do all these superficial things like hitting the gym, dressing nice, having money, but I finally realized that girls liked me the way I was. All I never needed was mindset.
I used to be so insecure about my lack of experience with girls. When I was 15, I noticed that most of my friends were hooking up with girls. I was thinking to myself, damn, I am way behind. I wanted to have my first kiss, and I had a plan. I invited my 'best friend' over to my house. We were always really cool with each other and she was always flirty and friendly. I figured that she had to be my first kiss.
It was summertime, and we were home alone. At first, we just chilled, smoked a little bowl pack. We were just hanging at my crib until we went up to my room and I put a movie on. We were sitting on a bench at the foot of my bed when she got up to go to the bathroom. When she came back though, I was laying in my bed.
She was like, "what are you doing" I was just like, "come cuddle" And she did. So while we were in the bed watching Happy Gilmore I just told her, "I never kissed a girl before" She didn't believe me. She said, "Are you just saying that to get me to kiss you?" And I was like honestly, no. I was still scared to initiate the kiss so she came and kissed me. Then she stuck her tongue in my mouth, the first time. I was kind've in a trance. I wasn't very good at kissing but still, we had about a 30 minute make-out session. It got to the point where we were tossing and turning under the sheets. I had a boner. I also had a condom in the nightstand next to me. She definitely would've had sex with me, but I was afraid. I still kind of regret that I didn't have sex with her. Still though, it's not so bad because that was the best experience I ever had with a girl.
This brings me back to my point. Girls wanted me the way I was. All I ever needed was that self-confidence. Now here I am, two years later with the confidence I needed back then. Now, I'm actually trying to get girls. I'm not afraid anymore. Now I'm being rejected often. It's not that bad.
All I ever needed was mindset.
Imagine this; What if you never had approach anxiety? What if you realized from a young age that girls aren't scary to talk to? Think about all the mistakes you've made, and the experiences you've deprived yourself just out of fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of kissing. Fear of sex. The list goes on and on. What if we grew up just knowing that girls are no big deal?
I'll admit it. Once I hit puberty began having these sexual thoughts, and I started masturbating at about 13. I had these manly desires but I was afraid to act on them. Sometimes I was terrified in the presence of a girl I liked. What if I just embraced my sexuality? Why was I so afraid?
All you ever needed was mindset. We do all these superficial things like hitting the gym, dressing nice, having money, but I finally realized that girls liked me the way I was. All I never needed was mindset.
I used to be so insecure about my lack of experience with girls. When I was 15, I noticed that most of my friends were hooking up with girls. I was thinking to myself, damn, I am way behind. I wanted to have my first kiss, and I had a plan. I invited my 'best friend' over to my house. We were always really cool with each other and she was always flirty and friendly. I figured that she had to be my first kiss.
It was summertime, and we were home alone. At first, we just chilled, smoked a little bowl pack. We were just hanging at my crib until we went up to my room and I put a movie on. We were sitting on a bench at the foot of my bed when she got up to go to the bathroom. When she came back though, I was laying in my bed.
She was like, "what are you doing" I was just like, "come cuddle" And she did. So while we were in the bed watching Happy Gilmore I just told her, "I never kissed a girl before" She didn't believe me. She said, "Are you just saying that to get me to kiss you?" And I was like honestly, no. I was still scared to initiate the kiss so she came and kissed me. Then she stuck her tongue in my mouth, the first time. I was kind've in a trance. I wasn't very good at kissing but still, we had about a 30 minute make-out session. It got to the point where we were tossing and turning under the sheets. I had a boner. I also had a condom in the nightstand next to me. She definitely would've had sex with me, but I was afraid. I still kind of regret that I didn't have sex with her. Still though, it's not so bad because that was the best experience I ever had with a girl.This brings me back to my point. Girls wanted me the way I was. All I ever needed was that self-confidence. Now here I am, two years later with the confidence I needed back then. Now, I'm actually trying to get girls. I'm not afraid anymore. Now I'm being rejected often. It's not that bad.
All I ever needed was mindset.
