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[ducaro]

I know a lot of PEOPLE who have had their fingers burnt with women here are itching to generalize women... please don't! no matter how many times you have been hurt by different women.. DO NOT GENERALIZE! THAT IS INSANITY.

Please 'screen' your potential partner really well before taking her on!!! we don't do that.. cuz we 'instantly' fall in love..! SO PLEASE 'SCREEN' YOUR POTENTIAL PARTNER FIRST BEFORE YOU LEAP!!!

remember just like you consider yourself to be 'genuine' and 'loving' and ****, similarly there is a pvssy that thinks like that too! THIS IS THE LAW OF NATURE. CRAP EXISTS EVERYWHERE.. YOU NEED TO FIND THE GOLD.

 

[Dannyrt34]

This is true. I'm a relationship person, and probably 1 out of every 50 girls I dated had potential for a relationship. I started to generalize that all women are bytches after so many flakes, or just plain nasty personalities.

I've realized now that every now and then, although rare, you find a girl who has both beautiful looks and a 'sweet girl' personality. There are girls out there that truly want a 'good guy' that doesn't play games, and does nice things for her, as she also does nice things for you. This is why the NEXT thing comes and handy, it takes ALOT of girls you have to weed through to find a gem. Don't let the bad ones waste your time, and never give up, because you WILL find a good one.

I've found only 1 of these girls out of a whole year of dating. We ended up having a 'short-term' relationship that ended because she moved away, and I don't do long distance.

Another thing I realized, I never met a good girl when I was out actually LOOKING for girls. Out of all the girls I dated, the only ones I was actually in a relationship with were girls I met when I least expected. My most recent girlfriend I met because she was a customer at the store I work at. The one before that I happened to be the lucky guy who drove by while she was broken down on the side of the road.

Never met a girl when I was actually LOOKING though. Weird.

 

[FurryFriend]

Never met a girl when I was actually LOOKING though. Weird.

This is why all this "pickup artist" stuff is mostly BS. A vast majority of guys didn't meet their girlfriends because the he used a clever line on a stranger at Starbucks. The best way to meet girls is to just get out there, do volunteer work, go to church, etc. Don't do it specifically to meet girls. Do it so that you're "out there", not stuck at home trolling this forum. And if you do, you'll likely meet someone special when you least expect it.