All women are psychos!

[BeDJ]

Someone burn this useless thread please and put it out of its misery.

Don't. Archive this so we can identify the closet white knights.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Don't. Archive this so we can identify the closet white knights.

I agree.

They seem to be on the rise since the new year. Constantly flaming me and others with feminist drivel --> Blaming men for everything and women for nothing.

Some might be female trolls while the rest are obvious faggots. Anyone coming to this site to tell men how they need to be nicer to women is obviously a white knight faggot.

Its a disturbing trend.

 

[dasein]

And what do you know about women and them keepin jobs and raising kids? ...
Get your head out of your azz boy.

Nice stream of BS instead of just admitting he has a point (defensiveness is a tell btw). If women respect their work and work colleagues enough (school, church, clubs, etc. to boot) to function there and not unload all their crap at work, why can't they do it BETTER at home? After all, the people at home are presumably more dear and worthy of respect than mere work acquaintances, right? Don't they have more to lose by acting psycho at home? Playherman makes a valid point I've often wondered about.

The conclusion I've drawn... after decades of experience with dozens of relationships and hundreds of women... is that women are generally (with maybe 10-15% exceptions) creatures who respond to raw power or the lack of it and power alone. When they are totally cowed into submission, physically, emotionally, sexually, psychologically, they are tolerable, pleasant even, a delight occasionally, otherwise, at the slightest chink of light of humanity or kindness shown them by the man who is f-cking them, let the misbehavior, acting out and psycho suzy stuff begin. They know they will be held accountable in public in ways they don't want if they pull their crap out in the open, so they keep it behind closed doors... most of them anyway, some act out in public too. They CHOOSE what works and how they must be handled efficiently and effectively, WE didn't do that, they did.

Oh and you've been with the same woman since 15? Seriously, truly?! If I want advice about how to marry the first woman who let me put my c-ck in her mouth, well I'll come to you. For everything else? You are way way out of your depth here. Lotta nerve guy, lotta nerve.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I wish I'd read this a week ago.
But then I think every man has his breaking point.
Last weekend I casually mentioned I was going to join a work sporting team with girls. My LTR lost her shyt and accused me of trying to cheat on her.
Previously when she's had episodes like this, I've stayed fairly calm and she eventually returned to the sweet, loving sex goddess I first started going out with.
But this latest outburst I just lost it and unloaded on her. Told her she need to see a shrink and pull her head out of her arse.
Now I've worked out she was on her period last weekend and, after reading Epi's post, I probably should've just stayed cool and did my own shyt until the storm passed.
I was interested to note that my reaction only served to fuel her angst rather than snap her out of her emotional state. I am a firm believer in keeping your bytch in check if she displeases you, but there may be some merit in just staying cool and calm until she comes back to a normal level.
I think amused mastery and stone-like self control are keys when a woman flies off on a completely illogical, unfathomable tangent.

 

[Epimanes]

I wish I'd read this a week ago.
But then I think every man has his breaking point.
Last weekend I casually mentioned I was going to join a work sporting team with girls. My LTR lost her shyt and accused me of trying to cheat on her.
Previously when she's had episodes like this, I've stayed fairly calm and she eventually returned to the sweet, loving sex goddess I first started going out with.
But this latest outburst I just lost it and unloaded on her. Told her she need to see a shrink and pull her head out of her arse.
Now I've worked out she was on her period last weekend and, after reading Epi's post, I probably should've just stayed cool and did my own shyt until the storm passed.
I was interested to note that my reaction only served to fuel her angst rather than snap her out of her emotional state. I am a firm believer in keeping your bytch in check if she displeases you, but there may be some merit in just staying cool and calm until she comes back to a normal level.
I think amused mastery and stone-like self control are keys when a woman flies off on a completely illogical, unfathomable tangent.

Exactly my point. Good job greasy.

 

[Don_Dom]

I wish I'd read this a week ago.
But then I think every man has his breaking point.
Last weekend I casually mentioned I was going to join a work sporting team with girls. My LTR lost her shyt and accused me of trying to cheat on her.
Previously when she's had episodes like this, I've stayed fairly calm and she eventually returned to the sweet, loving sex goddess I first started going out with.
But this latest outburst I just lost it and unloaded on her. Told her she need to see a shrink and pull her head out of her arse.
Now I've worked out she was on her period last weekend and, after reading Epi's post, I probably should've just stayed cool and did my own shyt until the storm passed.
I was interested to note that my reaction only served to fuel her angst rather than snap her out of her emotional state. I am a firm believer in keeping your bytch in check if she displeases you, but there may be some merit in just staying cool and calm until she comes back to a normal level.
I think amused mastery and stone-like self control are keys when a woman flies off on a completely illogical, unfathomable tangent.

I agree, in general, but beware simply chalking this up to mere PMS. In my experience, inexplicable jealousy can be an indication of a guilty conscience. They have a tendency to project. Anytime a woman, out of nowhere, seems to go on the offensive it perks me up: "This is pretty random, why does she want me on a defensive footing right now?" Irrational jealousy over something completely innocuous definately gets my antennae up. Period or not, you are talking about a work related sports team. Heads up!

You handled it right...there's no point in arguing with women anyway....but given the subject matter, you should keep an eye out.

 

[Epimanes]

I agree.

They seem to be on the rise since the new year. Constantly flaming me and others with feminist drivel --> Blaming men for everything and women for nothing.

Some might be female trolls while the rest are obvious faggots. Anyone coming to this site to tell men how they need to be nicer to women is obviously a white knight faggot.

Its a disturbing trend.

What's funny is you get all defensive like a woman. No where did I blame men. Your defensiveness continues to lower your value here.

I simply stated the true nature of women about how they are dispositioned to be emotional and how a good man could lead his wife out of her negative frame and into his positive frame.

Any man can bounce from cvnt to cvnt with no commitment. But chances are you will die lonely and any of your accidental children will become more fvcked up members of society continuing our downward spiral. I pray all the players here don't have children. We don't need your breed. The world needs stable families to raise succesful children. Not cvnt carouselers.

You guys complain women are just **** carouselers. Are men any different? Men using women and women using men. How about everyone finds a way to end those vicious cycles? Its starts with high quality men who know how to lead their women and families with respect.

Men hold the key to financial support. Women hold the key to sex. Why should either one give those up without proper cause? They shouldn't. You get to know people before you bump your uglies together and take unecessary risks.

Edit to add: this is assuming you have morals. If not then what I said won't matter anyhow.

 

[Don_Dom]

PHM can be a bit over the top, but he's not wrong.

The post above sounds like it was written by a woman. Complete with oversimplifications that miss the entire original points that have been made, condescention, invoking the dreaded dying alone (doesnt get anymore woman than that), and a questioning of morals (laff, btw) all for the purpose of shaming those of the opposite opinion.

I'm tired of the constant red pill this, alpha that here, too, but PHM is spot on. The level of mangina pandering here in the last few weeks has been ridiculous. Yes, it is possible to have a successful marriage. But that doesn't change the fact that the odds, statistically, are against that happening and doesn't change the fact that marriage, particularly when it ends, is a bad deal for men in modern times. It does not change the fact that, statistically, most marriages end in divorce, that most divorces are initiated by women, and that child custody in the best majority of cases goes to women, along with child support and alimony. Those are the FACTS. And men need to be made acutely aware of those facts. Indulging PMS and maintaining frame in an argument will not save you when your wife decides to unleash an attorney and the full weight of family law on your white knight ass.

I'm not a PUA but the assertion that being one means someone is "using" anyone, has children that they aren't responsible for, or is of low morals or etchically lacking is nothing short of absurd and is patently offensive considering most people find themselves here only after being abused by the people and system that you are cheering for. If that's what you think this site is about you are an idiot. Or a troll. Either way, put your lipsick and attitude in your purse and fvck off.

Take it to a promise keepers meeting or church or something. And take some of the other vages with you. The rest of us have bigger fish to fry here.

Yeah, I'm sick of all the red pill and alpha nonsense. Those concepts serve their purposes but they are getting overblown, for sure. But I'm even more sick of the mangina tools that have infested these forums of late. People come here to learn, specificly, how to not be that because that hasn't worked for them so far and theycwant to make changes. Pedistalization of women and making excuses for their bad behavior doesn't help with that in any constructive way. People gave to relearn the "rules" so that they can change, first. Later, they can moderate them as needed. LATER. Peddling this mamby pamby excuse making capitulation for female bad behavior does nothing but muddy the waters for people who, by virtue of being here, are trying to learn the opposite of that. It's not up to us to "break the cycle"....there is no cycle....its up to us to learn how to make the most of being men in a modern world that is hostile to men.

We are here to save men. Not women. Not society. Not your church. MEN. And we certainly are not here to be validation for married guys who, apparently, need to feel better about their situations by foisting their capitulation to women's BS on people who don't have to put up with it.

Go away. This probably isn't the forum for you.

 

[dutchmaster]

You guys are so good and right on track. I never knew about maintaining my 'frame' or any of these terms. I have done it though; at least with my current wife (7+ years) she is hot, cute but crazy as hell + pessimistic. I keep this bytch in my frame for this long and I did not even realize it until I read this. She even puts up with my cheating...go figure!

Funny/sad thing is: I do lose my frame AND CARE about other girls I fall for...stupid me...so I guess the secret is to not fall in love...

BTW, if my dad was to find out about all my whining on this and other forums, he would disown me. He was a natural DJ, his last gf was 19 while he was 60 and has a 6 yr old daughter... yet he always told me when I was little: ALL women like to be teased, yet most of them if not all, will only have this affection for men similar to the affection they feel for a pet...

Hey man, like the wise Nas once said,

"It's easy to get the psvvy, just don't fall in love"

 

[SAYNO]

PHM can be a bit over the top, but he's not wrong.

The post above sounds like it was written by a woman. Complete with oversimplifications that miss the entire original points that have been made, condescention, invoking the dreaded dying alone (doesnt get anymore woman than that), and a questioning of morals (laff, btw) all for the purpose of shaming those of the opposite opinion.

I'm tired of the constant red pill this, alpha that here, too, but PHM is spot on. The level of mangina pandering here in the last few weeks has been ridiculous. Yes, it is possible to have a successful marriage. But that doesn't change the fact that the odds, statistically, are against that happening and doesn't change the fact that marriage, particularly when it ends, is a bad deal for men in modern times. It does not change the fact that, statistically, most marriages end in divorce, that most divorces are initiated by women, and that child custody in the best majority of cases goes to women, along with child support and alimony. Those are the FACTS. And men need to be made acutely aware of those facts. Indulging PMS and maintaining frame in an argument will not save you when your wife decides to unleash an attorney and the full weight of family law on your white knight ass.

I'm not a PUA but the assertion that being one means someone is "using" anyone, has children that they aren't responsible for, or is of low morals or etchically lacking is nothing short of absurd and is patently offensive considering most people find themselves here only after being abused by the people and system that you are cheering for. If that's what you think this site is about you are an idiot. Or a troll. Either way, put your lipsick and attitude in your purse and fvck off.

Take it to a promise keepers meeting or church or something. And take some of the other vages with you. The rest of us have bigger fish to fry here.

Yeah, I'm sick of all the red pill and alpha nonsense. Those concepts serve their purposes but they are getting overblown, for sure. But I'm even more sick of the mangina tools that have infested these forums of late. People come here to learn, specificly, how to not be that because that hasn't worked for them so far and theycwant to make changes. Pedistalization of women and making excuses for their bad behavior doesn't help with that in any constructive way. People gave to relearn the "rules" so that they can change, first. Later, they can moderate them as needed. LATER. Peddling this mamby pamby excuse making capitulation for female bad behavior does nothing but muddy the waters for people who, by virtue of being here, are trying to learn the opposite of that. It's not up to us to "break the cycle"....there is no cycle....its up to us to learn how to make the most of being men in a modern world that is hostile to men.

We are here to save men. Not women. Not society. Not your church. MEN. And we certainly are not here to be validation for married guys who, apparently, need to feel better about their situations by foisting their capitulation to women's BS on people who don't have to put up with it.

Go away. This probably isn't the forum for you.

100% spot on! This needs to be plastered in 24k gold! And wheter anyone likes it or not its the pure unadulterated truth. But the truth is always unsettling to those who have something to hide or who are unwilling to change, same reason why Jesus spoke in parables. Because the true heart condition or character was made manifest upon hearing his words. Therefore let him that has ears to listen take heed and learn!

 

[PlayHer Man]

What's funny is you get all defensive like a woman. No where did I blame men. Your defensiveness continues to lower your value here.

I simply stated the true nature of women about how they are dispositioned to be emotional and how a good man could lead his wife out of her negative frame and into his positive frame.

Any man can bounce from cvnt to cvnt with no commitment. But chances are you will die lonely and any of your accidental children will become more fvcked up members of society continuing our downward spiral. I pray all the players here don't have children. We don't need your breed. The world needs stable families to raise succesful children. Not cvnt carouselers.

You guys complain women are just **** carouselers. Are men any different? Men using women and women using men. How about everyone finds a way to end those vicious cycles? Its starts with high quality men who know how to lead their women and families with respect.

Men hold the key to financial support. Women hold the key to sex. Why should either one give those up without proper cause? They shouldn't. You get to know people before you bump your uglies together and take unecessary risks.

Edit to add: this is assuming you have morals. If not then what I said won't matter anyhow.

How am I defensive when you are the one whining like a faggot? :crackup:

Also.. if you fear dying alone then you are too beta for words. Crawl back into your mother's womb ya big baby.

 

[Epimanes]

How am I defensive when you are the one whining like a faggot? :crackup:

Also.. if you fear dying alone then you are too beta for words. Crawl back into your mother's womb ya big baby.

Typical woman arguing strategy. When they don't have valid statements they reword stuff and make shyt up thats almost what was said, but not quite. Putting words out that were not said.

I'm whinning? Explain how I'm whinning.

I'm fearing dieing alone? I think not.. No where did I say I did. I'm not resporting to name calling. There's no need. I don't have anything to prove to you guys.

You all invited me here when the married guy section opened up. Everyones advice to the married guys is negative. Next her.. Spin more plates.. How does that help? I came to help married guys not put people down. I came to offer hope that not all women are nasty like you claim they are. I am cool with you disagreeing.. Any of you. But not one of you has been married or is as happy with their woman as I am after so long. And THAT holds value. I only need one plate.. My wifes.. And she's rare china so I don't and won't drop that plate. All of your opinions are biased and skewed because your all hurt from low quality women ripping your hearts out. I feel for ya.. I really do. Everyone deserves to be loved and cared for by their signifigant other but some of the advice here is counter productive.

 

[nikil]

Wow, fantasyland. There is no perfect relationship because we are all imperfect people. If you are a sheep, you have to find a way to live with that embarrassment, or opt out. Stuff happens, including rejection and loss. But if you live in the first world, you aint watching your kids starve. So get over yourself. The world is not going to end, just because you can't get any.

 

[steveparish]

women aren't really any more psycho's than men are. The ones that are treated right are responding right. It's not a fair world, and for too long women were considered less than men - just like animals. And that's not right either. It's like the slavery issue. It continues on in this century in the form of rebellion of the enslaved race towards the people that beat them into submission. It's the law of sow and reap. That's all. Not all women, just like not all men are smart enough or confident enough to be who they are. Reality suggests that we are interdependent, and if we fisure this out, we work together in harmony. There's a very good place in this world for both sexes. If you find a smart woman who will figure this out, keep her! Till then, good luck on your search. Remember to treat her right and you'll reap what you sowed.

 

[dasein]

women aren't really any more psycho's than men are.

In some ways this is true, while women are generally far more irrational and crazy than men, they are also cowardly and weak in certain ways, so rarely go full out Dahmer or Gacy. Men are psycho in lower %s but more competent at it, lol.

and for too long women were considered less than men - just like animals. And that's not right either. It's like the slavery issue. It continues on in this century in the form of rebellion of the enslaved race towards the people that beat them into submission.

I know you're just trolling here, but when you type the above, it reads to reasonable, educated people with an understanding of real history just like "bigfoot came over the lollipop bridge riding on a unicorn and created the world out of the leprechaun's gold." So that's how people will associate your username in all future posts. You don't care though, as you were just planning on burning that username anyway right?

If any gender was historically treated as animals, and I'm not claiming one was, men have a far, far stronger case for that particular victimology. Stop getting your history off of cereal boxes, jezebel and huffpost.

EDIT: also must spread rep before repping don dom again.

 

[betheman]

You all invited me here when the married guy section opened up. Everyones advice to the married guys is negative. Next her.. Spin more plates.. How does that help? I came to help married guys not put people down. I came to offer hope that not all women are nasty like you claim they are. I am cool with you disagreeing.. Any of you. But not one of you has been married or is as happy with their woman as I am after so long. And THAT holds value. I only need one plate.. My wifes.. And she's rare china so I don't and won't drop that plate. All of your opinions are biased and skewed because your all hurt from low quality women ripping your hearts out. I feel for ya.. I really do. Everyone deserves to be loved and cared for by their signifigant other but some of the advice here is counter productive.

I havent invited you anywhere, no one is saying all women are nasty, personally I believe them to be highly duplicitous and actors, but then so can men be. as for rare china???? what would you do if you found out rare china suddenly developed afew chips and wa sserving her goods up to someone else?
overall your writing looks a lot like woman speak and it also appears to me there is something disingenuine about your ever so perfect accoutn of your life and marriage. and yes, I have been married before, for 21 years

 

[CJ 101]

What's up with feminine beta fags like "Epimanes" coming on this forum with feminine advice ?? Guys like Epimanes, Skinnyguy and a couple others know nothing about women and the plight of the mdern man. What the hell's happening on this forum? ?

 

[Epimanes]

Bumping this old thread so others can read the original message.

All women are Psycho.. And often unstable. Its up to us men to figure out which ones are worth putting up with and being the stable, rock solid, unmoving half of a relationship. Framing yourself to your woman as someone she can rely on.

As for my "disengenuine" account of my marriage here.. Its never been "perfect". Nothing is ever perfect or black and white. But overall its been pretty darn good considering what we have been through as a couple and how long we have been together. I hope one day all you men out there find that special one that meets all your needs and in return you meet all hers. Its give and take in equal portions. Love is not unconditional... Ever. There is always conditions.

Epi

 

[The Duke]

Epimanes- you make a valid point, but I have a question.

You say that women are unstable, psycho, emotional and have difficulties controlling their emotions. All of this is their "nature".

Its also well documented that men are naturally promiscuous. So if its in a mans nature, then why isn't the woman expected to accept us for who we are? You are expecting men to accept women for who they are.

I've got a pretty solid ltr. She gets over emotional from time to time for no rational reason. I've worked with her for 2years on controlling her emotions and helping her realize the negative impact of not controlling herself has on our relationship. It hasn't been easy, but she has improved. Its all about learned behaviors and whats acceptable.

Too many puss bag guys in her past refused to lay the law down and allowed her to get away with her "manipulating" emotions. They were too afraid of losing a hot little thing. Funny thing is letting a woman get away with her schitty emotional games doesn't lead her to happiness. Its about like raising a kid with no structure/rules on behavior. You end up creating a little devil with emotional problems.

The further this society has gone away from religion and a mother and father raising a kid together under one roof in a healthy loving relationship, the more emotional problems and higher divorce rates we have seen. What you are seeing today is kids being raised by women with little to no male guidance and the result is a population of entitled & lazy whiners with emotional issues. I'm not convinced women should have it all. We gave them equal rights years ago and what have they done with it???

PlayHerMan nailed it when he said this. He made a strong case and you blew him off like the moderators of this board have because you didn't like his style of delivery.


Women have no problem controling themselves when they need to keep a job or raise kids.. so why can't they handle their emotions when dealing with men? See.. that's how you know its a scam and this emotional bullsh!t is pure manipulation women use to gain leverage.
Women have been using emotions as a get out of jail free card since the beginning of civilization. Only recently have men become so ignorant to allow women to use this excuse only when its convenient.

And here is something else to think about.......if a woman is willing to control her emotions to get something she wants, why doesn't she control them when she isn't getting what she wants? My point is they pick and choose when they control their emotions and when they don't. Its based on whatever is best for them and defined as manipulation either positive or negative.