All women are psychos!

[Epimanes]

There will always be emotionally troubling times with any woman in a relationship of any length. It will never be a perfect relationship.

After all.. They are women. People, wired totally different than us. They operate with a global mind set. Not compartments like us men. They operate with feelings because they are emotional creatures. That is why it is up to us to pick the right one that we can put up with. Your women will have many many times where she gets emotionaly out of hand regardless of how she was raised or your frame or game. Women do not operate on logic.. Almost never. Which is why we as men must frame the relationship and be able to recognize when women are being overly emotional (sometimes its justified sometimes its not) and use our groudned emotional states of mind to keep things in check. This doesn't mean dismiss her feelings but to keep our heads on our shoulders when the going gets tough because of their emotional reactions.

In otherwords her state of mind (any woman) is like a pendulum. When it swings towards you things will be in your favor and when it swings away don't worry too much because it will swing back again if you don't lose control of your own emotions and get drawn into her frame.

If you can keep control of YOUR emotional reactions and avoid an angry outburst that further fuels their already emotional disposition they inherit as women. Protect eachother from your worst selves. Then you will be well on your way to making a lasting LTR or marriage.

This does not mean you should put up with it for long terms either or allow her to walk on you. But it always takes 2 to tango. Often times there is plenty of good reasons for a womans emotional reactions but its no excuse. However since we as men are dispositioned to be less emotional its our job to pull the relationship out of the funk or at least not let it escelate. Clean your side of the street (deal with her complaints without being overly emotional about it) and she will only be walking in her own dirt and can then descide if she wants to clean her side or not by you leading the way first so she can follow.

Epi

 

[TheException]

Excellent post.

The only problem I have is the title.......unless you did it on purpose to get the "butthurt, blame everything on women" crowd in. That's just pure genius.

 

[Epimanes]

On purpose..

 

[TheException]

 

[DonJuanit0]

great post

 

[Johnny Alias]

Excellent post. I would add that while them being emotional creatures is universal, the degree, frequency, and way in which they express their emotions is something that should be paid CLOSE attention to.

Do they get severely emotional while PMS'ing? How bad? Does it happen many times in between? Is it growing in frequency? Is it influenced by alcohol? Are you on the receiving end of verbal or physical abuse?

Women are emotional. I think we all agree on that. Not responding in kind and being the level head in these situations and as the OP said "not adding fuel to the fire" is of utmost importance. However, every man has his breaking point. Id be concerned if a woman kept pushing my buttons trying to get a reaction out of me. That type of behavior tends to continue.

Still. Even in a perfect relationship the pendulum is going to swing. Everyone should acknowledge that and make the effort not to swing back... so to speak.

 

[Epimanes]

Excellent post. I would add that while them being emotional creatures is universal, the degree, frequency, and way in which they express their emotions is something that should be paid CLOSE attention to.

Do they get severely emotional while PMS'ing? How bad? Does it happen many times in between? Is it growing in frequency? Is it influenced by alcohol? Are you on the receiving end of verbal or physical abuse?

Women are emotional. I think we all agree on that. Not responding in kind and being the level head in these situations and as the OP said "not adding fuel to the fire" is of utmost importance. However, every man has his breaking point. Id be concerned if a woman kept pushing my buttons trying to get a reaction out of me. That type of behavior tends to continue.

Still. Even in a perfect relationship the pendulum is going to swing. Everyone should acknowledge that and make the effort not to swing back... so to speak.

Yup I agree. I couldn't help but make this thread after reading so many threads BPD this and BPD that... If guys haven't figured out all women were born bipolar to some degree.. Then they will be spinning wheels for the rest of their lives. At some point if you want to find one woman.. You gotta realize they are all crazy and psycho and pick the one you can maintain frame and put up with.

The normal women are the ones that recognize they are insane. Haha

 

[Johnny Alias]

Agreed. My ex bpd and I broke up about 5 months ago and I still struggle with the decision despite me knowing she was BAD for me. She was an alcoholic as well and would RAGE at we when she got wasted. That was the Witch bpd. When sober she was sick often or had a drama of someone doing her wrong. That's the Waif type.

It was brutal. I'd get a total of two weeks of heaven every month and then two weeks of HELL.

I even had an alarm on my phone to let me know when she was pmsing when everything is MUCH worse.

And I still miss her! God it's hard to get her out of my head!

The thing to realize in these situations is that there isn't any hope of a happy ending. Alcoholism gets progressively worse... Always. BPD is almost impossible to treat and 95% of time if they get therapy it is just to appease you.

These women don't love you. They don't love anyone. A certain degree of crazy is to be expected with females, but this shvt will destroy you and your kids if you have any.

Wide berth here. Look for the red flags.

 

[cgr68311]

You guys are so good and right on track. I never knew about maintaining my 'frame' or any of these terms. I have done it though; at least with my current wife (7+ years) she is hot, cute but crazy as hell + pessimistic. I keep this bytch in my frame for this long and I did not even realize it until I read this. She even puts up with my cheating...go figure!

Funny/sad thing is: I do lose my frame AND CARE about other girls I fall for...stupid me...so I guess the secret is to not fall in love...

BTW, if my dad was to find out about all my whining on this and other forums, he would disown me. He was a natural DJ, his last gf was 19 while he was 60 and has a 6 yr old daughter... yet he always told me when I was little: ALL women like to be teased, yet most of them if not all, will only have this affection for men similar to the affection they feel for a pet...

 

[DragonBlood]

most of them if not all, will only have this affection for men similar to the affection they feel for a pet...

So they only care about us about as much as their pets. Thats an interesting perspective.

Ive always cared more about my career and pets than my girl, but I wasnt aware they were playing this game by default.

 

[Epimanes]

Bump.. For all the guys who think their gf is BPD.

 

[Tictac]

If you met a psycho today, you met a psycho.

If you met 10 psychos today, you are the psycho.

 

[Tictac]

If you met a psycho today, you met a psycho.

If you met 10 psychos today, you are the psycho.

 

[Epimanes]

Haha. I am lolin so hard today. Thanks for the comic relief.

*heads to the gym*

Edit: you know I'm no troll pairplusroyalflush... Dunno what ur beef is. All women ARE psycho and u know it. *shrugs*

 

[PlayHer Man]

Women have no problem controling themselves when they need to keep a job or raise kids.. so why can't they handle their emotions when dealing with men?

See.. that's how you know its a scam and this emotional bullsh!t is pure manipulation women use to gain leverage.

You have already fallen for this horse sh!t to the point you just made a thread telling men how they should mold themselves to suit the needs of women and people are agreeing with you. :crackup: :crackup:

That's the depth and power of female manipulation AS WELL AS the cost of not being a wise man.

As it worked in the past --> Its a woman's job to serve a man. Not the other way around.

Women have been using emotions as a get out of jail free card since the beginning of civilization. Only recently have men become so ignorant to allow women to use this excuse only when its convenient.

Hillary Clinton can run for President.. yet she is too emotional to not act like a c*nt in a romantic relationship?

Lets get real.

 

[Epimanes]

Women have no problem controling themselves when they need to keep a job or raise kids.. so why can't they handle their emotions when dealing with men?

And what do you know about women and them keepin jobs and raising kids? Have you been married for 16 years? Obviously you know nothing about women then with a statement like this. Every woman has times of a rollercoaster when it comes to emotions. A lot of them bring home their frusterations from their jobs and bounce it off their hubbies to get a solid frame opinion on their issues. And kids? Have you never seen an emotionally stressed woman over react with her kids? Women need men to be emotionally stable in those times because they are not!

Did you know women and men are not only different on the outside physicaly but their brains even look different. You can hold up and male and female brain and tell them apart! Women are different and they are programmed to be emotional. Sure they can keep it under wraps for periods of time but eventually they will have a blow out and need a real man to keep his frame and understand she's just a woman and that its nothing more than a guy should expect from one when they have been in an LTR.

You got a lot to learn about the long term stuff with women Playherman. Your tactics might work short term. Even a few months but eventually your woman is going to lose control of herself for one reason or another or no reason at all and a real man will keep his cool and let her blow her steam then respectfully let her know her outburst is uncalled for and leave it at that.

Epi

Get your head out of your azz boy.

 

[Skyline]

Women have no problem controling themselves when they need to keep a job or raise kids.. so why can't they handle their emotions when dealing with men

Because attraction isn't logical.

A woman's emotions isn't some life altering "insanity" plea that woman can even use in court. If it were, then wouldn't it work? Their emotions just seems like a big deal because most men aren't equipped to deal with it like they should. They deal with it in a faggy pedastilizing way. So they make it seem like this big deal. I know you're talking about the instances from which women will try and manipulate you(gold diggers) but that is an entirely different situation from which they use their skewed "attraction" as an actual weapon.

Pretty much all woman are aware of their emotions, but whether or not she can control them distinguishes her from a low or high quality woman. If she can control them, then shell have no problem doing tasks that require logic. If she can't, then you will know because she will give out every red flag in your book. However as soon as attraction is thrown in, that's when their attraction side takes over and diminishes the logic side making them seem "unstable" or "uncontrollable." Unless you do things that are unattractive or she finds someone else, she can't simply turn it on or off. Just like how men can't just "stop" being attracted to a gorgeous girl. They are aware of their emotions obviously, but controlling it is a different story- especially when attraction is thrown in.

I wouldn't say mold themselves by the way, that would imply that we became more like them. Its more of adapting to their level if anything.

 

[skinnyguy]

The downfall of men is obsession with women.

Women don't think about men even 25% as much as we think about women. When we are single, it consumes us. When women are single, they are out having fun with girlfriends.

Essentially, when women get with men, they have nothing to lose because they can find another one in a split second. Men have to walk on needles around women because we fear losing them since its so hard to hook up.

Thus, women can act any way they want with us. We can't do the same because they'll drop us in a heartbeat.

 

[Epimanes]

Pretty much all woman are aware of their emotions, but whether or not she can control them distinguishes her from a low or high quality woman.

Or they can learn as they mature.. Or learn by being guided by a well balanced man.

Nothing is black or white only.

 

[GotED?]

Someone burn this useless thread please and put it out of its misery.