I think this post is surprisingly shallow in it's attempt to protect the sisterhood. Should some chick be getting on her knees as fast as she can for the "good" guy? Maybe not but let's cut through the BS. Can we simply dispense with all these women want are a great guy, with a sense of humor, caring, empathetic, blah, blah, blah?
Most women, not all, as you seem to claim that everyone says on here, are out for themselves, out for what they can get from guys. They want resources, primarily for themselves and somewhat for their offspring. Many times, the guy who she ends up choosing is the lucky chump who will be supplying the resources for her and her offspring. She little to no feeling for the chump, at least not beyond what he can do for her and the feelings of what he can do for her drudges up.
Look, like it or not, once she's weighed down with kids, she should be pretty happy that any high quality guy, nice chump usually, will pay her any attention at all. Women are usually the arbiters of the downfall of their relationships. I've seen it before, multiple times, once they get married and have kids, they get lazy as it relates to the relationship. They're invested at that point, they get a pension whether or not they do any more work at that point. They don't care anymore.
And this in turn, causes the guys to stop caring as well. Why in the hell would any guy continue to work his backside off to preserve the relationship if there's nothing to get out of it, except perhaps the lack of hen pecking in the relationship/marriage? Women initiate the divorce most of the time. Now why do you think that is? Because they would stand to lose something? No, they gain. They gain alimony, child support and the never ending enjoyment of knowing that they have separated a man from his kids.