All UK DJ's post your pickup experiences here!!

[Guitar_Whizz]

This is a post for all UK DJ's. We are aware how hard it is to pickup girls in the UK in normal, everyday places like the street, library, bus stop, bus, train, shops etc, so why don't we all post our experiences here and we can help each other. How many of you UK DJ's actually regularly go out to develop your DJ skils? Let's start a post!

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

I'll start the post off with a street pickup I did a few weeks ago. I live in north west England by the way. The girl I wanted to approach was walking towards me, and when she got close enough, here's how the conversation went:-

ME: 'Excuse me, do you know the way to the library by any chance?'
HER: 'Umm, sorry no'
ME: 'Are you not from here?'
HER: 'No'
ME: 'Oh ok.......can I be completely honest...I just thought you were kinda cute and I needed a way to start a conversation with you....I'm feeling kinda crazy today....what's your name?'
HER: 'Sarah.....well I've kinda got to go now'
ME: 'Oh ok, cya'

Ok I admit, I could've asked if she was single, and tried to get her number, but it was one of my first ever street pickup attempts and I was nervous as hell!! But hey, I'll do better next time. The girl was friendly enough, she seemed VERY surprised though. I guess that's because UK guys rarely approach girls in such places. I'm sick of all the typical, AFC UK guys.
I'll post more of my UK pickup experiences here soon when I have time.

 

[Y Trallwng Am Byth]

Taking a girl from Swinton (know it?) out for a night out and meeting a couple of my friends in Manchester tomorrow night. Hit a few bars and then a nightclub..we'll see what happens. If I get up early enough I'll hit it during the day as well to do some shopping but I doubt I'd do what you did.

 

[Duff]

I find that when im in pubs bars clubs etc i go straight away for C+F otherwise you seem a bit boring!!!
On weekends of course!! Your out to have fun init!!!!

 

[MrWilly]

Woo, UK folks

I find the american pickups well cheesy & g@y lol, no offence, but its well weird.

Personally I find the best place to pick girls up are at stuff like parties, anywhere really, ive picked them up at work, parties, pubs, 6th form, ATC, anywhere imaginable.

Just do your DJ thang, an close for the number/skip the number and do her that same nite

I can cold approach a girl....its easy enough, takes balls, I dunno if its the DJ in me, or the student "couldent give a toss" attitude, lol....but i really dont care what the outcome is.

Dates are the main UK/USA difference i think, they do it all very formally, "movies" "resturants" etc, here its far less structured, do what ya want, keep her guessin & things interesting, NOTHING, but NOTHING seems gayer to me than appraoching a gierl and asking her out on a *date* to the movies or sumthin :'( lolololol, muppets. Jus dont work here!

I wouldent say UK people are any more reserved, just the way stuff is done is differnt, comes form our "reserved" culture, that dating isnt as it is in the USA, as i said, "dtaing" seems well wank to me. Jus go with it


I dont think ive EVER, taken a girl out ona "date", ye, sometimes weve ended up seeing a movie, jus thru boredom mainly, or, deciding that sex in the back row would be a giggle......but, never have i had a formally setup "date", everything is informal, and hell, i have had no shortage of girls lately, since my DJism has got itself sorted and the AFC in me has departed .

To name a brief few Katie (my GF), Krysi (close friend/fuk buddy), Kat (again, friend & fuk buddy), Tara is a close mate, loads of kino, things are goin well Nadine asked me out the other nite, im keepin her guessing at the moment, but she'd be up for firend/fuk buddy also.........and thats jus a few that spring to mind.


I like a lot of the stuff on these forums, its ace, and can be directly applied to a UK situation, all bar the "date" stuff really, and theres slight variation with the roles of mobile fones in the UK too etc.

Cheers folks!

PS. Im in Gloucester/Bristol area, Swanswa Uni as of Sept

 

[MrWilly]

^

 

[Templeton]

Great stuff MrWilly, love your attitude! Agree with what you say about the whole formal date thing. It is a little "wank" as you put it. Later.

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

Mr Willy's comments were interesting. However, I don't agree with everything you said. Regarding dates, I think it's fine to call a girl 3-5 days after getting the number and invite her out for coffee, or for lunch etc. I've done this with a few UK girls and it works fine. Maybe people in the UK don't as often refer to meeting up with a girl as a 'date', but I do not see that the concept of 'dating' is just a US thing.
You also said that the best places to pickup girls are at parties, sixth form, etc. Well my opinion is that most UK guys meet girls at bars, parties, school, college, univirsity or by being introduced through friends. But as DJ's, we are not 'most guys', and we recognise the opportunities to pickup girls in ALL places, and that includes cold pickups.
I feel that cold pickups are possible in the UK, but they require a LOT of balls. I also feel that if a UK DJ can get good at cold pickups, he will have FAR more success with girls than an average, AFC UK guy who can only pickup in bars or through friends.
Another point about cold approaches in the UK is that in my experience you need to use a conversation opener that innocently slips you into a conversation with the girl, rather than it looking like you're just trying to pick her up. For example, if you were in a library and you're standing next to a girl who's browsing a bookshelf, you could say 'have you found anything interesting?' then you're in. You can then lead to number close after a conversation.
Also, in the UK we tend to refer to picking up a girl as 'chatting her up' or 'pulling'.
Final point...most people in the UK have a mobile phone, so it's more common to go for a girl's mobile number than her home number. The text messaging craze in the UK is better left for AFC's though, in my opinion. As DJ's, we should have the balls to speak to a girl on the phone and arrange to meet.
So in summary, UK DJ's are going against the grain of society, but in the long run we will achieve more happiness in ourselves and way more success with girls than any average UK guy.

 

[MrWilly]

Woooooooooooooooo...its friday night an i jus got in! time for an update.


Well, tongiht, friday, what can ya say? well, for me "oh fcuk, im working tonight"... arse, wlel, that means no going out on a mission for slags then.

So, i goto work, and about 4pm, (my shift is 3.30pm-11pm), and this girl approaches me in uniform, jus to intorduce herself, she works in same place, but we'd never met before, anyhow, she was 8/10, said hiyas etc, and turns out she been there 8months (ive been there 3yrs an we never met yet!).

Hello

So, evening goes ok, im not really paying attention, its friday, my mind is elsewhere (my mind is out on the razz even tho my body is not ).

About 5.30 i goto the front counter (i was workin out back), but i'd finished my stuff, an was bored silly, so decide to go talk to her, an she gets real flirty.......my mind suddenly comes back to reality an goes "hello!!", time to get my mack on then. Loads of chatting about what she does (if anyone hasnt, goto the DJ Bible and read how to converse....i used to be poo, but i can jus follow leads now, its ace, women like talkin about themselves it seems). Start to introduce a bit of kino....night goes on, have to do sum more stuff for 30mins.

I return, we get talkin about sex, hell, why not . Jus about her lack of BF, when she lost it, what my situation is etc, anyhows, she basicly wants a fuk buddy as she is gagging cuz she hasnt had any for 6weeks (fook dat, ive not had any since last wednesday an im about to burst myself!). Looooooads more kino, she then grabs my bum, makes some comment about how it feels like i got no skiddies on (boxers!), an how my bum is ace (yup, it is....EXCERSISE!). so, then the touching goes from non-sexual (kino), to sexual touching, cuddlin, rubbing her bum etc...jus messin about, ended up with a mini water fight etc, the silly ho got me soaked :'( lol!.

THEN! SHE closed for the number , woo, no effort and said she needed it to get my address to come round an have sex with me, fair do's (she was saying it "jokily" to test the water). We exchanged numbers, sorted....kissed her a few times throughout the evening, luvli!.


Soooo, thats how Mr Willy transferred a potentially boring as fook firday night at work, into sumthin much more fun God damn pulling birds is addictive .

Anyone else got anything to report? (PS. Uk folks...i work in a motorway services on the M5 if any of you was passing by )

 

[Duff]

I got a ******* of a girl that likes me's sister. hahahaha older sister aswell

she was average. girls should learn how to give good head

 

[Duff]

thats blow job blow-job bl*w job

 

[MrWilly]

^Up^ for the UK lads

Well, its saturday night tonight, and all things going well, I'll be out, jus a pub crawl I think, so, we shall see.

Also, seeing Christine tommorow (the girl i was on about from last night....sorted)


Has anyone else noticed friends commenting as you chnage from AFC to DJ? A lot of my mates make comments and ask me "how i do it", lol . Im out with Kingz tonight, my best night, total AFC, I shall try and teach him a few DJ principles

 

[Y Trallwng Am Byth]

Was on top form last night. Pulled one of the girls I was with for about an hour, and was talking to groups of 4+ girls as well. It was one of their 21st birthday's starting at midnight - it was about 11:30pm so I told to come find me for a drink. if she had come looking, she probably would have found me getting off with my 8.

 

[MrWilly]

Update...well, nothin came of tonight, no girls out really as we ended up in a smallish pub that, eveyone knows everyone...not my scene. So, i was just chatting to Kingz, trying to eductate him, might print him a few pages of the DJ bible, he needs it, biiiig time poor lad!

How was everyone elses nite? Any sucesses?

 

[MrWilly]

OIIIII, UK Guys, POST! lol.

Todays update

boring poo really, was up at 5:45am to goto work (on a sunday, ye, i agree.....fuk dat ) Anyways, Christine was there, but i was very busy, didnt get much time with her, so, i made the most of what little time we did have

Got a bollocking from one of the managers, lol, I was jus chatting to Christine, an Mary waves me over (imagine a 50yr old, female, hitler ), "Hiya Mary, i was jus showing Christine how to use the Crdit Card machine, she wasnt sure" "Phil....I wasnt born yesturday, she was chatting you up " "Erm, well, ye, sorry bout that "



Anyhows had a bit of fun with that, it soon spread about the place an people were making comment, i dont care, hehe, all fun (its amazing how other girls responded though, suddenly their ILs shot up a fair bit when they realised I was macking Christine)

Ahwell, didnt get much time as i said, kissed her a few times, kinod her, thas about it, ahwell, she said she would call me sumtime for that sex she was on about, lol

PS. She made a comment i LOVED!, cuz i was just acting myself, DJing away, she goes, "Fcukin hell Phil, your sooooo sure of yourself & confident" well...naturally!

Anyways, thas about it, mite go out tonight, doubt it, im nakered.

UK Guys, get posting!

 

[Mukester]

Man -i worked last nite, stuck with some nice looking (7/8) austrailian bird, who unfortunately was ANNOYING as hell (ie a nutcase). Apparantly tho she likes me -which is kinda strange as i called her a fat lesbian on several occassions throughout the evening (-Unintentional neghits maybe?).

I guess when you really dont give a sh1te, it can strangely make the whole task a lot easier. Hmmm.....

Has anyone else noticed friends commenting as you chnage from AFC to DJ? A lot of my mates make comments and ask me "how i do it"

Over 2 months i got a repuation round my department, at my work, with my mates as a 'ladies man'- Man this site is great!!!....still not 100% happy with my technique yet though, so will be improving myself this summer with the boot camp (see Bible).

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

Hi again guys. After a weekend of going to some bars, I have come to the conclusion that bars are NOT a place to meet quality girls. All the girls are dipsy, slutty and lacking any decent personality. I really do not like the type of girls that go to bars.
However, I still find cold pickups in everyday places pretty difficult to do. It's just finding the right opportunity that's difficult. But now that the weather's getting good there are lots of fine chicks about!
Have any of you UK DJ's done any pickups in everyday places? Please tell me how they went!

 

[MrWilly]

Unfortunatly, my cold pickups aint all that good Not had much sucess. (If sucess is translated into sex, ive had none ).

I generally pickup girls in areas where im close to them for a period of time, ie, work, at a party, ATC, college, etc etc....my game takes a bit of time, as such, cold pickups havent worked that well.

BUT, this is an area I MUST IMPROVE UPON Not jus gunna ignore it, time to refer to the DJ Bible i think....do the same mate, lets see how we get on .


PS. Im off to ITC Brecon with the Army for a week, till next wednesday now, so catch ya all then, have a great weekend lads

 

[Nicholas Hill]

Hey guys!

Bumping this thread because I want to add to it soon...

 

[The_King]

UK guys....

Thought, I would inform you of my escapades...

Well, at the moment the club scene pick-up is going well. I agree about the cold pick up but I am sure it can be done, just abit harder.

Mr Willy, I agree I tend to pick up best at work or where I was around them for a short time. At my student job, I could not stop pulling. I made it a challenge to pull a good looking chrsitmas temp every year, which I did. Last time, I went to work there in my xmas break they had a photo wall of all the employees, how great, I made my top 3, and then found out who they were and when they worked then ....worked the DJ magic. The problem now is I work where there are about 3 women ..all old mingers. forget that.

Its all good though at the moment, have one Fvck buddy and 4 other women who I am trying to take to the fvck buddy level, just kiss closing them when I see them at the moment. But, know I can go around my local club and pull more than one woman... I do the choosing.

I have a new way of looking at picking up women, which is great for your confidence its

"They must fancy me"

When you think like that it , for me it gives me that attitude, no fear.