All these women, who, are in their 30s, job = under $40k, yet they have all this money? Parents?

[Poonani Maker]

Where do they get all this money? I mean, to travel all over, or buy a ton of **** domestically? I mean, good-looking (though aging), yet tat'd probably or obviously, been ran through the ringer. They are either running an Ultimate Deception game, or they Really do have a money source from somewhere other than themselves. No kids, doesn't want kids (yet about 90% of all women want kids, so these type are an aberration). You see them mostly on OLD. Job is like a conservationist, or environmental, wildlife preservation or whatever. Can't be more than $35K. So I'm guessing this ones are still milking the parents or a trust fund. Must be nice, but you see more of these women who have the capacity to travel all over the world at the drop of a hat, like, I don't know many people in reality around me, in my everyday life that can do that, and most women, that I meet in my everyday life, are trapped or bound locally will not much dust to make ends meet, unless they have another source i.e. trust fund, parents. They have no guilt, they have no shame because NO ONE shames them. Woman's number one Fear is Public Shaming.

We, as dudes, should SHAME them constantly. I know it won't get you laid, but if we all did it, they'd go crazy and probably cry and wanna, just, Die (over even the *hint* of public shaming).

 

[Skyline]

If you don't have kids, $40k a year is a lot of money.

$3,300 a month,

$1,200 on rent if they live alone $600 if with a roommate, insurance and car payments $300, electricity, gas, and other hygenic products is about $300. Food ranges from $100-$150 unless they eat a lot. Clothes, $200.

Even if they lived alone, still making $1,500~ a month, which is a nice chunk of change, to travel the world in a couple of months. Could also be using credit as well.

 

[Poonani Maker]

If you don't have kids, $40k a year is a lot of money.

$3,300 a month,

$1,200 on rent if they live alone $600 if with a roommate, insurance and car payments $300, electricity, gas, and other hygenic products is about $300. Food ranges from $100-$150 unless they eat a lot. Clothes, $200.

Even if they lived alone, still making $1,500~ a month, which is a nice chunk of change, to travel the world in a couple of months. Could also be using credit as well.

What about a new car every 5 years, and on and on and on, impulse buying...40K isn't jack ****. She'll never OWN her own house, and will be dirt poor in old age, Unless....she has like I said, a trust fund, so forever Backup. That's why she can be so "independent," not needed a "man."

 

[Skyline]

What about a new car every 5 years, and on and on and on, impulse buying...40K isn't jack ****. She'll never OWN her own house, and will be dirt poor in old age, Unless....she has like I said, a trust fund, so forever Backup. That's why she can be so "independent," not needed a "man."

I said every couple of months. Profiting $1,500 a month is a lot and if she has a roommate then it's a lot closer to $2,100.

She can very much afford a new car every five years. Especially if she has a roommate to split cost of living with then she can also fuel her binge buying.

She can put away $1,000 a month and go on a trip around the world in about a year while still having money in her savings.

If she manages her credit properly, then there is no excuse on why she won't be able to buy her own house later down the road.

But I do see what you mean, most women, including my sisters, are somewhat of a financial furnace but there are some who know how to manage their money to a degree.

 

[Wilko]

See it all the time in Aus too.

They'll never come right out and say it, but I think most still expect to find a beta bucks to provide a nice soft-landing in their late thirties. Can't remember the numbers but women are (still) notoriously bad at saving for retirement.

Not my problem thankfully.

Makes for some good schadenfreude though

 

[Asmodeus]

I make around 40k, I am a blue collar trades guy. I live by myself in a small 1 bedroom, am thrifty in most aspects, have no debt, and have saved up a good amount of money for an eventual business plan I have. Could very easily put that money saved up toward a down payment on a house and get a moderately good home with it, but I have other plans for that money. Could possibly buy a new car every 5 years, but I do not need to and have other plans for my savings. Only one card that I use mostly as a debit card, no credit debt at all. Not milking my parents as they basically disowned me... Where I live the median family income is just above 40k, and that includes the possibility of a family likely with kids and possibly 2 incomes, not typically just one person. If I would spend all that savings on trips or cars then I certainly would be living it up like those women you mention and would be easily able to get a plane ticket once a year to some exotic destination... However, I do suspect that those women you mention are not saving much.

Median household income in Norfolk in 2013:
Norfolk:
$44,030

So it is possible, for a single childless woman who makes 40K to be living a rather good lifestyle, but I would assume that they likely have no savings fund.

 

[marmel75]

Unless you live in a place like NYC, San Francisco, etc where rents are ridiculous, if you can't live comfortably on 40K as a single person you need to seriously reevaluate your spending habits.

I managed for several years to live pretty comfortably on a salary around 40K with a family of 4...

 

[Poonani Maker]

I buy what I want more and more all the time, but dental expenses of late set me back a bit (like a new car would cost). Dental insurance sucks, no matter who you are. Dental should fall under Medical in cases where "surgery" is needed, but thus the scam of insurance (for decades). If I were to make babies, it would cost Zero dollara (whereas I think Most people would have to shell out 30 or 40 grand for baby delivery).

I donate a lot to a Youtube channel that I want to support as well as to a political candidate. I'm fortunate to be able to donate and it makes me feel good (can't write off on my taxes to these donations though so it's straight up sacrifice). I Give gifts to people freely as well, even my supervisor at work (cause he's like a second father to me). I had no kids or wife to suck up all my dough so I am more inclined to give to, though very selective, causes. I don't go to church (because they have all been hijacked by "respectable" conservatives, two-facedness people who are loyal ONLY to words, the intellectuals who have great disdain for the poor, but preach about wanting to "help" the poor...but Jesus never said to "help the poor," but that "the poor we will always have with us..." not the same as what they preach/misinterpret). So all that savings from no tithing helps me to give to EXACTLY what I support.

"A man of understanding, has lost nothing, if he has himself."

 

[sharkbeat]

If you don't have kids, $40k a year is a lot of money.

$3,300 a month,

$1,200 on rent if they live alone $600 if with a roommate, insurance and car payments $300, electricity, gas, and other hygenic products is about $300. Food ranges from $100-$150 unless they eat a lot. Clothes, $200.

Even if they lived alone, still making $1,500~ a month, which is a nice chunk of change, to travel the world in a couple of months. Could also be using credit as well.

You forgot tax. For singles, a gross income of $3300 translates to roughly $2000 net, at least here in California. Rent $1200, food $300, utilities $300. No, that's not enough. I havent included gas, beauty products, and miscellaneous expenses.

I remember reading somewhere, probably Suze Orman, saying something about women's relationship with money. They dont see money like us men. Its probably easier for them to spend money on social activities like going out and travelling. So, even though they are technically under water, they will still spend money on these things.

That is, if we remove other possibilities such as their male friends paying for them.

 

[Von]

SugarDaddy, Faking it until making it, asking girlfriends to share points, asking guys to pay for them, living in cheap rent, buy high clothes, renting appartment, renting cars, using christmas gift, credit cards..... It could be anything... but they want to project a social image to improve their position and finding a provider.

Yes, money they have different perspective than us for money... but they not dump... they dreamers

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

They are either running an Ultimate Deception game, or they Really do have a money source from somewhere other than themselves.

Their money source is their credit cards. And other guys. And the fact that they are likely OVERSTATING their expenditures to hopefully attract a wealthy man AND to compete with all the same aged women on those dating sites. (kind of how guys brag about getting laid on sites like these).

figure they're real income is 40K
tap another 15K per year in debt.
tap on another 5-10K a year that other dudes spend on them.

that's upwards of 60-75K all added up.

Women are genetically wired to FIND and EXPLOIT resources.

The more resources they can ACQUIRE, they more "woman" they are. Just like the more ladies a guy can bang the more "man" he is.

Men overstate the number of lays.

Women overstate the amount of resources they'v acquired.

 

[Solomon]

Seekingarrangments.com

I know a girl who has a sugar daddy and sometimes gets upwards to 10K, she works at the gucci store making $10 per hour part time while going to school but

--She has Condo on the nice part of town...where a 1 bedroom runs you minium $1200 a month
--She always goes out to fancy resturants with her girlfriends
--She is in Miami/Scottsddale/etc every other month
--She Drives an Audi7
etc etc

can a girl working part time for $10 an hour afford half of that ****? I highly doubt it

 

[BetterCallSaul]

OP, you forgot several factors that could come into play despite the woman not having any kids.

-Alimony
-Excessive debt
-Blue pill white knights she goes out on dates with all the time to get them to pay for dinner

By and large my experience has been that women are not good with money at all. Hell they could major in finance and have 20 years experience in it and still have huge credit card bills.

 

[MrWiggles]

You forgot tax. For singles, a gross income of $3300 translates to roughly $2000 net, at least here in California. Rent $1200, food $300, utilities $300. No, that's not enough. I havent included gas, beauty products, and miscellaneous expenses.

I remember reading somewhere, probably Suze Orman, saying something about women's relationship with money. They dont see money like us men. Its probably easier for them to spend money on social activities like going out and travelling. So, even though they are technically under water, they will still spend money on these things.

That is, if we remove other possibilities such as their male friends paying for them.

yeah california is a ***** when it comes to living costs

 

[El Payaso]

If you don't have kids, $40k a year is a lot of money.

$3,300 a month,

$1,200 on rent if they live alone $600 if with a roommate, insurance and car payments $300, electricity, gas, and other hygenic products is about $300. Food ranges from $100-$150 unless they eat a lot. Clothes, $200.

Even if they lived alone, still making $1,500~ a month, which is a nice chunk of change, to travel the world in a couple of months. Could also be using credit as well.

It must be where you live but $1,200 for a one bedroom is a lot. More like $600 to $900.

 

[MrWiggles]

It must be where you live but $1,200 for a one bedroom is a lot. More like $600 to $900.

Thats on the lower end here in southern california unless you want to live in the ghetto.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

3 possibilities

1) They can actually afford it and you are underestimating them(rare)

2) They don't have any bills because somebody else is paying form(Likely)

3) They can't and something else is suffering in the long run. Credit card debt, no health insurance, no money saved for retirement, and etc. When I delivered pizza, there was a driver that drove a 25k jeep. Guess what, he was always living paycheck to paycheck and was missing teeth.

Bartending
Waiters
Strippers

A part-time bartender can up to $500 to $1000 a weekend just in tips, attend college, grad school, law school and manage to pay for it with the tips. No need to touch daddy's money.

Lmao no

 

[El Payaso]

Thats on the lower end here in southern california unless you want to live in the ghetto.

That's what I meant when I said it must be where you live. $600 - $900 can get you a very nice one bedroom in the Midwest.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

That's what I meant when I said it must be where you live. $600 - $900 can get you a very nice one bedroom in the Midwest.

Didn't you move to Nashville?

 

[El Payaso]

Didn't you move to Nashville?

No, I didn't.