All these cvnts that do jack&sh1t all week when want "fun" in my relax time

[Who Dares Win]

I guess you guys hit the gym and do sport, we work hard to improve our position and we work hard to get great bodies, some want it goodlooking others want it strong too and we all push it hard.

You know who doesnt? your everyday plain jane...she takes care of her reputation (facebook and other social networks), plays with her cellphone and works the least necessary not to be reproached from her boss.

Then what happens in weekend dates?

We get a guy who gave his best and is looking to relax and have fun on a side and a random cvnt who has a surplus of energy which exists in the desire to attend overcrowded places to dance, nonstop talking and drama making and basically a countless list of things which stress that guy looking to recharge his battery and release fatigue and stress.

Not sure if it happens the same to you but imagine you're driving jane to have a walk in the center, at some point she puts some fvcking latin american music loud and expect you to sing with her in the car while you're breaking your back to find a parking place.
You wanted to chill out at home and bang her a couple of times...she wanted to go out.

"Hey those two lookalike thugs are listening music near their parked car? cool lets go dance with them, once Im done I'll simply leave and let my date deal with them after all its clear I just wanna dance their music and nothing more"

I could make 100 examples like that, I tought it was a curse for those who are average looking but my good looking friends have to endure those facts too.

Then they complain how "insensitive to their needs" we are once the bang is done, they wonder why we just roll and sleep or find an excuse to leave.

 

[CMNILS87]

Men release serotonin after sex which makes us dleepy to recuperate for the next sexy time. Women release oxytocin to bond.

Are these girls that want to dance to Latin music buzzed up after hitting downtown? Cause that's what happens in my case, they get horny and want to go to a club. I say no, I'm not taking a horny chick to a club and fend off other guys. Not some bull**** I want to deal with.

But chicks want fun, they want us to be the fun makers. They wait all week and do nothing, then want to club like mofos.

I've worked 60 hours this week, have a date tonight and am tired as hell. If this girl didn't have such high interest, I'd stay home and work on guitar technique for a couple hours. But I'll digress instead and go have fun and be super energetic. You can always crash after a crazy sex session .

 

[KingBeef]

I guess you guys hit the gym and do sport, we work hard to improve our position and we work hard to get great bodies, some want it goodlooking others want it strong too and we all push it hard.

You know who doesnt? your everyday plain jane...she takes care of her reputation (facebook and other social networks), plays with her cellphone and works the least necessary not to be reproached from her boss.

Then what happens in weekend dates?

We get a guy who gave his best and is looking to relax and have fun on a side and a random cvnt who has a surplus of energy which exists in the desire to attend overcrowded places to dance, nonstop talking and drama making and basically a countless list of things which stress that guy looking to recharge his battery and release fatigue and stress.

Not sure if it happens the same to you but imagine you're driving jane to have a walk in the center, at some point she puts some fvcking latin american music loud and expect you to sing with her in the car while you're breaking your back to find a parking place.
You wanted to chill out at home and bang her a couple of times...she wanted to go out.

"Hey those two lookalike thugs are listening music near their parked car? cool lets go dance with them, once Im done I'll simply leave and let my date deal with them after all its clear I just wanna dance their music and nothing more"

I could make 100 examples like that, I tought it was a curse for those who are average looking but my good looking friends have to endure those facts too.

Then they complain how "insensitive to their needs" we are once the bang is done, they wonder why we just roll and sleep or find an excuse to leave.

You're spot on.

I think most women (not all) just have to show up to an event and not worry about anything literally. They just have to show up to a bar/date/event and do whatever pleases them to no end. Not only do we at times have to entertain them but as men in general we don't take the time to look after ourselves (down/quality time). Whether is getting good sleep, down time, reading, diversion, gym, etc. its very easy to get distracted.

It's ideal to have structure in your daily life of what YOU WANT TO DO AND STICK TO IT. It helps tremendously. This is key: THEY HAVE TO FIT YOUR SCHEDULE AND RESPECT IT. If you just want to stay home and relax from a rough week at work or whatever and she calls you suddenly wanting to go on a night on a town on a Thursday night when you have to get up at 6 the next day....no way. Be firm and respect yourself....

 

[El Payaso]

Here's an idea...tell them no. I know it sounds radical but just hear me out for a second.

Anytime a woman wants to do something you don't want to do, just tell her...no. Then go ahead and do what YOU want to do.

 

[NSX-R]

The last time some chick did what she wanted in my car , she used her legs till the place we were supposed to go.

 

[ubercat]

Had this on Friday. Girlfriend works casually while she studying. No drama there she's trying to improve herself and I have helped her a bit with her studies.

So the deal this week is we said we'll spend Saturday together.

She hasn't worked much this week so of course she's full of energy. Sends message inviting me out for a crab dinner on Friday night her treat.

Sent her back "Sounds wonderful. It's been a busy week I m going to stay home and relax tonight. Can we do it tomorrow night?"

After a few hours silence she agrees. Yes this is a bit off topic because I'm talking LTR game where a girl is less likely to walk.

However my philosophy even in dating is that there's nothing to lose. If you politely state your needs and the girl cracks out good riddance. She would make a lousy girlfriend so all you've lost is a piece of ass. Big deal there will be another piece along in 5 minutes

And if you think about this in LTR context if I let her stay over on Friday we would have shagged all night so it would be difficult to be that fun guy she wants to hang out with on Saturday. And I would have missed out on a light workout. I'm trying to lose weight at the moment so I Kik up the workouts at weekends.

It all gets back to the usual hypergamy. Women want you to be awesome right now. They have no interest in all the hard work it takes. It's up to you to hold the line and be your own man.

 

[CMNILS87]

Had this on Friday. Girlfriend works casually while she studying. No drama there she's trying to improve herself and I have helped her a bit with her studies.

So the deal this week is we said we'll spend Saturday together.

She hasn't worked much this week so of course she's full of energy. Sends message inviting me out for a crab dinner on Friday night her treat.

Sent her back "Sounds wonderful. It's been a busy week I m going to stay home and relax tonight. Can we do it tomorrow night?"

After a few hours silence she agrees. Yes this is a bit off topic because I'm talking LTR game where a girl is less likely to walk.

However my philosophy even in dating is that there's nothing to lose. If you politely state your needs and the girl cracks out good riddance. She would make a lousy girlfriend so all you've lost is a piece of ass. Big deal there will be another piece along in 5 minutes

And if you think about this in LTR context if I let her stay over on Friday we would have shagged all night so it would be difficult to be that fun guy she wants to hang out with on Saturday. And I would have missed out on a light workout. I'm trying to lose weight at the moment so I Kik up the workouts at weekends.

It all gets back to the usual hypergamy. Women want you to be awesome right now. They have no interest in all the hard work it takes. It's up to you to hold the line and be your own man.

And that's the saddest part. All the hard work and sacrifice is really nothing to them. Cause they want fun 24/7 and a monkey to keep them entertained half the time. Results results results. She swoons over you cause you have money, abs, hobbies, social circle. But she'll never appreciate the amount of work that goes into it.

So she comes over and wants to see what I'm working on or hear a new guitar solo I worked on. She says it's cool and sexy and thrn it's onto the next subject. I literally spent all week perfecting that solo. She doesn't care nor wants to see the fail before the result.

It is what it is, that's why I focus on me and only hang out once a week.