All the good ones have boyfriends

[mahon83050]

It seems like all the cute-hot chicks already have boyfriends and it is really frustrating.

My old AFC mentality was if a girl had a b/f...it would be disrespectful to hit on her etc.

However, sometimes I think alot of girls are so insecure...they will be with any guy rather than be alone. When something better comes along (like us) they will dump their b/f's.

What has been your experience with girls who said they had b/f's.

 

[typical]

6/10 of the lied as they dont have bfs and are just testing you, 2/10 have bfs but your a much better person then he will ever be and if you game them right they will leave their bum bfs for you, 1/10 is in a relationship with total jerk and loves getting beaten up and crying over why her bf treats her like sh!t, 1/10 has a bf thats just way better then you and you aint got a chance in hell.

Thats just some ratios I've come up with but thats what Ive seen anyway.

 

[Shiftkey]

6/10 of the lied as they dont have bfs and are just testing you, 2/10 have bfs but your a much better person then he will ever be and if you game them right they will leave their bum bfs for you, 1/10 is in a relationship with total jerk and loves getting beaten up and crying over why her bf treats her like sh!t, 1/10 has a bf thats just way better then you and you aint got a chance in hell.

Thats just some ratios I've come up with but thats what Ive seen anyway.

Sounds about right. I'd probably lower the 6/10 and raise the 2/10 though.

 

[Weak_Game]

67% of statistics are made up on the spot... 75% of the posters in this thread are virgins and or have no real experience with females that don't end with .jpg

 

[Fash]

67% of statistics are made up on the spot... 75% of the posters in this thread are virgins and or have no real experience with females that don't end with .jpg

75% might be a high percentage though dude.

I'd also like to add .mpeg too

 

[Embrace]

Assume the sale bro. What I do is [retend like they dont have a boyfriend. I dont ask if they do either. If you play your game right they'll go for you at a drop of a hat. Women are emotional, theyre led by their emotions. They will figure out things later after cheating on their boyfriends. Where as guys are logical, they think about how they shouldnt do it because of what will happen or think of ways to do it without getting caught before doing it.

I figure flirting can just be for funhuman interaction as well as sexual intent. Date chicks with boyfriends, who cares? Dont shower them in gifts and buy them things though. See how far you can get. And if they drop a hint that they have a boyfriend take the hint.

I used to think it was game over when they had a boyfriend, but this isnt true. Just dont worry about it

 

[DJ4Life]

Assume the sale bro. What I do is [retend like they dont have a boyfriend. I dont ask if they do either. If you play your game right they'll go for you at a drop of a hat. Women are emotional, theyre led by their emotions. They will figure out things later after cheating on their boyfriends. Where as guys are logical, they think about how they shouldnt do it because of what will happen or think of ways to do it without getting caught before doing it.

I figure flirting can just be for funhuman interaction as well as sexual intent. Date chicks with boyfriends, who cares? Dont shower them in gifts and buy them things though. See how far you can get. And if they drop a hint that they have a boyfriend take the hint.

I used to think it was game over when they had a boyfriend, but this isnt true. Just dont worry about it

i agree, until they get engagned and make plans for marriage any chick is open grounds for game

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Cute, hot chicks are a dime a dozen (and probably worth as much). Cute, hot chicks with substance are another matter. Typically, those are the ones who won't date just any guy, no matter his attractiveness nor his means. Like for like.

 

[DJ4Life]

Cute, hot chicks are a dime a dozen (and probably worth as much). Cute, hot chicks with substance are another matter. Typically, those are the ones who won't date just any guy, no matter his attractiveness nor his means. Like for like.

not true

girls dont know that about themselves unless you TELL them that they are

or you act like that around them

why do chumps never get the girl? because they blur out "u r beautiful" every 5 min they are with the girl

and they act nervous and wimpy around them because they believe the chick is worth more

dont tell them, dont act it

girls dont know what they are worth

and ultimately, you have to make yourself believe that you are worth more than the chick, whoever she is

 

[Nox]

Tell me this. Why does a class of 40 college students, 15 are guys, 5 hot/cute and 10 average chicks have BFs, while the other 10 doesn't? I know this because we usually study in the same Study room during our break time, and those girls keep talking about their BFs like it's their trophy. I am sick and tired of this.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

not true

girls dont know that about themselves unless you TELL them that they are

or you act like that around them

You assume that all guys hang out with women without substance.

...girls dont know what they are worth

You know a lot about women without substance, don'cha?

and ultimately, you have to make yourself believe that you are worth more than the chick, whoever she is

Only if you're not a DJ. Why would you need to make yourself believe that unless you're a AFC who doesn't know his own worth, or maybe he does and it's apparent that he's way out of his league.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Tell me this. Why does a class of 40 college students, 15 are guys, 5 hot/cute and 10 average chicks have BFs, while the other 10 doesn't? I know this because we usually study in the same Study room during our break time, and those girls keep talking about their BFs like it's their trophy. I am sick and tired of this.

That's what adolecents do. Either learn to accept it or expand on the types of women you are sarging.

 

[DJDamage]

How do you know they are good? just because she is cute and a great personality does not mean she will make a good G/F to someone. She could be a real psycho or a b1tch and the AFC b/f will pretend everything is ok and believe that in order to keep such a girl he must put up with her bvllsh1t.

Beside's many of those relationship's do not last more then a year so things always change with women and they never tell the truth up front. A woman rather be with someone then be alone.

Keep on Sarging.

 

[arlanda]

Francisco is right on spot here. Hot shouldn't be good enough for a true DJ. A woman with substance won't fall for your DJ-wannabe tricks, she'll be too much of a challenge for 99% of guys on this board who are only looking for a quick lay anyway.

 

[lurker]

Tell me this. Why does a class of 40 college students, 15 are guys, 5 hot/cute and 10 average chicks have BFs, while the other 10 doesn't? I know this because we usually study in the same Study room during our break time, and those girls keep talking about their BFs like it's their trophy. I am sick and tired of this.

my guess is that they dont have self worth so they need to talk about thier boyfriends all the time to feel better.

 

[WesCottII]

And???

Sarge On...

QFT

In my experience, if you're a better "male specimen" as it were. Funnier than the bf....buffer than the BF etc...you'll get the girl no probs.

 

[PRMoon]

I'm tired of people saying "all the hot girls are taken" That has to be the single stupidest thing I've ever heard. I meet and talk to hot single girls DAILY. I'm a part time club promoter (new job biatches) and I HAVE to do approaches on hot girls in order to get paid. Having spoke to these girls, the majority of them being hot or i get in trouble, I know first hand that therer are tons of hot girls who dont' have boyfriends. A lot of these girls are her on vacation looking for some action others are singles at bachelorette parties, others have broken up with their boyfriends and are looking for a party. Single girls are everywhere you just have to be patient and look...or live in a good tourist destination where they are obviously pleantiful.

Words to live by.

 

[syemour]

75% might be a high percentage though dude.

I'd also like to add .mpeg too

touche.

 

[Nox]

I'm tired of people saying "all the hot girls are taken" That has to be the single stupidest thing I've ever heard. I meet and talk to hot single girls DAILY. I'm a part time club promoter (new job biatches) and I HAVE to do approaches on hot girls in order to get paid. Having spoke to these girls, the majority of them being hot or i get in trouble, I know first hand that therer are tons of hot girls who dont' have boyfriends. A lot of these girls are her on vacation looking for some action others are singles at bachelorette parties, others have broken up with their boyfriends and are looking for a party. Single girls are everywhere you just have to be patient and look...or live in a good tourist destination where they are obviously pleantiful.

What are the chances of them being single? I would say not a lot. Then again the chances are even lower if you take into account the chicks with “good” personalities. You’ve mentioned that the single chicks are the one on vacations, broken up with their BF, etc. Those are not what I would call GF types.

I am kind of confused about the chicks that broke up with their BF just to be with another guy (you). Doesn’t that mean she will dump you for another guy sooner or later? What about the hot/cute picky chicks without a BF? What are the chances that an average guy like me will get them?

 

[PRMoon]

What are the chances of them being single? I would say not a lot. Then again the chances are even lower if you take into account the chicks with “good” personalities. You’ve mentioned that the single chicks are the one on vacations, broken up with their BF, etc. Those are not what I would call GF types.

I am kind of confused about the chicks that broke up with their BF just to be with another guy (you). Doesn’t that mean she will dump you for another guy sooner or later? What about the hot/cute picky chicks without a BF? What are the chances that an average guy like me will get them?

Wow are you afraid that it will rain acid death from the sky everytime storm clouds appear as well? Girls and guys have relationships that's just how the world works. If a girl break up with a guy or gets dumped whatever then goes on vaction that doesnt simply make them "undateable", that definately doesn't dissmiss them as completely undatable. Talk about judging a book by it's cover, you have to get to know someone for more then a few minutes to determine whether or not they're not worth your time. If you meet a girl somewhere and she tells you she just broke up with her b/f and the next words from your mouth are "good-bye" then you shouldn't be suprised why you don't do all that much dating en general.

The second part of your post is the catch 22 of girlfriend stealing. If you convince a girl to break up with her boyfriend or and she does, then in the back of your mind you might wonder if and when the samething might happen to you. Come to think of it, if you're just hooking up with a girl then she breaks it to you that she has a boyfriend but is dumping him for you then the same might apply. However, living in a world of MIGHTS is no way to live at all. You need to be a man, and real men don't let what might happen to them deter them from their goals and what they want. Sure, you're going to take your lumps in life from time to time. You're going to get knocked down and sometimes you'll ask yourself why you even bother, and that's when you'll see what your true metal is. When you're out and you're tired, will you or won't you have what it takes to get up and forge on?