All That Is Alpha - Tip Compilation (Ongoing)

[muscleman]

How to set dates, stagger, and double/triple book if necessary

It's been a few days since I posted anything. I'm working on a fairly lengthy (3000+ word) piece regarding failed marriages, but until that's done I have something for you to chew on.

Once you become a 'mini alpha' and have multiple girls wanting to go on dates with you, you'll need a system to ensure the dates actually happen. Girls will stagger, double/triple/multi book dates, so why shouldn't you? Fire with fire baby, fire with fire.


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[muscleman]

Muscleman, thanks for posting these!

I've bookmarked this thread and will be keeping a close eye on it.

I wanted to ask you an honest question, I guess as a way to reinforce my beliefs that the path I'm taking is the right one. How much could be gained if we adhere to the principles of Game + Self Development? I'm talking completely swallowing the red pill and never looking back. I think I know the answer, but as with any new path (i.e. people switching religions, etc.), some knowledge of where this could eventually take me would help reinforce us rAFC's on our path to Alpha. Could you talk a little bit about your personal development?

I botched it up with my "One" in early December. I've been an avid reader of CH and Rollo's blog for some time now, and I have a deep understanding of where I failed with this relationship as opposed to when I was a complete AFC with my previous ones (and had no clue why things happened the way they did back then).

I had what Krauser calls an "ego destruction" moment when things fell apart this December, and I want to build the proper foundations now that I'm starting anew.

How much can be gained? Everything. And you can't just 'sort of' swallow the red pill. Once you take it, that's it. Even if you don't take the steps to change yourself (over time), you'll live in misery knowing how the world really is. You'll be fine, you're just starting out though and you have the right resources to help you.

Yes, I will talk about my own development as demand increases. I do mention a few things here and there in my writing (along with of course the lay reports), but a more cohesive autobiography of sorts is something I do plan on writing.

 

[muscleman]

16 ways a beta blew his marriage

Been a while since I wrote, but I have a longer piece for you today.

While I typically shy away from dissection others' writing, I had to set the record straight with 16 ways a beta blew his marriage.

Don't be that guy.

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[muscleman]

The Bar Date - the 'why' and step by step instructions/tips

As some of you may know, I prefer taking girls on a first date to the bar for a variety of reasons, as I feel it to be superior to all other options when possible.

Today I write a lengthy piece on WHY it's ideal and give step by step instructions for maximum success (a happy ending).

Happy consumption!


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[milkstache]

Good read here. Thanks for sharing.

 

[muscleman]

Kino Escalation - a step by step How To

After writing about the 'bar date', I decided that kino escalation needed more explanation, as it's the single most powerful tool to get your tool wet.

The power of touch will get you laid, early and often.

Apply & enjoy!



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[muscleman]

One Night Stands ... not always for 1 night

One night stands have longer term benefits. Some develop into relationships, others into friends with benefits, and some into very sporadic future escapades.

Today I talk about girls who come back around for seconds (and thirds and ..) and how it plays into building a harem, if that's your thing.



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[muscleman]

Figure out your demeanor and embrace it

Surely you've heard 'just be yourself'. While this is generally bad advice (if 'yourself' as it currently is sucks), there is a nugget of truth behind it.

There are parts of you - your demeanor - which are beyond your control. Learn what these are and embrace them in a game-friendly way for fun, sex, and profit.


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[muscleman]

How to find your demeanor

After the last post on embracing your demeanor, a reader asked a great question: how do you find it?

Today I explain how I discovered which parts of me are unchangeable and why it's important to find the same for yourself.

Enjoy, go 49ers.


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[Damien Herst]

This is a good post. I especially like the "Leagues Exist" one. At first I wasn't sure what you were meaning by "leagues" and after reading a good bit, I got what you were referring to. Always interesting how guys do a mind-f**k on themselves with statements such as "oh, she's not my type, etc"

 

[muscleman]

This is a good post. I especially like the "Leagues Exist" one. At first I wasn't sure what you were meaning by "leagues" and after reading a good bit, I got what you were referring to. Always interesting how guys do a mind-f**k on themselves with statements such as "oh, she's not my type, etc"

Exactly. It's actually comical how much we limit ourselves before we even begin. That's called not believing in yourself. You don't have to think you're the best of the best if you're not, but if you have a plan and are working on getting better all around, you should be proud and hold your head high, otherwise you're going to fail again and again because you go into it thinking you're not good enough. Even if you're not, at least you can score some confidence points for approaching and learn what you need to improve. Those lessons are priceless.

 

[muscleman]

A quick tip on Abundance

It's easy to get lost in the minutiae of daily routine and forget that there's a whole world of people and things beyond what most of us know.

Adopting this mindset that there's plenty for everyone and you'll never run out is critical not only for success with women, but happiness in general.


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[muscleman]

High Level Sex Series - Foreplay

After writing step by step instructions on the bar date and kino escalation, a few readers requested further instruction on things like foreplay, so I decided to start a series on how to get good in the sack.

First up: foreplay escalation

Stay tuned for the rest.

 

[Von Huge]

It's been a few days since I posted anything. I'm working on a fairly lengthy (3000+ word) piece regarding failed marriages, but until that's done I have something for you to chew on.

Once you become a 'mini alpha' and have multiple girls wanting to go on dates with you, you'll need a system to ensure the dates actually happen. Girls will stagger, double/triple/multi book dates, so why shouldn't you? Fire with fire baby, fire with fire.


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As someone who's dating multiple girls, but still has to deal with flakes, I've found the tips very helpful! Especially about deliberately double booking, that's one thing I've never done before!

 

[muscleman]

As someone who's dating multiple girls, but still has to deal with flakes, I've found the tips very helpful! Especially about deliberately double booking, that's one thing I've never done before!

And you don't always have to ACTUALLY double book, as in agree and then cancel, but you can make 'maybe' plans with your #2/#3 girls just in case something goes wrong last minute with your #1 girl.

To give you an example, I have a fwb right now (single mom) who really can't get out - at all. Every time I see her I go to her place and she's always DTF and always available. This makes her a #2 girl for me. If I'm particularly horny that night and plans fall through, I can always call her up and drive down.

Pimpin ain't easy.

 

[muscleman]

Growth is Life - a list of tips to keep learning

It's very easy get caught up in comfortable routines, only to find that you've wasted years, or (much scarier) a lifetime doing the same boring things over and over.

Never stop learning, never stop growing.

This is more of an existential post, but I find it's necessary to keep things in perspective.

 

[muscleman]

High Level Sex Series (cont) - Overcoming ASD/LMR

Continuing the 'high level sex' series, today I want to talk about over coming Anti-Slut Defense/Last Minute Resistance, also known as the death of sex.

There's one sure-fire way to do it.

Enjoy, and keep plowing.



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[Crazystarf]

I got my eyes on this thread. Brb reading above article.

 

[muscleman]

Attraction Is A Choice - It's Made By You

This is a shorter piece, but I wanted to point out that attraction IS a choice, at least from your end. There's also a funny - and quite educational - video linked up.

You can manufacture attraction, so get to it.



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[muscleman]

Camera Game for fun and profit (sex)

What's the one prop you always have? A camera phone.

Use it to break down barriers, up the kink, and shoot sexytime.



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