BEFORE I GET A LECTURE, THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, IT'S ABOUT OTHER SEXUAL ACTIVITIES. BOTH OF US HAVE DECIDED TO WAIT TO HAVE SEX!
Me and my girlfriend had long talks about what we were going to do to each other, how I was going to please her and whatnot. She would say how "she wanted me inside of her" and how she would like it if I were to finger her or eat her out.
Well, today, I got her alone and we were kissing and everything. She even wore a skirt so I would have "easy access." We had already talked and agreed that it was too soon for sex and we would wait until atleast the summer, but that she was definitely ready for other things. Well, today, when I tried to finger her, she would stop me. I tried several times, thinking that she was just teasing at first and then she was like "I can't do this." She said that she felt a little uncomfortable (she had told me earlier that she didn't like her body, even though I think it's beautiful). I said why and she said that it definately wasn't me as the problem, that she was self-conscience of herself and that she cared for me soo much and that she was afraid that sexual activities would change the relationship between us.
I totally understand how she feels and I told her that I didn't know she felt that way about herself (I reassured her that her whole body is perfect to me) and that I would lay off the sex talk and keep my hands from the vaginal area until she's ready. BUT, I can't help feel disappointed after all the stuff we agreed to do, after all the sex teasing and her assuring me that she was ready for everything but sex, AND NO ACTION AT ALL. I just wish that if she felt this way she would have told me instead of leaing me to believe SEVERAL times that she was ready.
Now I'm horny and frustrated.
Me and my girlfriend had long talks about what we were going to do to each other, how I was going to please her and whatnot. She would say how "she wanted me inside of her" and how she would like it if I were to finger her or eat her out.
Well, today, I got her alone and we were kissing and everything. She even wore a skirt so I would have "easy access." We had already talked and agreed that it was too soon for sex and we would wait until atleast the summer, but that she was definitely ready for other things. Well, today, when I tried to finger her, she would stop me. I tried several times, thinking that she was just teasing at first and then she was like "I can't do this." She said that she felt a little uncomfortable (she had told me earlier that she didn't like her body, even though I think it's beautiful). I said why and she said that it definately wasn't me as the problem, that she was self-conscience of herself and that she cared for me soo much and that she was afraid that sexual activities would change the relationship between us.
I totally understand how she feels and I told her that I didn't know she felt that way about herself (I reassured her that her whole body is perfect to me) and that I would lay off the sex talk and keep my hands from the vaginal area until she's ready. BUT, I can't help feel disappointed after all the stuff we agreed to do, after all the sex teasing and her assuring me that she was ready for everything but sex, AND NO ACTION AT ALL. I just wish that if she felt this way she would have told me instead of leaing me to believe SEVERAL times that she was ready.
Now I'm horny and frustrated.