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That's right. A properly trained feminist won't allow any of your physical approach and will shut down your verbal and mental approach too. She will not be giving you sex when you want it.
If you're going to touch a female, then there should be a lot of body contact not in the form of spanking or laying hands on her, but I mean positive reinforcement such as kino during conversation.
 

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Demotion isn't a dumping; it's a lowering of her priority or status. For example, if a woman starts being unreliable, I stop giving her my Fridays or Saturdays: she will get weeknights only. Or, I will stop making an effort with dates and they will degenerate to 'Netflix and chill', or just a quick catch-up. It's just putting your energies elsewhere really. .

Glad you cleared that up. That's a beautiful tool to add to the repertoire of harem management





Kingofpuss' idea. I'll try it out in a playful situation. Probably appropriate if you are teasing each other, for instance.
Yes, this appears to be more fun, playful, and sexual rather than disciplinary. Let me know how it goes for you
 
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I use spankings as a reward and to reiterate her submission. A different head game than yours OP, but it has done and still does work for me.

You're right. That is a completely different headspace than mine. I can't fathom how such a situation would work. I'd like to though.


you say that you use spankings to reiterate her submission to your leadership - What exactly do you mean? Do you mean that you spank her regularly in order to help her maintain her obedience?

You say that you use spankings as a reward - How? The only way I see a spanking as a reward is if she is throwing that ass properly back while you smash her lights out
 

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WHAT THE **** DID I JUST READ, you have no idea what you're talking about.
 

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You don't have to walk away, but you can make it abundantly clear you WILL respect yourself and walk if she mistreats you. Other than that just be the best fvcking boyfriend around and slightly spoil her, that way she does have something to lose. No need for spanking, this is very much more effective and not damaging. The only damage she will get is the self inflicted emotional pain of wasting a good man, given she has a heart at all. If they don't they have a sh!tty experience of life anyways.
 

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You don't have to walk away, but you can make it abundantly clear you WILL respect yourself and walk if she mistreats you. Other than that just be the best fvcking boyfriend around and slightly spoil her, that way she does have something to lose. No need for spanking, this is very much more effective and not damaging. The only damage she will get is the self inflicted emotional pain of wasting a good man, given she has a heart at all. If they don't they have a sh!tty experience of life anyways.

I can understand where you are coming from and I can see that you are on the brink of enlightenment, but there is a fundamental flaw in your argument. This flaw could kill your relationships in the long run.

best fvcking boyfriend around and slightly spoil her

something to lose

good man

sh!tty experience of life.

A good man in typical men jargon is loyal, strong, intelligent, well groomed, while appearing non manipulative
Whereas a good man in women jargon is able to make her feel love as well as a number of different emotions. Due to the fickle nature of a woman's love you must be ruthlessly manipulative.

Do you see the disconnect?

These phrases that you used are viewed through the lens of your own perception. Remove your perception and think objectively in order to understand how a woman's mind truly works. Until then, you will forever be unable to see the truth. It's such a small error, but a large one at the same time.


This post only touches on the basics of what you need to become in order to win your woman's submission; however, Sharing everything I know in one post is the equivalent of trying to force you to drink from a fire hose. Take only small bites of what you are able to digest and come back later when you have implemented the amount that you were willing to bite off.
 

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I can understand where you are coming from and I can see that you are on the brink of enlightenment, but there is a fundamental flaw in your argument. This flaw could kill your relationships in the long run.




A good man in typical men jargon is loyal, strong, intelligent, well groomed, while appearing non manipulative
Whereas a good man in women jargon is able to make her feel love as well as a number of different emotions. Due to the fickle nature of a woman's love you must be ruthlessly manipulative.

Do you see the disconnect?

These phrases that you used are viewed through the lens of your own perception. Remove your perception and think objectively in order to understand how a woman's mind truly works. Until then, you will forever be unable to see the truth. It's such a small error, but a large one at the same time.


This post only touches on the basics of what you need to become in order to win your woman's submission; however, Sharing everything I know in one post is the equivalent of trying to force you to drink from a fire hose. Take only small bites of what you are able to digest and come back later when you have implemented the amount that you were willing to bite off.
I understand the worry, but then again if some woman need me to manipulate her feelings because she can't control them herself she is not a good woman. In other words, if she turns to crap if I don't pander to her every needs, then I leave out of respect for myself. I will maintain a good relationship as long she does her part in maintaining it else I'm better off alone.
 

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Holy ****. This is some powerful material. You have really opened my eyes. Naturally, some of this I'd do in an LTR. But now, I'm even more aware. It's all about the respect and training that the female has towards you in the end, I guess (in an LTR).
 

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Holy ****. This is some powerful material. You have really opened my eyes. Naturally, some of this I'd do in an LTR. But now, I'm even more aware. It's all about the respect and training that the female has towards you in the end, I guess (in an LTR).

Training is the perfect word. Pavlov's technique does in fact work on women.


It doesn't necessarily have to be in a long term relationship. You could apply this to every female that interacts with you, bro
 

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That's right. A properly trained feminist won't allow any of your physical approach and will shut down your verbal and mental approach too. She will not be giving you sex when you want it.
Who the feck wants to go out with a Femanazi? Therefore your comment wouldn't apply.
 

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You're right. That is a completely different headspace than mine. I can't fathom how such a situation would work. I'd like to though.


you say that you use spankings to reiterate her submission to your leadership - What exactly do you mean? Do you mean that you spank her regularly in order to help her maintain her obedience?

You say that you use spankings as a reward - How? The only way I see a spanking as a reward is if she is throwing that ass properly back while you smash her lights out
PM me if you're interested. I don't want to upset any white knights on SS.
 

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Anyone that doesn't understand, but wants to understand then feel free to ask someone that appears to know more so that we can bring you up to speed and help you gain more success.

If this all sounds like bullsvt to you then you're right. It is bvll****. This mess that we are discussing here would never work in a million years. No female that truly loves you should have to be dominated mentally and physically in order to stay in love with you. True love never fades. If it fades then she obviously never loved you in the first place which means that she just simply wasn't the one.

Good luck on your future endeavors. lol
 
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Too many available women to be wasting time with discipline. Women who make things hard I just walk away... Sorry if this seems stupid.... but life is to short to be wasting time waiting for some woman to come around.
You're right. There are a plethora of pvssies in the world, and entering a new one is always an adrenaline rush.


Why is it an adrenaline rush? Quite possibly, because she is submitting herself to you temporarily which feeds into your biological impulse. Wouldn't having a woman submit to your every whim make you feel a similar adrenaline rush, although in a different vein? Getting her to open her legs is the equivalent of having a five course meal when you are starving; however, gaining a woman's subservience is the equivalent of having a buffet in front of you whenever you get hungry.


Simply put, a new body will only provide you with short term satisfaction whereas training her will gain you satisfaction for however long you choose to have her around.
 

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The fabled "magic bullet" (or in this case two magic bullets).

I don't buy it, it's not that simple I'm afraid.

Who can make good music, when they can only play two notes?
 

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I like to lay down the law, but I'm not sure I could do it to that extent.

How would you get a girl to openly accept punishment? Do you tell them on the first date that this is what you expect?
 

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I like to lay down the law, but I'm not sure I could do it to that extent.

How would you get a girl to openly accept punishment? Do you tell them on the first date that this is what you expect?
When I meet a female my only goal is to fvck. Once I've been fvcking for a while and I can see into her head then i'll decide if I want a relationship with her or not. If I do, then I tell her the ground rules. It's up to her to accept or decline. No one has ever declined
 
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