all i wanted was sexual things.. now im jelous

neonlimited

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So this forum taught me alot but it seems it made me have absolutely no emotions with girls at all.. and im jelous of a few of my friends and the relationships they have with their GFs.

I am 'seeing' two girls and it makes me sick to even talk to them now.. im like disgusted with myself, because all we do is she comes over and we have sex and thats IT. I would NEVER date this girl, I dont even know why I just never would...

and im jelous of people that I see out with their gfs and such... something is wrong with me my head is ****ed up somewhere , someone help please..

ive been depressed as ever thinking about this, and i smoked up about a week ago with sum friends and i usually get really depressed when i do.. and this is when all this depressiveness has started and i cant get it out now
 

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Take some time off for yourself. Do things you enjoy, stop smoking (don't have to just a suggestion), and hang out with your close friends. Also instead of just having sex with the girl, when she comes over turn down sex if she initiates. Not only will this let you guys talk instead of having sex but, it will make her wonder if she is doing something wrong in bed. I hope this helps and good luck.
 

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neonlimited said:
So this forum taught me alot but it seems it made me have absolutely no emotions with girls at all.. and im jelous of a few of my friends and the relationships they have with their GFs.

I am 'seeing' two girls and it makes me sick to even talk to them now.. im like disgusted with myself, because all we do is she comes over and we have sex and thats IT. I would NEVER date this girl, I dont even know why I just never would...

and im jelous of people that I see out with their gfs and such... something is wrong with me my head is ****ed up somewhere , someone help please..

ive been depressed as ever thinking about this, and i smoked up about a week ago with sum friends and i usually get really depressed when i do.. and this is when all this depressiveness has started and i cant get it out now

I used to be that exact same way....only not with sex :(...I used to just get with girls for the hell of it just to get some play while my friends had girflfriends and seemed to be having such a great time. I used to be so jealous of them and all I wanted to get was a girlfriend. Now about a 2 months of searching for the perfect match for me, I found it...just keep lookin man she'll come to you. :cool:
 

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DAm what can a MAn want more than sex!!! Guys have problems taaking girls to bed with em.. And u saying u depreesseddd.. Woow...
 

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shydude said:
DAm what can a MAn want more than sex!!! Guys have problems taaking girls to bed with em.. And u saying u depreesseddd.. Woow...


sex isn't everything... i have a gf now and we have sex all the time. lately we've been having it 2 and sometimes even three times a day, as we both live on campus at our college in dorms, we're just a minute walk away. but yeah, i have so much more fun when i just hanging out and talk to girls. sex just adds to the fun, but without the fun, sex isn't fun.
 

Peace and Quiet

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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dont worry i dont smoke.. only once in a blue moon... and no i dont even want anything else with this girl.. i dont wanna talk to her.. and i dont even wanna have sex with her anymore, i dont know what the **** is wrong with me..

i have alot of friends that i hang out with in our group but ive been pushing them away and i havent talked to them in over four days now , i dont even know why, when they call i dont even pick up, ive just been sitting here every night for the past like week just doing **** and thinking about random ****, i have a problem and i need help or something heh
 

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toddC said:
I used to be that exact same way....only not with sex :(...I used to just get with girls for the hell of it just to get some play while my friends had girflfriends and seemed to be having such a great time. I used to be so jealous of them and all I wanted to get was a girlfriend. Now about a 2 months of searching for the perfect match for me, I found it...just keep lookin man she'll come to you. :cool:
hell yeah dude these 2 friends of mine always bring their girlfriends with when we all hang out, and they will branch off later in the night and then sometimes come back to chill with us.. im so ****ing jelous that they have someone like that,
 

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SAVE YOURSELF (and i only mean that half jokingly)

this is when **** fell apart for me, when things become unscrewed. i was so sure i wouldnt fall back to afc ways when i settled down, but i was wrong.

only do it if you are a stronger man than i was. otherwise it'll bring you alot of depression and pain.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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