All i want is a gf

[b's nuts]

wanting a girlfriend

I feel you on wanting a girlfriend. Im not having any problems with finding ladies or hooking up with them - in fact they all seem to be sluts to me. Of the last three times i have hooked up - they all just want to be fvck buddies. Am i just dealing with the wrong girls, or am i treating them like a slut so they act like a slut? i really don't know, but i feel you on the girlfriend thing - i don't want no damn AIDS!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

well i have dreams and ****, but i just want someone to love and **** andddddddd do all the things i love to do.

Ever consider your right hand? Seriously, you're sounding posessed like some type of love junkie. We've all seen how that type of attitude effects women, do you really want that for yourself?

 

[ChrizZ]

yeah, i can spit game and all that stuff, but i cant find any girls! they are all the same, maybe after high school it will be different, i havent found anyone and its pissing me off!

Dude, I can totally relate to you. I don´t wanna sound like an AFC, but where I´m from (Germany) I live in the town with the most ugly women in Europe. 95% are fat, smoke, drink and think they are the sh!t cuz they got AFC boyfriends. I stopped sarging cuz I can´t find girls that are worth to sarge. However I´m self improving alot cuz I will be moving to Orange County this summer and I´m gonna leave the sh!thole that I´m living in right now. When I´m in OC it´s game time!:cheer:
My advice to you is to try harder and keep looking for a potential gf.

 

[Seismos]

I just don't get this. Why does a guy's personality suck if all he wants is a gf (not even this guy in particular but any guy)? Different people have different goals in life. For some its to go out in the world and accomplish all this stuff, and for some its just to have a gf to cuddle with and make goo-goo eyes with, and for some its just getting through each day. Why is the first person a "winner" and the last two are "losers", according to society? It's not like they're doing anything wrong, and by wrong I mean they're not hurting anyone. I seriously don't get that.

fantastic post. i agree. but the other guys mean is that if you have no other goals then getting a girl this is unatttractive to woman---

 

[backbreaker]

BECAUSE.....

you of the very simple observation that you linking your happiness and success to the accomplishemt of secureing a GF.

If that is your only goal in life, what type of person are you? What do you have to bring to the table besides "unwavering love?"

what type of Man will you be when she gives you a **** test.. what are you going to do? Tell her to leave? NOT

What are you going to do when she puts on 40 pounds because she knows you aren't going anywhere because you she is your goddess?

And what does that mean about you when she leaves for another man that brings more to the table? That you are a failure?

 

[we all eat food]

hmm, but this site makes it seem like it is, honestly, i dont have much initiative to find girls because, i dont want to make it my life, i like to focus on hanging with my best friends, perfroming, making music, and just trying to stay happy. But you say the girls are suppose to come to me? What kind of bullpoop is that i focus on my goals and do what i love, andyet where are all the girls

I need that balance, i dont need a gf for survival, but my heart seeks companionship, it would be a nice change, cause i see all these afcs wimps get gfs and im ready for these women, i try all of this stuff, but i dont get a girl, im jsut simmering but not breaking through, when i forgot about this site, i found a gf, and it was good, but whenever i com back all ic an do is think, is wow, girls are important in life and i must have sex with as many as i can to be more of a man than someone else, well if thats true, than all you guys can blow me cause to be honest it doesnt mean **** at the end of the day. There are these two so claimed "playas" at my school and they are alwasy kissing girls on the cheek and getting girls, but almost every guy in my school think these kids are a bunch of f*ggots, and one of them just got his ass handed to him by 4 guys at once. Look im not trying to be a playa or a mack, i came to this site to find a gf and make my life better for myself.

Thank you

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

where is she huh?

i havent had a gf in 9 months, havent hooked up with a girl in 4 months, my game is pathetic, i cant find any girl they just arent their.

Why do you want a girlfriend? Having a girlfriend doesn't make your life perfect. It actually makes it worse, since it takes away time from your friends and yourself. Your only ready when your happy single. I actually like being single, I don't have to worry about who I flirt with. You can always get DAVID DELANGELO I think he's 100 times better than the DJ BIBLE.

 

[Obsidian]

Different people have different goals in life. ...for some its just to have a gf to cuddle with and make goo-goo eyes with, and for some its just getting through each day.

Both sets of people are PATHETIC. You're right that they don't hurt anyone. But they are NOT REAL MEN.

girls are important in life and i must have sex with as many as i can to be more of a man than someone else

You don't have to have sex with many girls to be a man. You just have to become a powerful and fun individual.

when i forgot about this site, i found a gf, and it was good

Well if you liked having a girlfriend so much, what happened to your last one?

 

[we all eat food]

went away to college

 

[itishe]

Look man why are you wanting vagina so bad? Go out, make money, go gamble, get drunk, and enjoy life. If ya meet a good ****, then more props to you.

 

[BBX]

i love how this is a site on getting girls but everyone is gonna give you this enjoy life bs. its like ok, sure i'm enjoying life, wheres the women? Is it more about taking action over anything else?

 

[itishe]

Because you don't get laid, when you try to get laid.

 

[~attrACTION~]

Because you don't get laid, when you try to get laid.

That's BS. Because I can make money when I'm sleeping but I still don't get laid because I'm actually not trying. You do have to try. That only makes sense if the person comes off desperate and has nothing to offer. Well, what if you're like me. Not desperate, drive an M3, some friends, job and good grades, just no lays. I feel like the OP - all I want is a gf also.

 

[tony-montana]

this site is more about getting fuks than girlfriends i noticed that one. i too have been wanting a nice girlfriend for many many years. half my life really. but they are sure hard to find. because there are so many s|uts that makes it harder to get the girl you want. i don't know about you guys but my idea of a nice girlfriend is to stay home many nights, watch movies, cuddle, get really deep into love (you know the stuff you see in movies - notebook/titanic) it really is all fake though and love isn't always great. being single for so long has opened my eyes that when you do find that girl your life actually does get sh|tter and your mind goes bonkers. you get a heap of weight on your shoulders. sometimes it'll be jealousy cause she's out with her friends and you're wondering what she's doing or maybe a guy is after her... maybe you have a fight with her. all that builds up in your mind and it drives you insane.

so really, love is GREAT when it happens but you have to take in the many sh|t days to enjoy it. being single is also great but then you get lonely eventually and you just need comfort. you crave it. it's a messed up thing love. but just once i'd like to find the girl of my dreams one day and fall in love. i'm a sucker for romance but i also don't need a woman to live and be happy.

 

[IsiMan84]

i love how this is a site on getting girls but everyone is gonna give you this enjoy life bs. its like ok, sure i'm enjoying life, wheres the women? Is it more about taking action over anything else?

The end result is getting women THROUGH the act of enjoying life and bettering oneself. When others see that you've got a good thing going, they want to be a part of it too. Nobody is going to approach the guy huddled in the corner and tell him they want to share in his misery. You can tell yourself you're enjoying life, but if you're worried about not having women then you're just putting up a front and only trying to fool yourself into believing it. Your personality has a lot to do with it, and if a guy isn't willing to change and learn to truly respect himself before encountering women, it won't be too pretty. Otherwise any average Joe could write tips on what women want or like and post it on the internet. But it won't do a lot of good if the person using them doesn't have the proper attitude.

Think of a salesman trying to sell somebody a product. If he doesn't appear to believe in what he's offering then how does he expect the customer to do the same? Anybody could read the product's features from a card, but more often it's the presentation that sells the product, not so much the product itself. You've got to make the customers believe they actually need it for whatever reason you give them.

Now flip that over to women. A guy could:

1) approach a woman with no emotion, read off some canned pickup lines, tell her his best qualities, and pray that she accepts his offer to take her home based on the facts he told her (reading product features from a card).

-OR-

2) approach a woman while he's oozing with charisma. He can talk to her like he's the best, then show her why he's the best, and in effect make a more convincing statement to make her feel and believe he is the best (presentation and actually selling the product).


I hope that makes things a little more understandable to you now.

 

[KarmaSutra]

i get cha, but i cant find any girls, i would approach but none our good enough

This is chick-ese for: "I'm a pvssy."

"None are good enough" is an easy out. It's like saying: " Macaroni and cheese is my favorite food. I eat it all day everyday because it's my favorite thing in the whole world and I don't care what you say because that's what I like."

Stubborn kids with zero life experience who want everything dumped into their laps. Did mom cut your meat for you too?

 

[mrRuckus]

Women should only be in your life to compliment it. They should not BE your life. Oh and I eat food too....

This is what you should say to the next girl you see:
We all eat food: Hey!
Girl: Hi!
We all eat food: Hey do you eat food?
Girl: uh yeah?
We all eat food: OH MY GOD! ME TOO!
Girl: ?
We all eat food: I can't believe this!
Girl: Wow ur fvcking weird.
We all eat food: We have so much in common, let me get those digits.

You might think that was a joke but that kind of conversation works for me. You can get away with a lot.

Of course if a girl started swearing 10 seconds into knowing me i'd walk away.

 

[S.S.N. 318]

Dude, I can totally relate to you. I don´t wanna sound like an AFC, but where I´m from (Germany) I live in the town with the most ugly women in Europe. 95% are fat, smoke, drink and think they are the sh!t cuz they got AFC boyfriends. I stopped sarging cuz I can´t find girls that are worth to sarge. However I´m self improving alot cuz I will be moving to Orange County this summer and I´m gonna leave the sh!thole that I´m living in right now. When I´m in OC it´s game time!:cheer:
My advice to you is to try harder and keep looking for a potential gf.

I feel ya, its da same in Monroe....finna be back in Da A.T.L., not long from now....cuz these hoez here in Monroe anit **** 2 begin with anywayz.....

 

[Raikojo17]

yeah, i can spit game and all that stuff, but i cant find any girls! they are all the same, maybe after high school it will be different, i havent found anyone and its pissing me off!

yes, after hs theey are alot different. more mature and less superficial.

 

[Raikojo17]

i love how this is a site on getting girls but everyone is gonna give you this enjoy life bs. its like ok, sure i'm enjoying life, wheres the women? Is it more about taking action over anything else?

i agree with BBX. it's about taking action.

a nerd enjoys his life. he loves the late friday nights up playing WOW. or the early mornings reading comic books. he doesnt care wat anyone thinnks of him

where's his women?

he doesnt have any because he's not taking action. he's not going out and looking for the women that he wants..

take action, then you will get women