"continued" (When SS makes you split a post, it is clearly way too long! By the time had I stopped typing, I had no idea this one was soooo long.--Yikes!)
I hope you read this, not with criticism, but knowing my intent is simply to offer insight into the female perspective that perhaps will allow you to be more bold. The more masculine you are, the more feminine she can be. The more dominant you are, the more submissive she can be. It's a dance of polarity that is hotter than hot when played well. Once she has decided she feels safe with you, she WANTS you to be bold and take her!! She WANTS you to embody masculinity!! It is massively attractive!!! She WANTS to surrender in her femininity to your masculine dominance!! She WANTS....
She doesn't want' that with an overly chatty man. She doesn't want that with a friend without sexual tension. She doesn't want that with an unconfident man. She doesn't want that with a man who hesitates to take her clothes off. She doesn't want that with a man who is stuck in his head wondering if he's doing it right. She doesn't want that with a man who is still worried about his d1ck size. She doesn't want that with a man who hesitates.
She doesn't want to be with a 'man'. She wants to be with a MAN. She wants to 'BE TAKEN' by a MAN. Understand, a 'man' can never take a woman. It's not his nature. He hesitates, is waiting for IOI's, is distracted with thoughts of what he "should do" next, is insecure, is too busy wanting to do it right, that he fails to do much of anything at all.
A MAN isn't necessarily an expert lover yet, but he doesn't hesitate. He knows he will learn along the way and so he engages action, knowing he's only going to improve for having done so.
Wow this got long. I really need to wrap this up, but there two things on my mind to share.
When you were waiting for her to join you on the bed, to her that's like asking her to get on top and fvck you. It has no seduction of her. Because of that it is like asking her to be dominant instead. I know that wasn't your intention. Down the road, absolutely let women seduce you and pleasure your body, with all that they are. That comes later. You have to seduce HER first, in this interaction. The better you seduce and dominate her, the better it will be.
Remember context, you are in Las Vegas! What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Women are there, as much as men, to hook-up. They are not expecting or looking to find the love of their life. They are there, wanting an experience that they'll never forget. Be that MAN. You want practice, you are in the right place.
Make it your mission when you find a woman who perks your interest, to be the MAN from Vegas, that she'll never forget and that you enjoy fully, without hesitation. She doesn't need to know your life story. She needs to quickly know she feels safe with you and that you are confident enough to lead her, bold enough enough to excite her, and centered enough to know that her resistances are habitual and intended to see if you are a man or a MAN, because her inherent feminine nature wants to be fvcked by a masculine MAN (not a man, who would be halted or thrown off by her LMR's). Be the MAN that
Embody your masculinity. Breathe masculinity. Own it. Every step you take, take it as a MAN and feel it, in your whole body and Being (yes, even if that sounds weird.) And if you find you have slipped into being a 'man', immediately re-center into Being a MAN. You guys were doing push-ups before, maybe some of those, lift weights, refocus in your head or go consciously take a walk with each step focusing on embodying Being a MAN. When you fall out of Being a MAN, recenter ASAP in the essence of masculinity. You are a masculine MAN.
Practice looking at women through the eyes of a MAN, not the eyes of a man. Go out sometime, not to approach, but just to look at women. Spend some time being a 'man', hunch your posture a bit, be unconfident and look at women as if they are scary, unapproachable and unwilling to share their pvssies. Feel what it feels like. Then let that go! It's a story! You are done with it!!! You are moving on!
Now embody masculinity and what it feels like to be a MAN! Sit confident and upright! Feel your masculinity as if it is coursing through your body! Feel your inherent strength as a MAN! Know women WANT to be fvcked by a MAN!!! They WANT what only-a-MAN-like-you can give them!! They can't get it anywhere else!! They yearn for it. They fantasize about. They read stories about it. They wish for it. Look around at them, knowing that and thinking about how you have what they yearn to be given by a MAN. Appreciate their femininity. Realize they are yearning to BE TAKEN by a MASCULINE MAN. Realize you are the prize. (Don't get me wrong. I love women too and they are amazing, but I am talking to you right now.) Walk around a club and know YOU, as a masculine man, are the prize! Spend time doing that. Feel it. Recognize that there are a ton of men in front of you whose appearance may be masculine, but will never be able to deliver what you can to a woman. They will never be able to fulfill a woman like you can! Take that in.
A man not centered in himself and his masculinity isn't on the same playing field as a man who is centered and does embody his masculinity. The more you know it, the more your confidence will rise, and women will sense it. It is massively attractive!!! Women will start to look at you different and even approach you more. Own what it is to Be a MAN!!!
Let's wrap this up.
1. Embody your masculinity
2. Figure out what you need, if anything, to know, you can confidently fvck any woman, HB10 included, that you home bring home, without hesitation. That you know you will give her an experience, like she's never had before. You will be a MAN with her and she'll know it every moment she's with you. You'll lead and dominate without hesitation thus allowing her to surrender and submit.
3. Marmel has recommended some videos before, about women teaching a man how to fvck them (or something along that idea). One can download them for free. I haven't seen them myself. I can't view them on my computer, otherwise I would have. I am curious like that. From what I have gathered they are well worth the watch. My sense is, after a man watches them a few times, his confidence in pleasing any woman and dominating her in bed shifts more to that of a MAN. I don't recall the title. Maybe someone can post the link to the free download in the thread and if not then PM and ask Marmel. I recommend that you let go of the idea you know enough about sex already and just find and then watch them, at least twice. I am not suggesting you are not a fantastic lover already! I am saying I know you want to maximize your time in Vegas and leave a MAN, so just do it anyway.
This turned out crazy long! Yikes!!! This is what a stream of consciousness ramble looks like out of a woman's brain. lol I am not going to invest the time to proof read it. Don't hesitate to ask if something is not clear.
If you actually read that whole thing...you deserve....
TL;DR Know that women want and yearn to be taken and fvcked, by a MAN (not a man). Most women in Vegas are hoping to a meet a MAN, for an experience they'll never forget. Use your time in Vegas to anchor your transition from 'man' to MAN. See women, approach women, lead women, seduce women, dominate women and fvck women like the MAN you are.
