AlekNovi
Don Juan
Week 1, Day 5 - This **** has got some BENEFITS
I got me some discount from the cutie working at the photo-service. Today I did some 6-9 hi's... I ain't counting. They're just a coming out they is I swear lol... But (i think) 2 of them were short convo's (comment, response, response back)... And the most interesting of these was one of those ****ing... you know like dressed to the ****ing nines girl. The kind that when you see walking down the street you're like... holy ****... i'm not worthy lol. I'm talking made hot... i.e. girl who has obviously spent incredible amounts of time in picking the right clothes, starving herself (lol), picking the right tight pants, the right little designer handbag etc... etc... So physically, type-wise an 7.5 and made-hot 10.
Now this was the second belief re-programming i've had with these types of girls. The first was when I started direct. They were starry-eyed and looked at me like god... it was intoxicating... but 2 problems: 1) I put all the power in the method (more precisely the opener and following compliments).. i.e. i didn't think they could possibly be attracted to me. It was the thing i was DOING. It wasn't ME! That's how I felt. I felt that if I did ask one of these girls a non-chalant question or opened them neutral, they wouldn't give me the time of day. And they didn't for most of the time.
Today. I just found myself (somewhere on the street) giving this girl just a charming innocous comment... and she started glowing like I was ****ing brad pitt. I don't even know what I said. Just something off the cuff silly. We bantered back and forth until I sent her to where she was going so she wouldn't be late lol.
But here's the point. I'm becoming a charming person, a person who has that VIBE, and then it doesn't matter what you say or do. It's who you are. And I'm loving it.
In the photo studio later I had like a 10-15 minute convo with the girl there, she gave me a discount and we acquinted ourselves well.
46hi's done, just 4 left, and 3 day to do them?
I got me some discount from the cutie working at the photo-service. Today I did some 6-9 hi's... I ain't counting. They're just a coming out they is I swear lol... But (i think) 2 of them were short convo's (comment, response, response back)... And the most interesting of these was one of those ****ing... you know like dressed to the ****ing nines girl. The kind that when you see walking down the street you're like... holy ****... i'm not worthy lol. I'm talking made hot... i.e. girl who has obviously spent incredible amounts of time in picking the right clothes, starving herself (lol), picking the right tight pants, the right little designer handbag etc... etc... So physically, type-wise an 7.5 and made-hot 10.
Now this was the second belief re-programming i've had with these types of girls. The first was when I started direct. They were starry-eyed and looked at me like god... it was intoxicating... but 2 problems: 1) I put all the power in the method (more precisely the opener and following compliments).. i.e. i didn't think they could possibly be attracted to me. It was the thing i was DOING. It wasn't ME! That's how I felt. I felt that if I did ask one of these girls a non-chalant question or opened them neutral, they wouldn't give me the time of day. And they didn't for most of the time.
Today. I just found myself (somewhere on the street) giving this girl just a charming innocous comment... and she started glowing like I was ****ing brad pitt. I don't even know what I said. Just something off the cuff silly. We bantered back and forth until I sent her to where she was going so she wouldn't be late lol.
But here's the point. I'm becoming a charming person, a person who has that VIBE, and then it doesn't matter what you say or do. It's who you are. And I'm loving it.
In the photo studio later I had like a 10-15 minute convo with the girl there, she gave me a discount and we acquinted ourselves well.
46hi's done, just 4 left, and 3 day to do them?
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