Alcohol game is a natural way of life for those with a dark and twisty past
it takes experience and a certain finesse
If you cannot embrace being irresponsible it’s probably never going to be your cup of tea but i will tell you one thing: every woman likes being irresponsible at least every once and a while. Being irresponsible encapsulates the entirety of a the female mind.
women love parties too. They love the site of booze bottles. It is like a homecoming party to them. Even the ones who say they don’t like alcohol, there is a little something special inside each one of those bottles just for her
often you need to go against a lot everything you ever knew, especially if you are just some responsible average joe who is boring and too careful and Uptight
you know what else is even more of a captivator? Cigarettes. Just a box of cigarettes. She probably never smokes but you better believe she likes a loser who does.
Think of how tantalizing a simple box of smokes is. Think of the old black and white movies of people smoking cigs and Partying, and doing things they are not supposed to
really simple tools for living on the edge, i mean, think of how unhealthy booze and cigs and late nights are. It makes her satisfied to be in the company of it all knowing others are more irresponsible than herself.
she is not supposed to be staying out late. If she did she would have to call into work the next day. It’s no wonder why women all take 10 times the amount of sick days, because they went out with some irresponsible guy and forgot about the time and probably went home with him and fell to temptation, stayed out late and doing what is wrong and bad, but getting away with it too
her clothes probably smell like cigs and she never smokes. She needs to wash her hair now of the smoke
there is also the very real possibility of just saying “i was drunk” or “it just happened, we drank way too much last night” or any other combo of justifying why things happened by chance, it just sort of happened
then imagine her telling her friends that she is dating a loser who drinks a lot. She is doing something she is Not Supposed to be doing! Well aren’t women renowned for making bad decisions? Yes, and she will continually make more bad choices
it is fun too
going out to dinners is fun, going to various places in the night and she keeps a close eye on what your drunk ass is ordering. She almost can’t wait to see what your next drink might be. After all, she appears to be out with some man who might have a drinking problem, or he might be a creative type
he might drink a lot because he takes risks. He is probably masking some talent that she can find
or the grand Poobah of them all: her first boyfriend was an Alcoholic. Or her DAD was an alcoholic. Oh yes
the drama, the abuse, she loves it, and alcohol is her little excuse now for practically everything that happens and it literally gives her the best escape route ever known: “oh i was drunk and it just happened”
if she Really wants out, all she has to do is tell her friends “oh he has a drinking problem” so we broke up. It’s not the same with a square guy that is always Responsible and Boring, with a boring guy her toolbox of excuses is basically having to make up other lies to complain about how you were just to Boring
but the guy who goes out drinking in alcoholic style, well how much easier can it be for her? You basically roll out the red carpet for her ass for fulfilling her irresponsible behavior that every women has. if they are worthwhile, they will be irresponsible at least sometimes
