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Aggressiveness in College? Effective Or Not
So we have all read the Bible and understand certain concepts such as challenge, AFC, not to call within 5 days, kino, etc… But there is a small group of DJ’s out there who even tough have a good grasp of all concepts in our Bible still wonder every night questions like:
Damn I did everything right but she never came through?
I thought I had her in my pocket but all the sudden that other dude got with her before me in the party. Why?
This girls seemed to like me but I just can’t get the first foot in. What’s wrong?
I get a thousand numbers along with a thousand smiles but they all a waste of time. Why is it that I cant get them even tough I am becoming a challenge?
Well, if you have this questions in your own life and you graduated from College some time ago, it might be useful reading this post even though is meant for College students.
College is hook up place , college is the best place to be with women of all styles and cultures (well maybe Miami is a bit better for that , but you guys get the point), but unfortunately some techniques in the BIBLE and sosuave are not so effective. Why?
Because they lack aggressiveness, they lack bluntness, and Woman in College many times are looking for that. So pay close attention.
First the whole approach :
How are you?
…
…
What’s your name?
….
….
Hey let me get your number?
….
…
And then Leave …
Well that approach is not effective in College! You are a salesman to this women. You are selling them what good of time you can give them without telling them. You need to get them excited and extremely interested for that approach to work. College Don Juans need to become more of PICK UP ARTISTS (PUA). Why because even though you might get that number at first, when you call them is a whole different story. You are on a phone line so for one thing she cant see you and if that was the first time you guys had met , the whole situation may be a bit awkward for her …UNLESS ..you were an amazing salesman and you sold her the RIGHT IDEA or you are the BRADD PITT of
Your university or it wasn’t the first time you guys had met and she feels a bit more comfortable around you and has INTEREST on you.
I am not coming up with approaches that do work….but realize the flaws with the I just need to get the number approach. In the other hand I will name some things I have made mistakes with in the past.
1-) I become Over SMOOTH ---and believe it or not this is a mistake. OVERSMOOTHING can be seen as fake.
2-)Too serious---yes don’t become a clown either but realize that if she can smile and get her cheeks red that that might work for you.
3-)Unable to brake through her cold barrier--- there have been some post about HB9 acting up and all hard ..well its your lucky day because that is only a test they put up. You need to brake that cold barrier because you are cool as ice but also you know women like no one else and you can see through her atmosphere. This last one requires experience but its definitely worth it!
Now some other things to keep in mind:
As we all know you leave the conversation first at all COSTS!
Second never give out your number even if you have hers
Don’t release to much information about yourself( Pook on Anti Dump part 7 must READ!!!) and talk about objects!
When you ask for her name remember it at all cost on the first try and never ask her to spell it.
Be AGGRESSIVE WHEN GETTING THAT NUMBER – don’t hesitate, don’t mumble, don’t make it a big deal( tell her you need help with math or something and you need her to help you in a joking matter for e.g. or anything that wont make her feel weird and gets her smiling)
Try to be a LONE WOLF ---this girls even though must of them are little sluts they want noone to know so if you pull your stunt in front of her friends, your friends or others it might not work!
Last but not Least make her smile….SMILES ARE THE BEST SIGNS ..but make sure they are true smiles.
Now to the PARTY SCENE :
Ok so we have a different pick up area and this is the party scene. Well first things first in a party were people are dancing no one really wants to discuss interest at the moment but rather they want to have fun. Therefore if you are trying to get her to dance. I would suggest to start dancing without even asking for her permission! AGGRESSIVE!
If you get rejected and feels like you have been humiliated don’t worry its not your fault. In fact thank God because you don’t want to waste your time with chicks that make a big deal about just dancing. Go to the next and never try to dance with her again unless she comes to you which might happen if you become the ladies man of the party!
So you are dancing with her and if by any chance you are trying to get at least her number then you are out of game! Parties are not the time to get a number, but rather get her home with you or at least hook up hoping she will be impress and remember if she is not too drunk. NUMBERS DON’T APLLY HERE! So what do you do well first you tighten your belt realize God gave you balls and start getting freaky on the dance floor .
She probably had some beers and no matter who it is in the dance floor all women get turned on so give her a good time by turning her on and then go for a big kiss. (yes big kiss not a ***** romantic kiss because if she is getting freaky with you those soft kisses make you look weak. Now situations may vary depending on the way she is dancing with you and the look on her eyes but hopefully you get the point. Also a big kiss doesn’t mean you leaving all your saliva in her face). She doesn’t kiss you , when the song is over say “ I have to go” and start dancing with a new girl!
Now the party is over or you find this hot chick by herself sitting down or in a corner of the room. THIS IS MONEY!!!!!! First of all don’t ever ask her if she is there with someone, that’s weak, you don’t care if she is here with Arnold, or Bruce lee you only care about getting her at all costs. Well this is when you pull the LONE AGGRESSIVE WOLF and come up with a conversation about nothing in fact you just let her due the talking get her a bit relaxed by joking and keeping the party atmosphere up and then you kiss her and invite her to your place. AS SIMPLE AS THAT!!! If she refuses say well I have to go are you going to stay here by yourself? This is the scene when the party is almost over and no one wants to be home alone at the end of the party but prefer to keep it going, so chances are she will take your offer! BESIDES IS COLLEGE ALL THIS WOMAN WANT TO HAVE FUN!
BE AGGRESSIVE!
So we have all read the Bible and understand certain concepts such as challenge, AFC, not to call within 5 days, kino, etc… But there is a small group of DJ’s out there who even tough have a good grasp of all concepts in our Bible still wonder every night questions like:
Damn I did everything right but she never came through?
I thought I had her in my pocket but all the sudden that other dude got with her before me in the party. Why?
This girls seemed to like me but I just can’t get the first foot in. What’s wrong?
I get a thousand numbers along with a thousand smiles but they all a waste of time. Why is it that I cant get them even tough I am becoming a challenge?
Well, if you have this questions in your own life and you graduated from College some time ago, it might be useful reading this post even though is meant for College students.
College is hook up place , college is the best place to be with women of all styles and cultures (well maybe Miami is a bit better for that , but you guys get the point), but unfortunately some techniques in the BIBLE and sosuave are not so effective. Why?
Because they lack aggressiveness, they lack bluntness, and Woman in College many times are looking for that. So pay close attention.
First the whole approach :
How are you?
…
…
What’s your name?
….
….
Hey let me get your number?
….
…
And then Leave …
Well that approach is not effective in College! You are a salesman to this women. You are selling them what good of time you can give them without telling them. You need to get them excited and extremely interested for that approach to work. College Don Juans need to become more of PICK UP ARTISTS (PUA). Why because even though you might get that number at first, when you call them is a whole different story. You are on a phone line so for one thing she cant see you and if that was the first time you guys had met , the whole situation may be a bit awkward for her …UNLESS ..you were an amazing salesman and you sold her the RIGHT IDEA or you are the BRADD PITT of
Your university or it wasn’t the first time you guys had met and she feels a bit more comfortable around you and has INTEREST on you.
I am not coming up with approaches that do work….but realize the flaws with the I just need to get the number approach. In the other hand I will name some things I have made mistakes with in the past.
1-) I become Over SMOOTH ---and believe it or not this is a mistake. OVERSMOOTHING can be seen as fake.
2-)Too serious---yes don’t become a clown either but realize that if she can smile and get her cheeks red that that might work for you.
3-)Unable to brake through her cold barrier--- there have been some post about HB9 acting up and all hard ..well its your lucky day because that is only a test they put up. You need to brake that cold barrier because you are cool as ice but also you know women like no one else and you can see through her atmosphere. This last one requires experience but its definitely worth it!
Now some other things to keep in mind:
As we all know you leave the conversation first at all COSTS!
Second never give out your number even if you have hers
Don’t release to much information about yourself( Pook on Anti Dump part 7 must READ!!!) and talk about objects!
When you ask for her name remember it at all cost on the first try and never ask her to spell it.
Be AGGRESSIVE WHEN GETTING THAT NUMBER – don’t hesitate, don’t mumble, don’t make it a big deal( tell her you need help with math or something and you need her to help you in a joking matter for e.g. or anything that wont make her feel weird and gets her smiling)
Try to be a LONE WOLF ---this girls even though must of them are little sluts they want noone to know so if you pull your stunt in front of her friends, your friends or others it might not work!
Last but not Least make her smile….SMILES ARE THE BEST SIGNS ..but make sure they are true smiles.
Now to the PARTY SCENE :
Ok so we have a different pick up area and this is the party scene. Well first things first in a party were people are dancing no one really wants to discuss interest at the moment but rather they want to have fun. Therefore if you are trying to get her to dance. I would suggest to start dancing without even asking for her permission! AGGRESSIVE!
If you get rejected and feels like you have been humiliated don’t worry its not your fault. In fact thank God because you don’t want to waste your time with chicks that make a big deal about just dancing. Go to the next and never try to dance with her again unless she comes to you which might happen if you become the ladies man of the party!
So you are dancing with her and if by any chance you are trying to get at least her number then you are out of game! Parties are not the time to get a number, but rather get her home with you or at least hook up hoping she will be impress and remember if she is not too drunk. NUMBERS DON’T APLLY HERE! So what do you do well first you tighten your belt realize God gave you balls and start getting freaky on the dance floor .
She probably had some beers and no matter who it is in the dance floor all women get turned on so give her a good time by turning her on and then go for a big kiss. (yes big kiss not a ***** romantic kiss because if she is getting freaky with you those soft kisses make you look weak. Now situations may vary depending on the way she is dancing with you and the look on her eyes but hopefully you get the point. Also a big kiss doesn’t mean you leaving all your saliva in her face). She doesn’t kiss you , when the song is over say “ I have to go” and start dancing with a new girl!
Now the party is over or you find this hot chick by herself sitting down or in a corner of the room. THIS IS MONEY!!!!!! First of all don’t ever ask her if she is there with someone, that’s weak, you don’t care if she is here with Arnold, or Bruce lee you only care about getting her at all costs. Well this is when you pull the LONE AGGRESSIVE WOLF and come up with a conversation about nothing in fact you just let her due the talking get her a bit relaxed by joking and keeping the party atmosphere up and then you kiss her and invite her to your place. AS SIMPLE AS THAT!!! If she refuses say well I have to go are you going to stay here by yourself? This is the scene when the party is almost over and no one wants to be home alone at the end of the party but prefer to keep it going, so chances are she will take your offer! BESIDES IS COLLEGE ALL THIS WOMAN WANT TO HAVE FUN!
BE AGGRESSIVE!
