Age Patterns In Misbehaving Women

[logicallefty]

I've posted my opinions about this before. If you look at my past posts you will see what I think.

Women tend to cheat and/or leave a man for another man more at a certain age range. I see it over and over and over at one particular range. I just saw another case yesterday finding out that a friend's wife of 8 years is leaving him. He thinks she either has another dude in the bullpen ready to romp or is already fvcking him.

What I am seeing with people I know and my own experiences is crystal clear as anything else we talk about here on SS. Now I am ready to see what you guys are seeing on this issue.

 

[Desdinova]

Age 28-32 is my vote. She still has some of her youth left, some of her baby-making ability left, and is able to rationalise a lot of reasons to start over.

Young women are going to either be c0ck-hopping, or they're going to latch onto one guy for a lengthy amount of time.

Older women just want security.

Without even thinking about it, I just realised that my ex-wife was 31 when she cheated on me.

 

[SkrooU]

33-37

 

[El Payaso]

All ages.

 

[GT40]

Man if the wife isn't happy all ages till 55 are bad.
Women don't even figure out who they are until 35 minimum. It's a broad number. Look how many marriages split after the kids are 18-20. Lots and it's more frequent. If a woman is feeling down or low, low self esteem, hates her husband etc.....
she's an easy mark for a guy to prey on.

 

[HoneyHitter]

Whenever there's a significant change of lifestyle or SMV.

 

[devilkingx2]

depends entirely on the girl, i don't think age is a major factor

personality is the major factor i'd say

 

[Mr. Kalikoat]

All ages.

Was about to say this.

I can't really vote on the poll because age is quite irrelevant when it comes to cheating. I think the more relevant factor is how many men she has slept with and how easy it is for her to replace you.

If you're dating a hot 21 years old babe who has slept with over 20 guys, it's likely she will cheat on you for various reasons. Sex comes easy for her, she already has slept with lots of guys (especially for her age) which proves it doesn't take much for a guy to get her in bed, so the likelihood of her cheating on you is high.

While on the other hand, an average, quiet, shy, and/or reserved girl of the same age who only slept with 2 other guys before you, both being long-term relationships, is much less likely to cheat on you.

 

[ubercat]

For me it doesn't matter. If they re cheating or reaching out for the next branch there will be signs of disrespect. At that point I m out anyway.

 

[exhausted]

In a STR relationship it has to be 18-22 bc of motive and opportunity. Drunk with power and no ethics or morals developed. They're barely putting in any effort to be loyal.

In a marriage/de facto marriage, 28-37 bc their sex drive starts picking up and they get incorrigibly bored with their "stability" choice or "poor" choice they made either a year or two ago or 10. They might have tried to be loyal and reform but can't after all this time.

Not even bored, more they aren't getting what they want of whatever it is they are bitching about. It's all about their selfishness

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I chose 28 - 32. That's when midlife crisis starts to set in. If they are married, then she will want to cheat. If she isn't married, she will want to secure some wuss to take care of her. Then probably cheat a few years later anyway. And she will do so without giving a flying FVCK about her current situation whether she has kids who can barely walk yet or a husband who nearly got killed on numerous occasions to provide for her and her family (yeah I'm talking to you mom. Fvck you and everything you are. Never stood for us and still don't either).

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Cooled off. I think the 18 - 22 is only if you didn't put a ring on it yet like boyfriend and girlfriend or fiances or something.

 

[exhausted]

Can't be said enough that women with low self esteem cheat, men want to get all paternalistic over low self esteem and might even feel more important or valued by their partner, but it means the exact opposite of what the man thinks it does.

In fact a true woman doesn't have time to be bored between working if she isnt at home with the kids, taking care of the kids and her husband, cooking cleaning and supporting her husband as he supports and cares for her. A real woman doesnt have time to cheat or be unhappy as she is too busy being a fantastic ****ing wife.

 

[exhausted]

Cooled off. I think the 18 - 22 is only if you didn't put a ring on it yet like boyfriend and girlfriend or fiances or something.

My son is 17, his mom left whwn he was 8 months old. I have raised him myself.
What advice would u give him as far as dealing with a mom who never cared?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

My son is 17, his mom left whwn he was 8 months old. I have raised him myself.
What advice would u give him as far as dealing with a mom who never cared?

To not expect anything from her. As far as she is concerned, she is dead or just never existed. A complete memory wipe of her from his mind.

When a mom doesn't care about her children like how a mother should, it can hurt the kid. I'm starting to tell myself this too actually because my parents keep hurting me "These aren't my parents. I don't have parents. My parents are dead". Except replace 'parents' with mom. Maybe he don't have to go to that extreme like me, but you understand the gist of what it symbolizes. It stops you from expecting ANYTHING from her. Stop thinking about her as a mom and start thinking about her as just another woman. Or else just completely forget about her.

If that can't be done, then I would suggest using it as fuel to further his ambitions. Say perhaps at a gym he wants to push out that last rep, he can think of her (or anything else angering) to push out that last rep or keep motivation for something. That helped me a lot.

 

[logicallefty]

My son is 17, his mom left whwn he was 8 months old. I have raised him myself.
What advice would u give him as far as dealing with a mom who never cared?

How old was mom when she left?

 

[exhausted]

How old was mom when she left?

I was 21 she was 20.

 

[logicallefty]

I am surprised at the results so far. I'm going back about 8-10 years in my mind right now at every couple I know where either the woman cheated and/or the woman left the man and had another man right away. In 9 of 10 said couples, the woman was 35, 36,or 37 when it happened. The other couple, the woman was 27. Perhaps this is just because of my own age and the ages of the people I associate with? I have a lot of friends who I have known since my early 20s. Back in my 20s and very early 30s, I don't remember any couples splitting up around that age. And if the women were cheating, my male friend had no idea. But as they got into their 30s and the woman turned 35, 36,37, they all are all falling apart now and its all over the women cheating and/or leaving the man and then immediately getting another BF.

Thank you for the responses so far. Please continue...

 

[Roober]

I would say late 30's , mid 40s once the kids get a bit older. Splitting with young children is tough, although most don't realize there is benefits to that as well...

 

[wifehunter]

I'd say, any age.

Loyalty is rare.