Before I begin, I should tell you guys that I'm 18, in my fifth year of high school.
Last friday my school had a dance. Normally I don't bother with dances at my school because they're never that good, but I'm on the executive SAC this year so I had to go. Anyway, I could tell that two of the girls I was dancing with were really into me (they were both really flirty, I grinded pretty intensely with both of them, had a slow dance with one, during which she was holding me really tight and resting her head on my shoulder), so I got contact info from both of them.
Now, at the time I honestly thought that both of these girls were at least in grade 11. However, I found out recently that they are both in grade 10 (so they're probably both 15). To add to the situation, I'm pretty sure they both think I'm 17, since all I told them was that I'm a grade 12 (since grade 13/OAC technically doesn't exist anymore, and I've gotten tired of telling people that I'm in my fifth year, since they always want me to explain why). Needless to say I'm kinda put off by a three year age difference (my limit up to this point has always been two years), but they both seem pretty cool so a part of me wants to give them both a chance to show if they're mature enough.
So... yeah, I'd just like to hear some opinions on my situation, or if someone has had an experience like this before, I'd like to hear how they handled it. I won't be able to respond to your feedback until Friday, btw.
Last friday my school had a dance. Normally I don't bother with dances at my school because they're never that good, but I'm on the executive SAC this year so I had to go. Anyway, I could tell that two of the girls I was dancing with were really into me (they were both really flirty, I grinded pretty intensely with both of them, had a slow dance with one, during which she was holding me really tight and resting her head on my shoulder), so I got contact info from both of them.
Now, at the time I honestly thought that both of these girls were at least in grade 11. However, I found out recently that they are both in grade 10 (so they're probably both 15). To add to the situation, I'm pretty sure they both think I'm 17, since all I told them was that I'm a grade 12 (since grade 13/OAC technically doesn't exist anymore, and I've gotten tired of telling people that I'm in my fifth year, since they always want me to explain why). Needless to say I'm kinda put off by a three year age difference (my limit up to this point has always been two years), but they both seem pretty cool so a part of me wants to give them both a chance to show if they're mature enough.
So... yeah, I'd just like to hear some opinions on my situation, or if someone has had an experience like this before, I'd like to hear how they handled it. I won't be able to respond to your feedback until Friday, btw.
. I was more concerned with the "social" effects of gaming girls three years younger than me. It's not that I myself would necessarily feel uncomfortable with the age difference (I care a lot more about maturity than I do about age, although I'd certainly NEVER go for a really mature 13 year old... lol), but I think that other people's reactions to it might make things complicated/difficult/awkward/etc. Do you guys think this would be true?
