Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
I never realized how powerful the moments after sex were if you wanna keep the girl. I always thought, "Get the booty. Girls interest will rise. I continue to receive booty." But I never had any guidelines on what to do and what not to do afterwards. I've been sleeping around, and so I've thrown together some tips on what I think maintains a women's interest in order to keep her coming back for more, and maybe even get her to brag about you to her friends.
CUDDLING
This may be a tough one for some of the stubborn, non-cuddle types, but this is a powerful tool. This gives off the impression that you don't just want her for sex. It shows that you actually enjoyed it and that her presence is welcome. It sounds gay, but it works. Before you cuddle though, make sure that you are congruent with the fact that you like cuddling.
How To: What I usually do in order to continue playing a dominate role while still cuddling is to skooch closer to her while my hands are planted under my head, and then I let her rest her head on my chest. It's the satisfaction cuddle. Your both satisfied, and she's happy that she could help. It also puts you in the dominate position.
SECRETS
My girl always asks me to tell her a secret. Your probably thinking, "But that's your girl." Well let me tell you... Before she started to ask me to leak a little of myself into her mental cavity, I use to tell her random tidbits about me. Things I only told people during deep conversations. She ate it up.
How To: When I give my girl one of my secrets, I tend to make it life goal oriented. It sets a frame of ambition. You want something outta life and you wanna go get it. Girls are all stirred up from the sex, that it turns them on a lot more than it normally would. Now your secrets don't only have to be goal oriented if you don't want. It could also be silly childhood stories or embarrassing moments.
APPRECIATION
This is really simple. Appreciate her body. Find a body part and caress it for a time. She'll enjoy it.
How To: My go to body part is the hair. I usually comb my fingers through it. Girls love this. I also kiss everywhere. And I mean everywhere. Head, arms, back, feet, and even armpits. But just a kiss, like a peck. Girls love when guys kiss their back. No one usually pays attention to a women's back, so be indifferent and kiss those backs.
STARE AND SMILE
This makes a women all warm inside. She feels appreciated.
How To: This is simple. Just stare into her eyes without saying a word, and smile softly. She may ask what. If she does, just say, "nothing", then continue smiling. She will feel so special.
KISSING
This keeps the attraction lit after sex. Use this sparingly though.
How To: I usually kiss 'em when she says something cute or funny. It's another "your special and appreciated smile."
I hope this helps some of you. This may not seem important, but I've had girls tell me how their other boyfriends weren't like this, and that I'm different. I had one girl tell me she was attracted to me because of how I acted after sex, which was probably the weirdest thing I've ever heard. But that just shows how important it is in keeping a women interested and keeping that attraction high.
One more thing guys. Value and appreciate women. Sex is fun and everything, so let the girls know that you appreciate 'em for it. Treat them right and they'll treat you right.
Good Luck mates!!
CUDDLING
This may be a tough one for some of the stubborn, non-cuddle types, but this is a powerful tool. This gives off the impression that you don't just want her for sex. It shows that you actually enjoyed it and that her presence is welcome. It sounds gay, but it works. Before you cuddle though, make sure that you are congruent with the fact that you like cuddling.
How To: What I usually do in order to continue playing a dominate role while still cuddling is to skooch closer to her while my hands are planted under my head, and then I let her rest her head on my chest. It's the satisfaction cuddle. Your both satisfied, and she's happy that she could help. It also puts you in the dominate position.
SECRETS
My girl always asks me to tell her a secret. Your probably thinking, "But that's your girl." Well let me tell you... Before she started to ask me to leak a little of myself into her mental cavity, I use to tell her random tidbits about me. Things I only told people during deep conversations. She ate it up.
How To: When I give my girl one of my secrets, I tend to make it life goal oriented. It sets a frame of ambition. You want something outta life and you wanna go get it. Girls are all stirred up from the sex, that it turns them on a lot more than it normally would. Now your secrets don't only have to be goal oriented if you don't want. It could also be silly childhood stories or embarrassing moments.
APPRECIATION
This is really simple. Appreciate her body. Find a body part and caress it for a time. She'll enjoy it.
How To: My go to body part is the hair. I usually comb my fingers through it. Girls love this. I also kiss everywhere. And I mean everywhere. Head, arms, back, feet, and even armpits. But just a kiss, like a peck. Girls love when guys kiss their back. No one usually pays attention to a women's back, so be indifferent and kiss those backs.
STARE AND SMILE
This makes a women all warm inside. She feels appreciated.
How To: This is simple. Just stare into her eyes without saying a word, and smile softly. She may ask what. If she does, just say, "nothing", then continue smiling. She will feel so special.
KISSING
This keeps the attraction lit after sex. Use this sparingly though.
How To: I usually kiss 'em when she says something cute or funny. It's another "your special and appreciated smile."
I hope this helps some of you. This may not seem important, but I've had girls tell me how their other boyfriends weren't like this, and that I'm different. I had one girl tell me she was attracted to me because of how I acted after sex, which was probably the weirdest thing I've ever heard. But that just shows how important it is in keeping a women interested and keeping that attraction high.
One more thing guys. Value and appreciate women. Sex is fun and everything, so let the girls know that you appreciate 'em for it. Treat them right and they'll treat you right.
Good Luck mates!!
