after I bang them, they start dating a black dude

[backbreaker]

i have surprisingly thick skin. **** like this doesn't bother me int he least bit. ignorant people are going to be ignorant. they were 100 years ago, they were yesterday, they are today, they will be tomorrow. i'm not going to lose a wink of sleep over ignorant people. i dont' get bent out of shape beucase i have a real life and in real life it's nothing like the bitterness on this forum.

however i do want to say this, and this post is proof pudding.

there are 2 types of people on this site. you can break everyone in this site up into 2 separate types of people

1. people who come here to try to get better and try to over come whatever real or precieved disadvantageous they have

2. people who come here to look for excuses and rationalizations on why things don't work the way they wish they would work.


if you want to have success with the opposite sex and not be a bitter douche, it would be behoove you to pay attention to the former and ignore the latter.

 

[( . )( . )]

1. people who come here to try to get better and try to over come whatever real or precieved disadvantageous they have

2. people who come here to look for excuses and rationalizations on why things don't work the way they wish they would work.

3. people who whenever any "taboo" current social subjects arise that concerns the average taxpayer with a heartbeat and his offspring such as feminism, faggotmania and biodiversity (a cool word for differences in race) he resorts to tried and true mainstream shaming tactics re: "you can't get laid, your just bitter, you hate women" in an attempt to halt any discussion that upsets his fragile bubble of liberal sensibilties.

Fixed.

That sh!ts getting old you ponzi scheming fraudster, now run along and rough copy your 4th farewell speech.

 

[backbreaker]

nmd

 

[( . )( . )]

lol i made a post

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1949241&postcount=29

that wasn't even racist. and it was closed in 30 minutes

this one has been up for 2 days

Yeah but you've been subtly peppering your posts with "da oppressive white man" theme for a good 10 years, some are bound to get pulled up.

 

[powpow]

yeah unfortunately this has degraded, as I had feared.

you guys can argue hypothetical situations, but the fact remains that race is still an issue in our nation. I can't necessarily say I agree with it, but even my friends in the black community... actually ESPECIALLY my friends in the black community are hyper aware of the societal differences that still exist.

the fact is, they still exist. I dream of a world where race is not an issue. but the fact is, it is the first thing we see, and the first thing we associate with people. well here in hawaii, we break it down even further into like filipino this, micronesian that, koreans japanese haole papolo whatever.

the question I had is really indeed, at purest, a question of inquisitiveness. you see a phenomenon and naturally your brain wants to explain it.

Just interesting, that's all. questioning is how we gain knowledge.

and I gotta say, some of the posts here, well intentioned as they may be, are simply ignorant. but I give props for proper discussion and input, so that we may all learn together.

my best to all of you

 

[backbreaker]

The problem with your post is that it’s a classic post-hoc ergo propter hoc fallacy (Every girl I dated ended up dating black men, therefore there must be a correlation between girls dating white men then dating black men). I don’t necessarily think you are (though some here are) racist, it’s just a faulty conclusion; you know nothing about these these men other than the color of their skin. You don’t know if they have game or not, you don’t know what type of job they have, you don’t know anything about any of the situations other than the fact that 1. You are white, 2. Your ex’s are asian and 3. The ex’s dated black men after you.




And from a sample size of what.. 3-4? If that? With nothing but 3 factors at play, you come to the conclusion that there is a natural phenomenon.

I mean, if you really listened to yourself you would see just how stupid this post is. The majority of women, date men inside their race, so if they happen to date a black man, and they themselves aren’t black, they dated a different color person before they dated the black person That’s not a phenomena, that’s probability..; in other words if girl X has dated 7 guys, and 2 of them are black and 3 are asian, 2 are white are white, the odds of a woman dating a guy that is not black before she dated a black guy is 82%

So if it’s not statistics, what is it? Are you implying that you are that ****ty in bed that you turn all the girls into black guy lovers? Because if there is any revelation with your post it’s not that Asian girls date black guys, it’s that 2-4 of them did so directly after dating you lol I’d say that’s more about you than anything else.

you guys can argue hypothetical situations, but the fact remains that race is still an issue in our nation. I can't necessarily say I agree with it, but even my friends in the black community... actually ESPECIALLY my friends in the black community are hyper aware of the societal differences that still exist.

NO one said race isn’t an issue. You talk it’; I ‘ive it. My son is mixed. My wife is white. My and others problem is not that you brought up race; we can talk about race in a formal manner. The problem is that you made an illogical correlation based off an extremely small sample size and only 3 factors without knowing anything else and came to the conclusion that even though YOU are the common denominator between all of the issues, the issue is African American men.

Even more ****ed up

t

han that however, is the notion that white is the default race of choice; it’s perfectly okay for an Asian woman to **** you, but when she ****s a black guy. .even though both of you are outside of her race, something is then wrong.

People used to do that with my oneitis/the girl that bought me here… she’s Colombian and white guys would get pissy when they saw her with a black guy or me (she dated a black guy before we dated) and they would get mad and call her out for dating outside of her race and she would be like I’m not white lol.

So no, the issue isn’t that you brought up race. The issue is that your post even if it isn’t meant to be, has very racist undertones to it, beucase well you’re being racist. Let me rephrase.. I don’t think YOU are racist. But I think your post is racist. Though I don’t get the sense you are trying to be. You assume that you should have some inherit advantage with Asian women because you are white.'


and ****, let's hypotehtically say i heed to all your points and that there is some type of built in cutual issue.. let me ask you which do you tink is worse, girls who after dating a white guy wants to try to be with a black guy to see what it's like, or white/asian/mexican girls who won't give a black guy the time of day for no other reason than he's black.

beucdase i assure you the latter happens much more than the former, and for the most part all the black guys here will tell you the same thing; **** it, suck it up and move on. nothing else you can do.

maybe that's some advice you can heed. you are aruging about some ****ing disadvantage nad you are playing football starting on the other teams 20 yard line lol and you are mad because you got a 5 yard penalty.

the day you date a girl and she is head over heels with you but shakes and dodges around taking you around her parents for no other reason than they won't like the color of your skin and she wants tom ake sure you "look right", you come holla at cha boy. **** i had that problem with my wife. this is a woman who lovedm e enough to have my son and was petrifed of what her dad woudl think about me and her. think about how that would make you feel. you didn't see post ****ign queue on here about it from me. that's ****ing life. and hell now he's the dad i never had. and you got guys on here boo hooing beucase some freaking plate likes dark meat who the **** cares cry me a ****ing river.


the day you and everyone else understand that life isn't, never was and never will be fair, the better off you will be.

Their solution? Oh it's the media glorifying the "thug life," or these women are insecure and have "daddy issues...." Like there could be no other reasons. Perhaps they are not as stubborn to change when dating outside of their own race. Perhaps they don't see black men the way some white men do. Perhaps it's just a coincidence. It could be a number of reasons.

my wife has daddy issues. she calls me daddy all the time when we are ****ing and i'm not her real dad.

 

[bish0p]

yeah unfortunately this has degraded, as I had feared.

you guys can argue hypothetical situations, but the fact remains that race is still an issue in our nation. I can't necessarily say I agree with it, but even my friends in the black community... actually ESPECIALLY my friends in the black community are hyper aware of the societal differences that still exist.

the fact is, they still exist. I dream of a world where race is not an issue. but the fact is, it is the first thing we see, and the first thing we associate with people. well here in hawaii, we break it down even further into like filipino this, micronesian that, koreans japanese haole papolo whatever.

the question I had is really indeed, at purest, a question of inquisitiveness. you see a phenomenon and naturally your brain wants to explain it.

Just interesting, that's all. questioning is how we gain knowledge.

and I gotta say, some of the posts here, well intentioned as they may be, are simply ignorant. but I give props for proper discussion and input, so that we may all learn together.

my best to all of you

And it is a interesting question, if nothing more than to satisfy curiousity (although admittedly, I did question the point of this question as it's something I would not have concerned myself with, but then again, I come from a different background).

Still, too many people come to these threads with the sole intention of degrading other races.

Like backbreaker stated, you have a lot of guys here who come to learn how to pick up women. However, you also have a select group here who want to downgrade others (in this case, black men) in an attempt to justify the reasons as to why the women they want are choosing guys who they (the posters) perceive as as being inferior, not as intelligent, thuggish, etc.

Their solution? Oh it's the media glorifying the "thug life," or these women are insecure and have "daddy issues...." Like there could be no other reasons. Perhaps they are not as stubborn to change when dating outside of their own race. Perhaps they don't see black men the way some white men do. Perhaps it's just a coincidence. It could be a number of reasons.

 

[bish0p]

Feigning faux shock at social "taboo" truth's in 5...4...3

Sorry mate, bullsh!t political correctness aside for a moment, the overwhelming REAL LIFE evidence of strung out/trashy/fat cluster B's with daddy issues contradicts your statement though.

Only in your sad little world, buddy.

You mad?

lol internet tough guy.

 

[Fly By Night]

I'm not saying that race has no effect at all. I'm meant that you can't say all women will date a black guy, but only fling with white guys. (assuming you're white)

Look at it this way, if you LOVE women with big boobs, you would much rather date your plate with the huge knockers versus the one with A cups. You COULD date the latter, but since you have a fondness for the first, you would pick the first over the second. It could work very well in the opposite manner, but that is all chance.

I'm black and I just got this white chick's number the other day and she explicitly said she wanted to "chill" with me. But the approach just before that was with another white chick and she wasn't having any of it.

Maybe he had you thinking that his skin got him that woman... or maybe...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PH8nTfxwByY

 

[( . )( . )]

Only in your sad little world, buddy.

Oh no not more liberal shaming ! I have to sleep at night you know. All too hard to disprove a fact for anyone with a set of eyes who dares voice it, best try shaming the person into quietness eh?

Jokes on you anyway, I'm a black lesbian as it turns out which means I can dare to suggest most of these chicks do indeed have daddy issues. I outrank you on the shame scale.

Play him off keyboard cat.

 

[bish0p]

Oh no not more liberal shaming ! I have to sleep at night you know. All too hard to disprove a fact for anyone with a set of eyes who dares voice it, best try shaming the person into quietness eh?

Jokes on you anyway, I'm a black lesbian as it turns out which means I can dare to suggest most of these chicks do indeed have daddy issues. I out trump you on the shame scale.

Play him off keyboard cat.

Damn your post made me lol for real. Good job trolling...you at least got me to acknowledge you.

 

[Mike32ct]

These girls are probably experimenting, but gradually.

How can I say this delicately...

Some people like to dip their toe in the (interracial) pool before diving right in.

You see, while it is interracial, an Asian girl with a white guy is not really uncommon or THAT much of a taboo.

So after dating a white guy, she might have felt more comfortable with the interracial thing and perhaps went for a more exotic look by dating a black guy.

My guess is she was curious about other races all along, but experimented in stages.

Hell, I did something similar (although I didn't plan it that way). It just happened that way.

First, I only dated white chicks by default. Then I really hit it off with a half white, half Hispanic lady. So we dated for a while. Then I had an ONS with a Hispanic girl. Then an Asian girl.

Anyway, you get my point.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I like the Asian spirit, but within my own race. Maybe soon we will all be forced to speak Chinese as they own most of the GLD.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

Asian women do not belong to you. White men need to get over the fact they do not run everything anymore. For ****s sake complaining about women that are not your own. Women see Black men, like men see Asian women. But black women and Asian men are not as desired. It's just that we are finally breaking free of social conditioning bull**** of being opressed so many years. Black men being low value is a bunch of neocon bull****. Good lord RSD ****s on this board in so many ways. The only women who believe that filth are conservative whites in America. I myself always prefer Latinas/Asians/Indian/Arabian chicks over white and black women anyway. So I won't even have to deal with that bull**** when I move out of Bama.

 

[Aristippus]

To the Original Poster,

powpow,

Hey. I think what you're experiencing is simply your brain cherry-picking data. I think it has to do with a part of our brains called the reticular activating system. Think about it like this. Have you ever had a car, and then all of a sudden you start noticing that a lot more people on the road have the same car you do?

So if you bought a white Cadillac (or, insert any other car model), all of a sudden you'd start noticing more white Cadillacs on the road. You probably already do this with whatever car you own. Whatever model car you have, you always notice it when another car that's the same model passes you on the road. And you especially notice it if the car is identical (the same year and color).

So what I think is happening is that maybe one time a few years ago, a girl you had a fling with started dating a black guy, and then every so often when one of the many women you've slept with dates a black guy after dating you, you notice it. Much like the guy who owns a BMW starts noticing all of the BMWs on the road.

In any case, you've slept with a large number of women (from what I remember from an earlier topic you started). So of course, when you're dealing with such a large number of women, a percentage of them might start dating a black guy later. And a percentage will date Asian, and white, etc etc.

Your brain is simply cherry-picking information. The attention can be focused by a few things. One, is simply noticing something different, and then noticing it again. Then the brain starts looking for that one thing. Another is noticing something familiar, and looking for it. Another is beliefs. Your brain will cherry-pick data according to your beliefs. Meaning once again, the brain notices what supports a belief and then ignores other factors.

Anyway, I hope this answer was helpful.

 

[backbreaker]

Asian women do not belong to you. White men need to get over the fact they do not run everything anymore. For ****s sake complaining about women that are not your own. Women see Black men, like men see Asian women. But black women and Asian men are not as desired. It's just that we are finally breaking free of social conditioning bull**** of being opressed so many years. Black men being low value is a bunch of neocon bull****. Good lord RSD ****s on this board in so many ways. The only women who believe that filth are conservative whites in America. I myself always prefer Latinas/Asians/Indian/Arabian chicks over white and black women anyway. So I won't even have to deal with that bull**** when I move out of Bama.

a dude that likes exotic women that lives in bama. you must have it rough.

a white girl with a good tan is about exotic as you are gonna get in bama

 

[bish0p]

Asian women do not belong to you. White men need to get over the fact they do not run everything anymore. For ****s sake complaining about women that are not your own. Women see Black men, like men see Asian women. But black women and Asian men are not as desired. It's just that we are finally breaking free of social conditioning bull**** of being opressed so many years. Black men being low value is a bunch of neocon bull****. Good lord RSD ****s on this board in so many ways. The only women who believe that filth are conservative whites in America. I myself always prefer Latinas/Asians/Indian/Arabian chicks over white and black women anyway. So I won't even have to deal with that bull**** when I move out of Bama.

Good post. It seems like some of the guys here feel that they are entitled to women of all races because of the color of their skin. However, if these women find other races attractive, then there is something wrong with them.

 

[backbreaker]

Good post. It seems like some of the guys here feel that they are entitled to women of all races because of the color of their skin. However, if these women find other races attractive, then there is something wrong with them.

a big part of the AFC's problem.. regardless of race, age, socioeconomic status or what not, is not only that they don't have any game or dont' know how to deal wtih women, but their expectations from women. most AFC's they aren't so much mad beucase they aren't getting laid, they feel that they are entitled to something beucase either society tells them if they do this or do that then they will get X. then when it doesn't work that way they want to take it out on someone. in this case, it seems to be black men.

and i'm not just talking about the OP or the people in this post **** i'm talking about me. when i first got here, my entire life up to that point, i did what my mom told me to do i did what church told me to do, i got good grades, i was respectful, i listened, i was a good BF and girls always ran the other way. to jocks, to players, go guys with better cars or more money, to whatever.

I kinda felt like you know dammit i did what i was supposed to do i should get something out of this, you aren't doing your end. most guys think that well when you become scorn that you just do wht everyone else does, but it doesn't work like that, you become more bitter towards the people who have what you want, i despised players, and jocks.. which in an ironic twist of faith put me on the business path I am on now, i quit playing basketball beucase i hated jocks i didn't want to be one.

that's what the OP is doing. he isn't doing it on purpose. he doesn't even know he's doing it. but he's looking for someone to lash at because of his lack of success.

you need to recalibrate your exceptions and understand you or anyone else aren't entitled to anything. women like who they like for whatever reason they feel like liking that person and there isn't anything you can do about it but become someone that women like. dating / gaming women isn't a job. you don't put 40 hours a week in and on friday go get your guaranteed ***** paycheck.

if i could pass along any message it would be that you aren't entitled to *****. being a normal well adjusted member of society does not entitle you to *****. being a good looking dude does not entitle you to *****. having a good living and going to church every sunday does not entitle you to *****. taking girls out on dates, opening doors, talking on the phone, being a good friend, nothing entitles you to a normal ration of *****.

i really started to get this thing here, once i stopped blaming women for being women, and started becoming a man who attracts women.

now, being a productive normal member of society and being a guy who attracts ***** is not mutually exclusive; but they aren't necessarily the same thing either.

 

[YOUR BORING LIFE]

I kinda don't want to touch this topic, but all I will say is that a lot of women assume black males to be more "alpha" than whites.

-Scars

Women have such silly perceptions, it's a miracle they're allowed to vote.

 

[perseverance]

Christ Almighty, who cares who has sex with who? I couldn't care less what someone else is doing, I only care about what I'm doing and who I am having sex with. If any of my ex-girlfriends or ex-conquests want to sleep with black men, asian men, mixed race men, men from pluto and mars then that's their prerogative and is of no concern to me.