After date... she went crazy, and now I stopped contacting she contacted

[BrightV]

Guys,

I have a really f*cking awesome date.. I was full Kino, even with more sex driven touching.
She was 200% into it... and ended the date nicely... but afterwards, 2 days after she stopped accepting/undestranding my flirting... complained I was not going in deep discussions with her.

When Asked for second date ofcourse no clue when she can.. busy LIFE! but she is interested to know me more! (I was on a mode of crazy factor 200%)

3 days Ago, I just finished another non understandable discussion with just an ok (my side)... and went on silence....
in order to enforce No contact with her i even removed her phone from my phone.
now she texts (Are you alive?).

Do they understand anything? is she just crazy or playing? I do not know...

what would you do?

 

[dustmuffin]

Guys,

I have a really f*cking awesome date.. I was full Kino, even with more sex driven touching.
She was 200% into it... and ended the date nicely... but afterwards, 2 days after she stopped accepting/undestranding my flirting... complained I was not going in deep discussions with her.

When Asked for second date ofcourse no clue when she can.. busy LIFE! but she is interested to know me more! (I was on a mode of crazy factor 200%)

3 days Ago, I just finished another non understandable discussion with just an ok (my side)... and went on silence....
in order to enforce No contact with her i even removed her phone from my phone.
now she texts (Are you alive?).

Do they understand anything? is she just crazy or playing? I do not know...

what would you do?

Ask her on another date and stop texting so much

 

[BrightV]

Ask her on another date and stop texting so much

She is too busy to date.. She said I have no clue when.. And that lead me to disappear.
But she doesn't get it. Even if I tried to flirt.. She was negative.

Lets see. Will ask again out. And cut the messaging to 1/3.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That busy stuff is bs unless she is traveling. I've worked 90 hours for many weeks this year and I still saved time for things that I wanted. When she says she is busy I suggest just deleting her number and finding some more girls.

 

[Die Hard]

complained I was not going in deep discussions with her.

She's not gonna give in to you if you don't compromise on her "demand". She feels you're just focusing on kino and physical attraction, so she will hold back until you show more emotional connection and create more of a bond with her.

It's up to you if you want to do that or maybe fake it just to get in her pants. But if you want more from this girl, you need to deal with this matter somehow. Going no contact and ignoring her will create interest in her but it will only get you so far...

 

[Armourhead]

Shes bsing when she says she has no time for a second date. Women will find a way to see/**** you if they want to. They don't let **** get in the way. Gonna be hard to recover this one since you are both playing the game and one of you has to back down in order for this to continue.

 

[BrightV]

She's not gonna give in to you if you don't compromise on her "demand". She feels you're just focusing on kino and physical attraction, so she will hold back until you show more emotional connection and create more of a bond with her.

It's up to you if you want to do that or maybe fake it just to get in her pants. But if you want more from this girl, you need to deal with this matter somehow. Going no contact and ignoring her will create interest in her but it will only get you so far...

I understand that.. i thought of it. But I cannot understand is, why she wants through phone only, and through messages.

 

[MOTU]

She's not gonna give in to you if you don't compromise on her "demand". She feels you're just focusing on kino and physical attraction, so she will hold back until you show more emotional connection and create more of a bond with her.

It's up to you if you want to do that or maybe fake it just to get in her pants. But if you want more from this girl, you need to deal with this matter somehow. Going no contact and ignoring her will create interest in her but it will only get you so far...

Dude, I disagree and this reinforces my thoughts in your other thread that you are trying too hard to please women.

If you are interested in LTR's, which you seem to be, I suggest you read some of Athol Kays stuff.

OP, dust muffin has it right. Early in the relationship you need less chatting between dates.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Wait a week and call her to chit chat for a few minutes then ask for another date. Stop texting her.

If she doesn't give in to what you want, she either isn't interested or she is just too inflexible. Both are no goes...

 

[sodbuster]

If all she wants is to TALK, you have your answer. you are one of her b1tches who just happens to have a d1ck...... If she doesn't want to meet..... don't waste your time. You may need to build some comfort when you have the date, so she doesn't think you are just in it for the sex...... she's probably been down that road before

 

[dustmuffin]

I am dating a woman right now. I met her at a wine tasting and two dates after that. Sex on second date. I talk to her on phone to set up dates. I have texted once to set up a date. I do not use it to visit. I will call her wednesday to set up another date. I would like to initiate sooner because of good sex but i wont. Ice skating for 3rd date. This seems to be working. I expect her to start to chase in a few weeks.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I am dating a woman right now. I met her at a wine tasting and two dates after that. Sex on second date. I talk to her on phone to set up dates. I have texted once to set up a date. I do not use it to visit. I will call her wednesday to set up another date. I would like to initiate sooner because of good sex but i wont. Ice skating for 3rd date. This seems to be working. I expect her to start to chase in a few weeks.

Stay the course my friend. Call her once a week. You'd be surprised... 90% of the time they will text you before that to try to get your attention. Women really do get a bit insecure / intrigued when you aren't like the other 99% of AFCs blowing up their phone.

 

[Die Hard]

Dude, I disagree and this reinforces my thoughts in your other thread that you are trying too hard to please women.

If you are interested in LTR's, which you seem to be, I suggest you read some of Athol Kays stuff.

OP, dust muffin has it right. Early in the relationship you need less chatting between dates.

You're a funny guy Very ignorant, but funny!

I often make the mistake of being c0cky&funny and creating a sexual atmosphere all the time. For some girls, it's all I need to do to get them in bed.
But for other girls, it really helps if you mix in a few moments where you show her some real emotion, show her that behind the c0cky, sexual guy there is also a side to you which is able to genuinely care about her.

Juuuuust a little, though! Too much of that and you'll come across as a beta...

 

[beforeimgone]

Guys,

I have a really f*cking awesome date.. I was full Kino, even with more sex driven touching.
She was 200% into it... and ended the date nicely... but afterwards, 2 days after she stopped accepting/undestranding my flirting... complained I was not going in deep discussions with her.

When Asked for second date ofcourse no clue when she can.. busy LIFE! but she is interested to know me more! (I was on a mode of crazy factor 200%)

3 days Ago, I just finished another non understandable discussion with just an ok (my side)... and went on silence....
in order to enforce No contact with her i even removed her phone from my phone.
now she texts (Are you alive?).

Do they understand anything? is she just crazy or playing? I do not know...

what would you do?

She sounds slightly interested, but there are ways to amplify her interest with little to no effort on your part. If you are interested in making her show fall for you then..


Read my thread:


"All it takes it two things to make her love you forever"


(the punishment part only applies to ltr)