After 3 months shes gone cold

[wonderer]

She out gamed you.....

what do you mean?

 

[MrOctober]

So you have been dating this woman for three months and no sex yet? I know she is crazy are you? I would have dumped her a long time ago. You need to do the same. If she liked you she would have f ucked you on the first date. I have a three strike rule. No sex after three dates and I'm gone.

You have invested a lot in a woman that hasn't invested anything in you. Cut your losses, learn from your mistakes and move on.

agreed. 3 dates.. no sex.. im out.

 

[Dingo]

what do you mean?

She's spinning plates.... Enjoying different ****....

While you sit at home pining over her she is out living life.

 

[bigneil]

Update -

We started seeing each other again, it had become like old times... I did not have sex with her

Sounds like old times alright.

 

[marmel75]

It's around the time where she makes the decision if this is something that is going to work long term. If not then they usually cut bait because they don't want to become emotionally involved past that point.

It's hard to always know why it is, or what she was looking for, but in some way, you weren't it.

No reason to beat yourself up over it, it happens. Maybe she wanted more commitment from you, more security from you, more lifestyle from you, etc...she might have mentioned something in passing a few times, which is how they usually bring it up, but sometimes not...either way it's better to simply shrug your shoulders and find someone else.

 

[wonderer]

6th day of NC. I am beating myself up about everything, it is my fault that this didnt work out, what I am beating myself up most about is that I didnt sleep with her.

I have a date tonight and another date with someone else on Monday.