After 3 months, I finally got over my oneitis.

Plank

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Today met the girl, I had oneitis for and realised I don't feel that infatuation anymore.
Finally got over my oneitis for her.

Thanks everyone who gave advice to my questions.
 
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Plank

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Congrats, dude. Great feeling, isn't it? Three months is no time at all, either. Some guys go years.
Yeah, I read a lot of red pill material, went to the gym and started working on myself.

The words of Rollo Tomassi - Hate isn't the opposite of love, it's indifference.
This cleared a lot for me. Even if I kept hating her, I am still thinking about her, this kept me in the cycle for frustation.

I still talk with her, sometimes, but now I get bored easily.
 

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Good job, it's funny to see them after some time and you're just no longer attracted to them.

A chick I had it bad for back in HS is fat now. I still get a good laugh about it. I wouldn't give her two seconds of my time if I ran into her today.

You have to always remember that you didn't lose her. She lost you.
 
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