I told my girlfriend I would never cheat on her and I planned on staying true to that.Well I went to a buddys bachelor party Saturday night. They hired two dancers to come over for a couple hours. I knew of this beforehand and so did my girlfriend and she was ok with it. When the night was winding down one of the strippers was hanging on me and wanted to give me a private dance downstairs and I said no I don't really want to. Well one of my friends from work slipped her a 20 and told her to take me downstairs. I felt like I couldn't turn that down then since he was paying for it so I went with her.
She asked why I was so hesitant and I told her because of my girlfriend. She said we can just talk and I should of agreed but I told her just do what you were going to do since my buddy was fronting $20 for me. She dripped the syrup on my finger and sucked it off. No big deal. Then she dripped it on her thigh and I sucked it off. No big deal really. Then she dripped it on one of her tits and hung it in front of my face. Then I sucked that off too. That was it and then we went back upstairs.
Then I was like HOLY CRAP I think I just cheated on my girlfriend. I'm SUPER HONEST with my girlfriend and I called her immediately after that. I told her about it all. Now she is thinking of breaking up with me because in her eyes I cheated on her. She is going to be at the lake this whole week with her family and during that time she is going to ponder if she wants to be with me anymore. She wants to cut off contact until Friday so that means I have to go through a whole work week worrying til no end if she breaks up with me. Do you think this is a reason to end a 2 year relationship? People have been telling me that wasn't good but its not that big of deal. Opinions?
She asked why I was so hesitant and I told her because of my girlfriend. She said we can just talk and I should of agreed but I told her just do what you were going to do since my buddy was fronting $20 for me. She dripped the syrup on my finger and sucked it off. No big deal. Then she dripped it on her thigh and I sucked it off. No big deal really. Then she dripped it on one of her tits and hung it in front of my face. Then I sucked that off too. That was it and then we went back upstairs.
Then I was like HOLY CRAP I think I just cheated on my girlfriend. I'm SUPER HONEST with my girlfriend and I called her immediately after that. I told her about it all. Now she is thinking of breaking up with me because in her eyes I cheated on her. She is going to be at the lake this whole week with her family and during that time she is going to ponder if she wants to be with me anymore. She wants to cut off contact until Friday so that means I have to go through a whole work week worrying til no end if she breaks up with me. Do you think this is a reason to end a 2 year relationship? People have been telling me that wasn't good but its not that big of deal. Opinions?