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[Rex Man]

I guess I'll wait until I get depressed enough to blow my brains out. At least then it won't bother me anymore.

Good planning ahead!

 

[DJF or John]

Kngler?

Kngler, you are losing it my friend. You remind me of myself, let me tell you what to do.

You say,

"I could probably try some of the stuff on this site if I weren't depressed every second of every day because I've never had a girlfriend."

NO! Do not bend over and allow these guys to fvck you in the azz kngler! You have a definite belief on the inside, just because the "majority" of guys here are saying the same thing, that doesn't mean its true. I think you should follow my advice kngler, seriously! You're not depreseed because you don't have a girlfriend, you are depressed because you think there's something WRONG WITH YOU. If you would gain peace on the inside, and discover that there's nothing WRONG WITH YOU....that "depression" will leave.

Kngler, getting pvssy is very easy and simple. All you do is add a little sexual/seductiveness to your attitude. Gunwitch calls it sexual state, Pook called it embracing your sexuality, I just call it chilling the fvck out and being sexual. You should lick your lips, grab your balls, and give her a sexy look while you talk to her, and all your movement is subtle....meaning you naturally do it. All you do Kngler is set your attitude and mindset to that of a sexual and seductive nature...and your body will follow. And as a result the chick will become horny for you, now all you do is simply isolate and find a nice place to do whatever it is you want to her.

And looks don't matter, hygienes matter. Fvck what these guys say on here Kngler, fvck them! You don't have to have good looks, you have to have nice hygienes. That means, you dress nice, smell nice, look nice, those types of things. If you want a 6 pack I can show you how to do that, but it's not a requirement.

Kngler, LISTEN TO ME! DO NOT LISTEN TO MAJORITY OF THESE POSTERS! Tell me, did you just understand what I just posted to you?

 

[Nighthawk]

I read that although people are born with a natural tendency to introversion or extroversion, they will often go through a stage later in life where they will gravitate to the other extreme, often for years, before finally settling on the right balance.

This tallies somewhat with my own experience.

 

[WC2]

And for, I then WC, the reason I "log in" here....is because I wish to share with some guys on here who wish to achieve success in life. And disspell the bull crap theories that have been spread around here. I believe in doing so I am helping a person, that will soon help make the world will live in a better place. Some guys did that for me, so now...I am returning the favor.

I don't think this site is a "getting women" site, that's www.fastseduction.com. This site is a man's self-improvement and overall growth site.....and that's why I contribute here.

Well I'm one of those who totally agree with you. I was simply just saying being more outgoing will get you places in life. Simple as that. Forget that topic, we've already beat it to nothing.

I never encourage techniques or any stupid bull**** like that.. people come on this site looking for a simple magic pill to change themselves, when they don't understand that they don't need to change themselves; they need to improve themselves.

Some may get by putting on an act for a little while, but when reality smacks you in the face, you're going to realize that putting on an act for the rest of your life isn't going to work.

I was never into seduction science or anything like that. I've never been into following specific information. Each person needs to find how they themselves can improve with not just women, but in life. No one can tell you how to improve yourself. That's something each of us has to do on our own. And it's not easy, but who said being the better you was easy?

A lot of these PUAs and seduction teachers amuse me. When I talk to them it seems like their whole life revolves around worrying about women. They think they've accomplished something with every lay, while in reality a lot of them are just seeking popularity as opposed to personal enjoyment. Being one of these isn't exactly a lifestyle, but more a fantasy that won't last forever. To each his own, but when it comes to life I'll take the high road. Build on yourself, and then worry about women. No matter how many women you have, if you don't find yourself before them, you'll never really live happily until you do.

 

[Fortunate_Juan]

Well I'm one of those who totally agree with you. I was simply just saying being more outgoing will get you places in life. Simple as that. Forget that topic, we've already beat it to nothing.

I never encourage techniques or any stupid bull**** like that.. people come on this site looking for a simple magic pill to change themselves, when they don't understand that they don't need to change themselves; they need to improve themselves.

Some may get by putting on an act for a little while, but when reality smacks you in the face, you're going to realize that putting on an act for the rest of your life isn't going to work.

I was never into seduction science or anything like that. I've never been into following specific information. Each person needs to find how they themselves can improve with not just women, but in life. No one can tell you how to improve yourself. That's something each of us has to do on our own. And it's not easy, but who said being the better you was easy?

A lot of these PUAs and seduction teachers amuse me. When I talk to them it seems like their whole life revolves around worrying about women. They think they've accomplished something with every lay, while in reality a lot of them are just seeking popularity as opposed to personal enjoyment. Being one of these isn't exactly a lifestyle, but more a fantasy that won't last forever. To each his own, but when it comes to life I'll take the high road. Build on yourself, and then worry about women. No matter how many women you have, if you don't find yourself before them, you'll never really live happily until you do.

WTF?!?!? Are you my clone? I agree with you 110%

Excellent post :cheer:

 

[S.S.N. 318]

. Build on yourself, and then worry about women. No matter how many women you have, if you don't find yourself before them, you'll never really live happily until you do.

:rockon: straight real right there cuzz....fa sho....

 

[Pappadapolis]

The simple truth

No matter how many women you have, if you don't find yourself before them, you'll never really live happily until you do.

Exactly. That is the key advice as simply as it can be put.

 

[CrunchyNut]

I'm probably going to get flamed for this, but I don't care.

That's easy to say if you've had relationships before. Go 25 years without a woman, and then see if it doesn't bother you. Most guys have no idea what it feels like to see reminders that you've never had a woman about a 1,000 times a day. You can't even step out your front door or turn on the T.V. without being bombarded by it. I guess I'm supposed to be a machine and not be bothered by this.

I managed it for 20 years until I first had sex, mate. You just have to get on with it. Dont be so sentimental, simple as. Just do it. The more you think about it the harder it will get.

 

[knglerxt]

You're not depreseed because you don't have a girlfriend, you are depressed because you think there's something WRONG WITH YOU. If you would gain peace on the inside, and discover that there's nothing WRONG WITH YOU....that "depression" will leave.

Well, when you see guys everywhere with girlfriends and wives and you've never had anything, it makes you wonder.

It doesn't seem like it matters whether I'm depressed or not. Before a year and a half ago, I was never depressed about anything, yet I still never got any women.

The only way for a guy like me to get a woman is to get lucky. Just be in the right place at the right time and be seen by a very aggressive girl. I'm not holding my breath for that to happen. I'd probably have better odds with the lottery.

 

[wootapotky]

Well, when you see guys everywhere with girlfriends and wives and you've never had anything, it makes you wonder.

It doesn't seem like it matters whether I'm depressed or not. Before a year and a half ago, I was never depressed about anything, yet I still never got any women.

The only way for a guy like me to get a woman is to get lucky. Just be in the right place at the right time and be seen by a very aggressive girl. I'm not holding my breath for that to happen. I'd probably have better odds with the lottery.

Fvck you.

Why don't you take control of your own god damned life and quit b!tching?

You'll never get anything with that kind of an attitude. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. You only want us to feel bad for you when you're not deserving of it. Think of all the third world people that get sh!t in life and are still happy. If you can't get a girlfriend it's because your standards are too high at this moment. Lower your standards for now.

 

[knglerxt]

Fvck you.

Why don't you take control of your own god damned life and quit b!tching?

You'll never get anything with that kind of an attitude.

I never got anything when I didn't have this attitude, so changing my attitude is not going to accomplish s***.

 

[wootapotky]

Well the way I see it is you can continue to wallow in self-pity and reduce your chances to zero or you can realize that your life is a lot better than many others and come to the conclusion that if you want help you can get it but you're too blinded by your self-pity to see it.

So you failed before. So what? You should lift weights. Gives you an unbelievable high when you're music is blasting and makes you look better. But you probably won't take anyone's advice. You're in a state right now where nothing anyone says can get you out of it. You'll just have to wait it out. And I would recommend going to a psychiatrist since you're obviously in depression.

 

[knglerxt]

I tried counseling for almost a year. It didn't help. I've talked to family members about it. That didn't help either. I've taken medicine. That helps a little, but not enough. So, it's not like I haven't tried to get help.

If I could just see with my own eyes that a girl that I like likes me back, this depression would go away. After being single so long, I can't "take it on faith" anymore. I've got to see some physical evidence.

 

[00Kevin]

I tried counseling for almost a year. It didn't help. I've talked to family members about it. That didn't help either. I've taken medicine. That helps a little, but not enough. So, it's not like I haven't tried to get help.

If I could just see with my own eyes that a girl that I like likes me back, this depression would go away. After being single so long, I can't "take it on faith" anymore. I've got to see some physical evidence.

The fact is that very few girls will truely like you back. That is the case for mose people. Sure you might be able to charm them for a while but if they are just useless or stupid (as most are) then you will get screwed over.
Please realize that most women in north america are useless. All you can do is have pity on them for being so blind to great guys like yourself.

Your problem is typical of most guys your age. You have been told all your life that women want A, B, C, etc... You have also been told that in order to get them you must focus on "What women want". I'll bet you have done that and have failed at every try. You must sit around thinking "but I am all those things and they still don't want me".

You have to break the sick cycle of abuse. You have to stop trying to change yourself for women and starting trying to focus on "what makes a good woman" Qualify them not yourself for them.

Kill the desperation and unbrainwash your mind. Right now you are like a poor man that has a Ford Pinto and had the chance to drive anything else. You can't seem to figure out why there are so many problems with your car. But for some strange reason you are always blaming yourself for these issues. In other words, your view of women is tainted by all the low quality women around you. Go for the BMW of women not the Pinto with all the serious deficiencies.

 

[BadAssMoFo]

Man...what the hell are you people waiting for?


Read the news...pay attention.


We could die at any ****ing time. Do you truly want to suck on your mama's nipples for the rest of your pathetic lives?

Get out there. **** 'em all..literally and figuratively.

It may be "hard"...but look at all these kids, straight out of high school in the middle east...and whether you believe in the war or not...just look at 'em..


these are kids, for the most part. kids that walk around in a goddamned war zone, risking everything they have.

You think they worry about their damn confidence level..or their ****ing shy nature?


NO!


Hell no they don't.

They get the job done..no matter what they believe about themselves. And if they don't get the job done...they die.


That's what life is.


You can get the job done, or get the **** off the planet.


Stop *****ing about your "poor" mental condition.

That's pathetic woody allen ****.


be a ****ing man.

 

[knglerxt]

I think about that sometimes. I know a lot of people out there have it worse than I do. But it just doesn't last very long. I see too many people around that have everything I do AND companionship.

 

[rpglord]

knglerxt,people like you really make me angry.I mean what the **** ? Have you read any of the stuff on this site ? Have you been to www.fastseduction.com/discussion/ ? So why don't you go out of your house and stop girls on the street or the malls and start talking with them ? It may sound hard,but isn't that better then blowing your brains out ? I mean you can always do that right ? So why not talk to some girls first ? You have everything handed to you on silver plate here and you still can't get laid.You still can't even talk with girls.What about guys who don't have all this knowledge ? How do they ever get on with the woman ? I dont think your main problem is beeing quiet or shy or introverted or whatever.You problem is beeing coward,because any normal 25 year old grown up man would have enough courage to deal with whatever problems he is having,and that includes beeing shy,quiet or introverted.

 

[mrRuckus]

How's an introverted, quiet guy supposed to meet women?

I'm fairly introverted, have little desire to become extroverted and manage to date women. Though "introverted" often gets the stigma to mean "quiet little timid scared guy," which isn't what it means at all. It means that I'm not super social or feel the need to talk to people all the time to feel satisfied and complete. Often i'm just the guy who sits and watches and takes everyone else in but happens to have his moments or throw in some funny one liners so people keep me around. When I do speak, people in real life listen. Like Silent Bob... ok not quite.

Unless you mean so introverted you just play world of warcraft all day every day and never leave your room.

 

[knglerxt]

knglerxt,people like you really make me angry.I mean what the **** ? Have you read any of the stuff on this site ? Have you been to www.fastseduction.com/discussion/ ? So why don't you go out of your house and stop girls on the street or the malls and start talking with them ? It may sound hard,but isn't that better then blowing your brains out ? I mean you can always do that right ? So why not talk to some girls first ? You have everything handed to you on silver plate here and you still can't get laid.You still can't even talk with girls.What about guys who don't have all this knowledge ? How do they ever get on with the woman ? I dont think your main problem is beeing quiet or shy or introverted or whatever.You problem is beeing coward,because any normal 25 year old grown up man would have enough courage to deal with whatever problems he is having,and that includes beeing shy,quiet or introverted.

Yeah. I have read some stuff on this site. It's not as easy as just "going out and talking to girls on the street." That just doesn't work for me. I'm not talkative enough to meet people that way. I'll have to find the way that's best for me.

Besides, I'd say most guys don't meet girls that way anyway. So it's not just me. There are plenty of guys out there who don't approach girls on the street, and they have girlfriends and wives. People on this site act like that's the only way to meet girls or something.

It has nothing to do with being a coward or "not being a man. That's one of the main problems with people on this site.

 

[knglerxt]

I'm fairly introverted, have little desire to become extroverted and manage to date women. Though "introverted" often gets the stigma to mean "quiet little timid scared guy," which isn't what it means at all. It means that I'm not super social or feel the need to talk to people all the time to feel satisfied and complete. Often i'm just the guy who sits and watches and takes everyone else in but happens to have his moments or throw in some funny one liners so people keep me around. When I do speak, people in real life listen. Like Silent Bob... ok not quite.

Unless you mean so introverted you just play world of warcraft all day every day and never leave your room.

I'm basically like what you described. A lot of people mistakenly assume that you must be a push-over if you're quiet. This is not the case with me. If someone pisses me off, I can get mean very fast. I try to get along with everybody, but I don't tolerate disrespect.

I, too, have no desire to become talkative and extroverted and be around people all the time. I'm just not a people person. Unfortunately, this makes it very hard to meet and form relationships with women. The real challenge is finding a woman, yet keeping my true self intact.

I think I fool a lot of people. Just by looking at me you would never guess that I've never had a girlfriend or anything. I'm not your stereotypical geek.