AFC returns...

[Duasun]

OK.

I must say that some of you guys really wake something inside of me. I am a fvckin AFC .

Last night i found my self in house party at some girl chasing me for last few months. I don't like her, cause she is a little biatch (4.5). I was there with my friend and she was hitting on him, staring at me, and watching my reactions. But, there was her good friend, a girl (S. - 8) which talked with me all evening. I was really calm (occasionaly i felt like i am out of control, but that was a couple of periods / 30 sec. each), and self confident, cause i didn't really care about both of them. Instead i found my self thinking of another girl (a polar bear girl ).
Anyway, i droped S. some really cool SS lines with sexy voice (it was a good feeling) and i noticed her IL was geting higher and higher. She did some perfectly good kino, so i felt free to return it back (she reminded me that i must do the kino stuff).

Anyway, i found that when you really don't care to much you can be very opened and at ease. I presume that a confident man can really change the way the other people feel about you.

 

[cgraz]

You shouldn't care is right. Imagine this.

You're a hot babe, a 10 on the scale, and guys fall at your feet. You meet a guy who seems nice. First thing he does is compliment you on how good you look. Later on you guys go out to dinner, and he continues complimenting you. He continues saying all this sweet stuff to you. You realize it's sweet, but you wonder why this guy keeps doing this.

This guy is kissing this girls ass; basically supplicating. Do you think she's going to want to rip of his clothes right there and do him? Do you think this girl ever has to wonder how this guy feels about her? Do you realize this guy just put the girl in complete control, and he's not a challenge AT ALL?? There is absolutely NO ATTRACTION going on there.

Now, imagine being a good looking girl. How often do you think people would compliment you on your looks? Your clothes? Your body? EVERY F'ING GUY! You'd get sick of it; it's actually pathetic because you get it all the time. So what happens when a guy approaches you and doesn't compliment you. He doesn't act like you're better than him and he doesn't kiss your ass. In fact, he uses a few neg hits and shows you that he doesn't NEED WOMEN and he doesn't desperately WANT WOMEN. He gets women all the time and this girl is nothing to him. She's gonna be attracted as hell because she'll think she can't have this guy. And why the hell isn't he complimenting her like everyone else? This drives girls insane, and they'll do anything to conquer a guy like this...a challenge, especially if he sparked some initial attraction.

Why? Because he isn't DESPERATELY trying to get with her. He's having fun, making jokes, relaxed and cool. This guy is different...a challenge. She has to work harder hoping to get this guy to become like those other chumps that compliment her, so she can have a sense of satisfaction that she "conquered" him. And what happens once this guy f's up and turns into all those other guys? She's going to blow him off like she blows off all those other guys and look for another guy to conquer. It's all a game, a challenge, and you win once the guy has been conquered and you're in control. What you gotta do is not only be a challenge, but remain a challenge...unpredictable, busy, showing signs of interest but using other techniques to make her wonder if you actually are really interested (keeping her off-balance).

Ever notice how girls really try to seduce guys who have girlfriends? Then as soon as the guy becomes single, the same girl no longer has any interest? Just food for thought...

Anyways, don't know why I just posted all this, but maybe it'll help you out.

Cgraz

 

[Duasun]

I had this friend of mine who is in LTR for about 9 years now. His girflriend forgave him every time when he cheated on her, and that was about once in a three months... Anyway, they are still together and they have plans to get married.

But, what i noticed with this guy. He is open minded, full of him self, humorous, confident (although he is not so good looking), have money, sport car, etc.

Anyway, i see him walking to the babes, talks to them without any kind of fear, free like a bird. Maybe i am too close to him, and i can not see what is all about him. Can someone explain a bit of this to me?

 

[Knicknack]

something about you that still cracks me up... i can just imagine you standing there talking to a girl and thinking about what ceramic object you will make this one and where you'll hide it.

i suggest reading and re-reading the djb if you have questions about confident guys.

 

[Duasun]

Originally posted by Knicknack
something about you that still cracks me up... i can just imagine you standing there talking to a girl and thinking about what ceramic object you will make this one and where you'll hide it.

i suggest reading and re-reading the djb if you have questions about confident guys.

Well, i must make an bigger ceramic bear, i presume??

 

[THA REALNESS]

why didn't u close?

U should've closed dude .....always try fuccclosing<date-closing ,costs $,and kills off mystery,and why numberclose if her IL is high>?

 

[GirlCrazy]

something about you that still cracks me up

Maybe he'll never completely live that incident down, but hey, at least it looks like the guy is actually making some progress.

You're doing good Duasun. Keep practicing your DJ moves, forget about polar bear girl and all that wacky sh1t, and you'll do fine. Keep us informed!

 

[Duasun]

Re: why didn't u close?

Originally posted by THA REALNESS
U should've closed dude .....always try fuccclosing<date-closing ,costs $,and kills off mystery,and why numberclose if her IL is high>?

I should... But i didn't. I will call her in the morning.... It is hard to think in English at these hours...