Afc Highly In Need Of Help

[Mr. Broadway69]

Ahhh yall have won. Never in my life would I believe I would go to a messageboard for some help, but I had no where else to go. I am new to this so basically I am a begginer so help me out.

I have fallen in love with a girl. I really do think I did because I believe that she is the one and everything. We hada chance to go out but I blew I think it was because I told her that I loved her so much and everything and told her how much I cared about her. I still talk to her everyday and tell her how much I like her she says she wish I wouldn't try to say nice things because she has a bf( which was funny because she said she never wanted to go out with anybody). Sometimes she hints that she still likes me with her body language but whenever I adress this she says I look to hard into things. I dunno know what to do it has been a half year and I have not gotten over her. Its to the point wher I annoy her, she dosen't like talking to me as much and I call her and she talks for 5-10 mins and makes an excuse tog et off. I sometimes visit her classe but not to talk to her but to talk to the teacher and I think she thinks its because of her. So what should I do? Like I ready tried go find a new girl its really hard because no one seems to be as great as her. And I just can't "get over her". ANy tips? Then after I get over this I am going to practice to be a dj

 

[sux2bu]

DJ Bible

You have a lot of reading ahead of you.

 

[Duff]

Damn your an AFC. hahaha god i aint been on this board for ages. Looked up o n it a few days ago. Its good man. Don't think comin on it will make u a ladies man but it will help ya with decisions and shiat

 

[BGMan]

Ouch. You screwed up. There's no way that she'll want you after this, unless you have a serious attitude adjustment.

You might try with Doc Love's stuff; there's nothing better for hopeless AFCs like yourself. Seriously. http://www.doclove.com

BGMan

 

[Krassus]

Yeah i'm afraid that it's all over for you and that girl. Like someone already said, there's no way she'll want you after what you described. But i've got good news. By coming here for help, you took the first step to becoming a man who can have any woman he wants. Who has women chasing him, not the other way around. Good luck. Start reading, but remember to start practicing these techniques in real life as soon as possible, otherwise you risk becoming one of those people who have read every post on these boards and gotten nowhere because they never took their knowledge outside their bedroom.

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by Mr. Broadway69

Follow this arrow and it will hopefully lead you to the nearest door.GO through the door.Repeat and rinse untill you feel like theres wind and fresh air around you.

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Have a better life.

 

[Mr_Pink]

Immediately drop anything and everything with this girl. You bit the big one with this girl, but it's not as bad as it sounds. I used to be just like you, and I how it seems to be horrible right now, but trust me, things aren't.

For example, when I use a huge AFC (you), I went after this one girl my entire Freshman year because I thought the same way you did. She had a bf, so I figured if I acted like a door mat to her, she'd dump him for me since I was so nice. Right?? Wrong. When she broke up with him, I made my move and got shot down, really bad. But, 2 years later I found this site...

To make a long story short, I took what I learned here, and as an experiment tried to get a date with this girl. And I did. And you know what?? What I thought she was, and what she is are completely different. She's a flake. Not worth my time.

Anyways, I'm kinda rambling, so I'll try to make this coherent. This isn't a big deal. Give things up with this girl, and read what you find here. I don't personally agree with some of it, but there are a lot of good chunks of advice in here that will help you out. And don't worry about this girl. She probabley isn't what you think she is, and there's always another girl out there as good, if not better, than her.

-Mr. Pink

 

[Knicknack]

i felt really bad reading your post. so many mistakes... as the others have stated, read that damn DJ bible thoroughly... read it 5 times if you have to. you are 100% done with this girl. just get her out of your mind. go take up a hobby, a new job, anything where you are not thinking of her. consider her dead. let her be motivation for improving yourself. even develop a hatred for her if it motivates you. let this be your first step to recovery. we were all once there. good luck.

 

[Player_Supreme]

You blew it big time. You will not get her respect because you symped out and told her you "loved" her and you haven't even had sex with her...that's bad...you must be young kid. it's cool next time you will know better.

You gotta remain a challenge to them or they will get bored and move on or not get interested. This one will probably give you the body language because she is playing games....she like's the attention...but she doesn't want to commint to a pu*ssy who already fell down...young ho's love the bad boys who will make them "feel" something and love isn't what they want to feel.

Start your DJ program NOW!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by Mr. Broadway69
Ahhh yall have won. Never in my life would I believe I would go to a messageboard for some help, but I had no where else to go. I am new to this so basically I am a begginer so help me out.

I have fallen in love with a girl. I really do think I did because I believe that she is the one and everything. We hada chance to go out but I blew I think it was because I told her that I loved her so much and everything and told her how much I cared about her. I still talk to her everyday and tell her how much I like her she says she wish I wouldn't try to say nice things because she has a bf( which was funny because she said she never wanted to go out with anybody). Sometimes she hints that she still likes me with her body language but whenever I adress this she says I look to hard into things. I dunno know what to do it has been a half year and I have not gotten over her. Its to the point wher I annoy her, she dosen't like talking to me as much and I call her and she talks for 5-10 mins and makes an excuse tog et off. I sometimes visit her classe but not to talk to her but to talk to the teacher and I think she thinks its because of her. So what should I do? Like I ready tried go find a new girl its really hard because no one seems to be as great as her. And I just can't "get over her". ANy tips? Then after I get over this I am going to practice to be a dj

ONE-ITIS ONE-ITIS, FUKIN' EXTREME ONE-ITIS!!!

Your laughing at coming to a messageboard for help? Dood you need to dust the dirt off your yourself and stop obessing over someone that doesn't care about you.


PIMP

 

[00Kevin]

I can recall when I had a chick like that once. All that she did was call me and make me listen to her stories about all the guys she was with. That's what will happen to you if you don't stop.

You have to find a girl and F her hard on a regular basis. At the same time you have to date many girls as you can. you have change your ways.

When this girl you like finds out that you are a DJ she will show a bit of interest. That is when you take total advantage of her. Don't think about a relationship with her or anything. just think of her as a s|ut with a pound of cuum in her.
F her if you have too.

 

[orca]

This happened to me too (many moons ago!), and from reading this thread it seems like it's happened to almost everyone and opened their eyes. So consider it a useful experience.

My way of dealing with it was to be upset as you are, not knowing what to do next, but what happened to me was that she invited me to this club a couple of weeks later and I met who whe said was her new bf. I wasn't really surprised but this alerted me to the world of the biatch. I completely blocked her from my mind, expelled her memory, and forgot about women. As happened to me, you'll probably become so 'don't give a sh*t' that you'll have other girls you weren't looking at taking interest, and since you aren't blind any more you'll see them to be just as, and maybe even more attractive than the original!

So don't worry, absorb the anger and hurt and realise that women can do it to guys any time they want, and don't let it happen to you again. Remember to protect your heart at all costs and go for the fun. Seriously though, no attachments, you seem young and it's better to work out what you want before you wrap yourself up in it!

Good luck!