las_w
Don Juan
My chick has a couple of AFC friends. Now, the problem is, she used to date them a couple years ago (and had sex with all of them). Long story short, I'm hitten it, they're not, yet she runs to them to talk about our relationship problems, but she has sex with me.
I'm an RAFC as of yesterday, so I'm wondering should I care about her friendship with these guys. I know deep down that as far as sexing her, they havn't got a chance (I'm not completely sure about the other, as he's been around since childhood), but she's emotionally open to them (as far as problems) Now, my AFC teachings tell me that a woman should tell her man everything, and only be open to him. What I'm learning here however, says, "as long as I'm getting the ass, who cares?"
The reason I'm asking if this okay for her to have these friends, is that do to my insecurity, she's decided to NEXT her friends of the opposite sex (She was hiding them from me cause she knew I don't like that behaviour) (I call it my insecurity because, instead of risking my heart getting broken, I went ahead and broke up with her instead on Valentines day, and WHOA! Now all of a sudden she understands where I'm coming from)
And I was wondering should I even care in the end?
Also, if she has feelings for another guy (from her past, along the lines of "That summer of 99") Should I be concerned about her actions like that? I have similar memories with a chick from a year back, but I'm moving forward (Even though I couyd still sex her, I'm not)
What I'm saying is, is it okay for her to be friends with him? I KNOW her interest level in me tops his, but yall know where I'm coming from. (They DON'T talk like that, at least according to my knowledge)
Thanks
las_w RAFC
I'm an RAFC as of yesterday, so I'm wondering should I care about her friendship with these guys. I know deep down that as far as sexing her, they havn't got a chance (I'm not completely sure about the other, as he's been around since childhood), but she's emotionally open to them (as far as problems) Now, my AFC teachings tell me that a woman should tell her man everything, and only be open to him. What I'm learning here however, says, "as long as I'm getting the ass, who cares?"
The reason I'm asking if this okay for her to have these friends, is that do to my insecurity, she's decided to NEXT her friends of the opposite sex (She was hiding them from me cause she knew I don't like that behaviour) (I call it my insecurity because, instead of risking my heart getting broken, I went ahead and broke up with her instead on Valentines day, and WHOA! Now all of a sudden she understands where I'm coming from)
And I was wondering should I even care in the end?
Also, if she has feelings for another guy (from her past, along the lines of "That summer of 99") Should I be concerned about her actions like that? I have similar memories with a chick from a year back, but I'm moving forward (Even though I couyd still sex her, I'm not)
What I'm saying is, is it okay for her to be friends with him? I KNOW her interest level in me tops his, but yall know where I'm coming from. (They DON'T talk like that, at least according to my knowledge)
Thanks
las_w RAFC