I have a lot of nerdy looking friends because my best friend who would be the only one confident & fun enough for DJing is in a LTR as well (and will stay in it)
What I think girls like is if you stand by your friends. You like these guys because they're funny, intelligent or whatever. You don't care whether they're not looking the alpha male part.
If the topic comes up (like if she says "those your friends?" in a sceptical or pseudo innocent way) tell her that you absolutely love these guys for <whatever reason you hang out with them>, maybe followed by an "even though they might not look like much" but I would even leave that out...
Shows confidence and that you are not too concerned with what everyone thinks about you. Probably doesn't work every time, but if you think about it, if you really were at ease with what and who you are, this is how you'd react.
What I think girls like is if you stand by your friends. You like these guys because they're funny, intelligent or whatever. You don't care whether they're not looking the alpha male part.
If the topic comes up (like if she says "those your friends?" in a sceptical or pseudo innocent way) tell her that you absolutely love these guys for <whatever reason you hang out with them>, maybe followed by an "even though they might not look like much" but I would even leave that out...
Shows confidence and that you are not too concerned with what everyone thinks about you. Probably doesn't work every time, but if you think about it, if you really were at ease with what and who you are, this is how you'd react.