djginabase
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It hurts my heart to write this message because to me this is really deep.
I think everybody look's up to their fathers, if we were lucky we had a great
father's, who cared for us, who were positive masculine role models in life,
laying down the foundations and helping to guide us through life, because
they have seen it, with all the knowledge, wisdom and experience.
Well unfortunately in my case, this wasn't the reality.
I just noticed that my father is an total AFC, I was sleeping in my room when
I heard noises down below in the Kitchen. I went down to see what was going
on and , and there he was...... All drunk moving sideways, making loud noises,
tipsy and totally drunk.
He then hugged me and said "Son, do you love me?" I replied after a long
silence" a little" (because me and him doesn't really have close relations).
Well after that he just started "crying" with this burst of emotion on my
shoulder and told me that he caught my MOTHER CHEATING on him.
To me this was no surprise, tsk tsk tsk, only if he would have known.
He said "Your mother is going out with a more powerful, richer guy, and I
caught them!" Then kissed me on the cheek and left.
Now it sadden's me to see this 40 year old man, still lost and confused not
understanding that it was his OWN fault. The man had no passion for life,
didn't spend anytime with her wife, didn't spend time with himself either
life for him was just boring, same stuff different day, usual.
Now some of you guys might have a different prospective on this but, I am
GLAD that "My Mother Moved On" to a different guy.
What's everybody's take on this? Does anybody else have had a similar
experience like this one?
I think everybody look's up to their fathers, if we were lucky we had a great
father's, who cared for us, who were positive masculine role models in life,
laying down the foundations and helping to guide us through life, because
they have seen it, with all the knowledge, wisdom and experience.
Well unfortunately in my case, this wasn't the reality.
I just noticed that my father is an total AFC, I was sleeping in my room when
I heard noises down below in the Kitchen. I went down to see what was going
on and , and there he was...... All drunk moving sideways, making loud noises,
tipsy and totally drunk.
He then hugged me and said "Son, do you love me?" I replied after a long
silence" a little" (because me and him doesn't really have close relations).
Well after that he just started "crying" with this burst of emotion on my
shoulder and told me that he caught my MOTHER CHEATING on him.
To me this was no surprise, tsk tsk tsk, only if he would have known.
He said "Your mother is going out with a more powerful, richer guy, and I
caught them!" Then kissed me on the cheek and left.
Now it sadden's me to see this 40 year old man, still lost and confused not
understanding that it was his OWN fault. The man had no passion for life,
didn't spend anytime with her wife, didn't spend time with himself either
life for him was just boring, same stuff different day, usual.
Now some of you guys might have a different prospective on this but, I am
GLAD that "My Mother Moved On" to a different guy.
What's everybody's take on this? Does anybody else have had a similar
experience like this one?