AFC = Average Frustrated Champ :)

[BuckwildNYC]

That is how I describe myself. Champ....... because I don't supplicate to women, don't take their shyt, and don't sweat anything they say or do. But I'm still frustrated with women.

I mean what man on this planet isn't frustrated with women. They are not like us. They are illogical, emotional, annoying creatures.

And it's not like I don't get ass, I'm just tired. I'm tired of the games. I'm tired of having to do everything........ the pick-up, the phones calls,planning the date, picking them up, paying for everything...... and what do they do? Nothing but bytch and complain and don't appreciate anything you do.

Even when things are going good from the start and you guys are having a good time and having great sex, they always gotta fukk it up. Either by playing games or starting stupid arguments.
How come you can't go out with a chick for more than a month or two w/o having to deal with these stupid arguments. I've had friends for 10 years who I've never had a bad word with.

I'm sorry for the woman bashing but I wanted to see if any of you guys feel the same way. I'm fairly successful with women..... but for me all they are good for is sex and I just don't want to deal with all the other BS that goes along with it. I'd much rather hang with my boys and have real fun. There is nothing that I would rather do with a chick that I wouldn't rather do with my friends besides have sex i.e. play sports, watch TV, play pool, goto the gym, go out drinking, play video games........... everything is better with your friends.

So what's the solution guys? I've tried hookers and strippers. Paying for sex don't do it for me. Sex with them is half-ass and I really like to get into to it. I don't know what to do...... I just wish I wasn't so God damn horny all the time lol.

 

[xblitz44x]

You're never going to be able to experience a true, healthy tie with a women if you're operating from a place of spite like this. I don't think they are "illogical" or "annoying" but I agree that they are different. And to them, men are different.

So instead of going into every experience with the perception that "all bytches are money hungry, annoying creatures" clouding your view, try to clear your head and start from scratch. Shift your paradigm so you're operating from a different place. Instead of seeing them as illogical and annoying, understand that both sexes are different from one another, and just because she happens to be a women, doesn't mean that the way that you think is right, and the way she thinks is wrong.

Take the time to actually understand women. Figure out where they come from, how they operate, and what they truly want...instead of what you want and how you can take their panties off the fastest and use them again.

I'm not taking anybody's side with this post, I'm just saying that you're going to need to stop framing your relationships with women as a power struggle, and start playing on the same team with them to play the game of getting what you both want out of the tie.

Blitz

 

[RaWBLooD]

just keep searching till you find the right one, k true happiness is when you just left the gym and you cant walk, let alone drive, and theres a big bad dinner of chicken n brown rice waiting for you at home

 

[Social Engineering]

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
just keep searching till you find the right one, k true happiness is when you just left the gym and you cant walk, let alone drive, and theres a big bad dinner of chicken n brown rice waiting for you at home

Oh how i love leg day... Squat till you Puke.


But to the original poster... Sadly.. i agree to just about everything you said. Spite? Bitter? Who cares females are fuked up. They fuk things up just to fuk them up... its annoying. You could have Casinova's di-ck and they are going to want to go see what else is out there.

/sigh

 

[frivolousz21]

But to the original poster... Sadly.. i agree to just about everything you said. Spite? Bitter? Who cares females are fuked up. They fuk things up just to fuk them up... its annoying. You could have Casinova's di-ck and they are going to want to go see what else is out there.

im assuming most guys are here because they lack confidence with women or life.

do you think a women wants a pyssy male?

if the guys who came here were confident then they wouldnt of ever been here...unless they had a bad case of one i tis or stumbled to this place....a lot of guys here have such issues men dont even want to be around them.

this is a 2 way street....I can re call many times where I couldnt keep my dyck in my pants and I ruined relationships...


being bitter or assuming wont make you happy becuase most if not all people here really want a LTR and then a marriage...regardless of there anti women banter..

just know what they are capable of.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by BuckwildNYC

I mean what man on this planet isn't frustrated with women. They are not like us. They are illogical, emotional, annoying creatures.

Well, to answer your question, me. The traits that make a woman different from a man are traits I LIKE in a woman, and I don't want to marry a guy with tits and a vag.

 

[Socialreject]

To me, women are like guys in this aspect. If i like them then i will hang out with them... if not then they can go to hell. I don't see any reason to put up with a womans ****... ever. Sex is no trade-off for whiny, gamy, flakey etc type of women. Really what's the problem? Leave them in the recycling bin where they belong, simple as that.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

I appreciate your guys responses..... I guess I am a little bitter. I just feel like I waste WAY too much energy on women and don't get enough in return.

Unfortunately most of the things I do in life are based on getting women. Having a good job, dressing nice, going to the gym, and all that don't matter. All that matters is how well you "play the game" and I'm tired of playing games.

If I want a nice car or house or anything..... I know exactly what I have to do to get it. Getting a good women is like betting on 00 on the roulette table. And I guess I've had a couple of good women in my lifetime but ultimately I can't relate to them and then I get frustrated and I bail out.

It's like I love ice cream.... but if had to traverse a 100 ft. mine field every time I wanted a bowl of ice cream....... I'd be like fukk the ice cream, gimme a glass of water. (I hope that analogy wasn't too retarded lol).

I guess I'm just destined to go from one girl to the next to the next......... just stick around till things start going down hill and then move on to the next one. I mean it's fine now that I'm 30, but what will I do when I'm 45 or 50 lol. O well.............

 

[Qmanchoo]

Where do you usually find the women that you date? I find that the last place I want to look for a woman for a LTR is a bar or club where people "play the game" for entertainment purposes.

I met my last "LTR" in a religion class before I graduated college. We were mutually bored out of our minds since the teacher was lame and would just casually just "chat" back and fourth on a note pad and make each other laugh. After class we'd get coffee/food, and that lead to her coming to my place since I lived on campus and everything just progressed easily and naturally from there. Not too much effort involved at all since I was just following my lifestyle and she was just tagging along.

Although, we ended it when we just kinda mutually discovered that we couldn’t stand each other in the long term due to personality differences lol. Funny how that works out.

As the common advice goes... just live your life and the right person will come along... well, it's more like... if you're just out living your life chances are you'll meet someone on some common ground that makes the process so much easier... since the "date" was essentially us chatting in and out of class.

Hope that helps.

 

[tmpgstx]

Getting rejected is like getting knocked out in boxing. It's makes your confidence and ego that much less, even if it is by some tramp, much less a decent girl. Some of you try to blow it off, but you know it does affect you - in ways you may not even realize.

Only ask a girl out that you know is interested. Never see yourself getting rejected or doing something that would guarentee rejection. Not only will this better build your confidence, it will spare you from girls that do go out with guys just by hustling them at clubs. These types of girls go out often, and with many different guys more often than not. It also keeps your reputation in check which you should care about too.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Ok cool, I guess i just need to close my eyes, count to ten and find my happy place.................. ahhhhhh.

I'm gonna try. Wipe the slate clean and make a fresh start...... no bitterness no animosity. Just be a cool, positive, fun guy.

I was that guy at one time...... I'm not quite sure what happened to him over the years. I think my problem is that I dwell on my failures rather than celebrate my successes.

It's gotten so bad that I next girls for the slightest signs of disinterest. It's probably all in my head lol..... I'm looking for the worst so I find it.

I like that "make the ho say no".