Advise please women from a different culture

CaptFinnBad

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This particular women was brought up in Europe but her parents and family are Arabic. So a strict upbringing regarding dating, must be a virgin before marriage e.t.c.

She's only ever slept with one guy her ex husband.

She's recently come of a divorce (a guy from the same culture) , apparently she's been dating western guys a year or so, has never even kissed a guy during that time. Just been rejecting them all.

Anyways she's only gone and broken all her rules with me. She's just gone back after spending the weekend at mine, and we slept together a lot.

Now she's gone the reality of the situation has kinda hit home for me. To be fair I like her quite a bit , but in hindsight railing her all weekend might not have been the smartest of moves.

She's being very clingy, and is acting like I'm the love of her life.

I do really like her , but need to put the breaks on a bit.

Not sure what to do. Help please.
 
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Does she live in your city?
 

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There is a "Love is Blind" in the Middle East, which reveals a lot of the differences with western countries. Instead of sharing a room at a resort - they had separate rooms at the resort. When couples normally live together for weeks - they went back to their respective families.

Given that context, imagine how her family will think about your relationship.
 

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apparently she's been dating western guys a year or so, has never even kissed a guy during that time.
What kind of dating is that?

"Congratulations", you corrupted a "decent girl".
 

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What kind of dating is that?

"Congratulations", you corrupted a "decent girl".
I tried my best to warn her that I would corrupt her. I actually used the words " I will corrupt you" that she needs to think and stick to her morals when around me.

Haha maybe the best thing to do now would be marry her ;)
 
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There is a "Love is Blind" in the Middle East, which reveals a lot of the differences with western countries. Instead of sharing a room at a resort - they had separate rooms at the resort. When couples normally live together for weeks - they went back to their respective families.

Given that context, imagine how her family will think about your relationship.
Oh god. I don't even want to think about that haha
 
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I literally just bumped into a different women I know. She just asked to meet up this week. She was giving me the doughy, I want to **** you eyes and I swear she was about to blow me a kiss when she drove off.

Luckily we were only passing in a carpark, car windows down talking and another car started coming in so she had to go as she was blocking the entrance, so didn't arrange anything.

So that was a close call. As I really find her attractive and this will be a cluster ****, adding another to the mix.

So that's bought me a little time to decide how I proceed here.

I think it would be playing fire here wouldn't it, predicted with caution yeah?

Like I really want to be I think it could be a mess.
 
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