Advice....within 20 minutes

[Walking Anomaly]

Hey all, hows life?

Good.

Anyway, I'm at work and i answer and make many phone calls a day. Today i had a call from a pharmacy to fix a patients script. The girl on the line sounded sexy as hell and she was hitting on me. I was surprised becuase its not something i expected while working. I was jus doin my thing. Anyway, she was hittin on me so i was flirtin back. We hit it off....only i didnt ask for her # or nothin because we were rushed. I have the number of the pharmacy and im legit contemplating calling back to flirt a bit more n get her # but im wondering if it will come off as desperate and/or weird.

Let me know what you guys think.

thanks
~ WA

 

[true romance]

call her back and tell you made a mistake on the script
there is one last question you forgot to ask
Q:
I'm going to have a drink after work tomorrow at XYZ bar or lounge...come join me.

you are a man, see opportunities and take it...otherwise you wonder..

it's how you say it and if she flakes then move on...

 

[Igetit!]

I say don't call her back,and don't ask her out. If the two of you happen to end up talking again,then maybe you could ask for her number. It's too deep to get into right now,but there are other things happening on a different level that you aren't aware of. The first call happened because of business,so she didn't detect any intent on your part. The two of you were talking as part of your jobs. However,if you call her and start flirting with her,then ask for her number,she'll sense that the reason for this phone call is different than the previous ones,then all kinds of awkwardness is going to set in. Personally,I would like to know what kinds of things the two of you talk about,what exactly you say to each other,and how long this has been going on.

I always say that women are like coke machines. You have to put something in to get something out. So if you getting IOIs from this girl out of the blue,just one day you pick up the phone and all theses IOIs start flying out towards you without you doing anything to cause them,then tread carefully my friend.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

it only happened once, about a couple of hours ago. I call many places and many places call me every day.

The convo went like this....

We were talking to fix patients prescription, and i was reading it to her. A code was on the paper "Qhs" which means to take one before bed. I mistook it for the code "Qid" which means 4 times a day.

She corrects the error, and i say " ahh i thought the Q meant 4x times a day. She clarifies the "Qhs" and Qid" and then explains that she is in pharmacy school so shes learning about that kind of stuff.

I say to her "ah i got to learn 'Qhs' then hehe" she says aw why. I tell her because im goin to med school (which is true). So were chattin for a minute about how were doin this stuff part time while goin to med n pharmacy school.

She then flirtily asks me my age, so i tell her and then respond in the same manner wit the same question, ya know, teasin her. Turns out shes one yr older than me.

So at the end of the convo the pharmacy has to take the name of the person calling to fix the script. So again she says in a flirty way, "whats your name"? so i tell her and then i ask her the same question in the same manner teasing her (even tho thats not part of the procedure) - just felt like askin.

She responds in a shy flirty manner ( i could tell by her voice) "whyyyyyy?? hehehe its *HB*

laugh a bit more, and then say bye.

That was the convo for ya Igetit.

anythin else??

 

[02hero]

Be careful OP, if they sound hot on the phone, add 5 stone.....

 

[true romance]

you analyze too much....you ask our opinion here to call or not..it means you want to call her deep down...you feel good then do it..be a man

Take what is yours.....Jesus..it's a phone call...you are not checking a patience symtoms for diarrhea..who give a **** what she thinks and feels.

This is about you... how you feel and what you want..Do it

 

[Walking Anomaly]

thank you...pinned it out bud hehe

Jus thought it might be construed as needy/weird

 

[DJ#7436]

I'd do what "true romance" above stated but i would ask for an email address or myspace address so i could check her out before inviting her for drinks.

My 2 cents

DJ

 

[true romance]

you assume that it's weird /needy before even placing a call...

Assume she likes you and assume she is dying to meet you...assume she will tell all her GFs how you two meet...

do you assume that you will fail as med student?

it's about how you say it on the phone..sense of humor goes a long way..

if she flakes, wish her a great day until the next prescription !!!.....

 

[Igetit!]

Wow. You know what? She actually does sound a bit interested. I'd still be careful,though. I can't speak for everyone else,but for me,everytime I apply logic to a situation with women,it doesn't work out. And you're thinking logically right now. You're thinking,"Well,she flirted with me,so I guess I'll ask
her out." That's too simple,and with women NOTHING is just that easy.
What actually happened was when you told her that you are going to med school,you demonstrated some value,and that's why you got an IOI.
But hey,if you want to ask her out,go for it. I just don't think that a one time,5 minute phone call is enough to really generate enough attraction for her to say yes.

 

[true romance]

I just don't think that a one time,5 minute phone call is enough to really generate enough attraction for her to say yes.

That's why you fail....


I saw people do it...wish you have more skills

that's why you call and pratice..seize the moment..take a risk or you will be
dateless.
sometime things are simple...don't put obstacle where there is none

 

[Igetit!]

I just don't think that a one time,5 minute phone call is enough to really generate enough attraction for her to say yes.

That's why you fail....


I saw people do it...wish you have more skills

that's why you call and pratice..seize the moment..take a risk or you will be
dateless.
sometime things are simple...don't put obstacle where there is none

Hey,I told him to go for it. Calm down man.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Yeah thats what im going to work on next, gotta step out my comfort zone more often.

 

[true romance]

Igetit.....I just get little pump..

it was a natural flirt, the vibe was good..so he should go for it..

stuff happen out of blues sometimes are the best..it's not a cold approch..

I just saw a lot of posts asking should I call or not...

If you don't call, you are alone..I mean call with confidence and flirting, no expectation, light hearted, have fun...not under needy/weird vibe.

 

[aifia]

dude is it just me or did no one pick up on the fact that she only "sounds" sexy. It does sound pretty desperate trying to get a number of a girl you haven't even seen yet

 

[daygameguy]

Hey all, hows life?

Good.

Anyway, I'm at work and i answer and make many phone calls a day. Today i had a call from a pharmacy to fix a patients script. The girl on the line sounded sexy as hell and she was hitting on me. I was surprised becuase its not something i expected while working. I was jus doin my thing. Anyway, she was hittin on me so i was flirtin back. We hit it off....only i didnt ask for her # or nothin because we were rushed. I have the number of the pharmacy and im legit contemplating calling back to flirt a bit more n get her # but im wondering if it will come off as desperate and/or weird.

Let me know what you guys think.

thanks
~ WA

Trust me on this. It will never be weird if YOU don't think or feel weird doing it.

 

[Aragon034]

dude is it just me or did no one pick up on the fact that she only "sounds" sexy. It does sound pretty desperate trying to get a number of a girl you haven't even seen yet

I dunno about that, i had to call Energizer once for work and something similar happened then. if i hadn't gotten some of her info (age, name, hair color) and done some back and forth flirting, i wouldn't have recognized her later when she came to teh store. nice blonde HB8, didn't pursue since she was engaged but she served as social proof to everybody else. Plus i got some cheesy Energizer gear as a bonus. (a nice toque, like 20 energizer bunny plushies, and even free batteries)

Go for it man, i'd use something like what True Romance gave you. Make it your own if you wish but it's fine the way it is