***Advice/Tips For: The other type of Breakup...***

[Dgwizdal]

Many of us stumbled upon SoSuave as a result of a castrating breakup where you did all the wrong things, poured your heart out and chased like a faggot, and then googled "how to get your ex back" once your dignity and balls were taken by your oneitis. From there, we saw the light and ran with it opening doors with women some guys may never thought possible.

POINT IS - NOW EVERYONE WHO ISNT A ROOKIE ON THIS SITE KNOWS HOW TO HANDLE A BREAKUP DUE TO A LOSS OF ATTRACTION FROM THE WOMAN.

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Now that you have taken game and ran with it - you may abuse your new found knowledge and mentality or let things get carried away with women ultimately hurting them OR putting them in a place where they are forced to withdraw to protect themselves. THIS IS A FACT.

Sometimes although a woman may still be attracted, her final trump card may be to dump you because: You won't commit, you treat her like sh*t, you cheated on her, you pulled an a$$hole move, you don't give a f*ck, or you dumped her and want it back.

A woman can only put up with so much before she pulls the plug unless she is f*cked in the head. Typically in my experiences, post break up, Women have a MUCH tougher time getting over the a$$holes and the dynamics are 100x more in your favor if you are they guy she couldn't have and she has forced herself to leave.

If you are that DJ Badboy or an a$$hole who wants to man up and right your wrongdoings, turn them into a FB, or even pursue something more CORRECTLY - What differs from typical breakup advice??

How does the game change when her attraction is still high but rapport has been broken...?


Please share experiences/comments/thoughts...

 

[Cheeks]

I don't think there's any change to the game. She wanted those things from you when you were *in* the relationship, now its "too little too late" for her.

I really believe No Contact is the best solution, simply because you can't screw up when you're not in contact. If she misses you, she will come to you.

 

[SAYNO]

Every time I get dumped and I think its because I'm "non-committal" / "emotionally distant" / "too mean" I find out there was another guy. I'm sure this unicorn woman that breaks up with you for those reasons exists, I just wouldn't count on it.

Trust the game, trust the system, stick with it. It will work more often than not. When you find your uniforn, throw all this sh1t out the window. If she's as good as advertised, you shouldn't need it.

Bingo Bango! I once dated one of these mystical females, kept saying that she was tired because i wouldnt fully commit to her and that she didnt feel secure in the relationship and that she wanted out. I bought it hook line and sinker at first but then got suspicious. So three days later i hid across the street parked my car and waited and sure enough she just like clock work was screwing another guy! Almost always nearly 100 percent of the time by the time they break up with you its been going on for a while!!! Dont be fooled, guys who really know women will confirm this for you.. the only exception to this rule is when they catch YOU in the act of cheating, otherwise everything else is an excuse to leave the relationship to go **** someone else.

 

[Suspens]

Once she starts feeling unhappy, you have to start thinking for her replacement . Don't try to change yourself or try to keep her happy by undoing the things that offended the princess as it will lower the attraction even more. You should have acted like a caring and dependable man form the beginning, it's late now.

Her excuses don't matter, what matters is the fact that she is thinking about leaving you. Pick up the signs of unhappiness early and dump her in the most cold-hearted way, and you will have a willing-to-do-every-position-and-in-every-hole FB reserved for the future.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Bump. I am no rookie here and very game aware. We dated for 8 months and I pretty much never gave her validation and spun plates on the side the whole time. Pretty much treated her as disposable even though she was my girlfriend in the public eye.

She always pushed for more but I kept her at arms length and it came to a head when she did something I thought was disrespectful and left her high and dry to find her own way home. That resulted in a fury of you don't are about me's, don't want what I wants, and she cant continue in a relationship w someone who doesn't want it to get serious. My response was basically "ok" never losing my frame.

This was 6 months ago. Since then ive been banging her friend, other plates, and her other friends still are always hittin me up. She on the other hand doesn't even go out, no dating, no nada - hasn't done sh*t and will leave her friends to go home right when i get to the bar and they'll claim "she's too drunk" We've been lc and she is catty the few times ive caught her but always warms right up when I check her and be who I have always been. No backsliding no stench of betaness always ****y, funny, and no neediness period.

Anyway she is starting to reach out more and more but ive been blowing her off. I feel bad about the way I treated her as she is gf material I just didnt give a f*ck. I guess the question here is how to re engage properly. I have the power and higher value here completely and want to breifly give her some validation about the past that she wasn't just some chick I bang and didnt give a f*ck which is the way I framed it and the way it ended.

I know you guys think she monkey branched which is usually the case due to loss of interest but it's no the case hence the thread name.

Roissy says it best: "Beta suck-ups are rejected before they even know where they went wrong; an ******* can dump a quarry full of his toxic slurry into a woman’s heart and she’ll still leave the door to her ***** open a crack for him, based on nothing more than a slim hope he’ll redeem himself in her eyes."

How do I do it right?