Romjuan
Don Juan
so theres an event the city i live in was hosting this last weekend. my gf was there with her girlfriends getting drunk. afterwards they wanted to go to a club near by however i wanted to go to a different club. so we went our seperate ways for the night. she texted me to come over late nite when she was home but i was already in bed so i didnt.
the next day she found a tampon wrapper in my house bathroom so she questioned me about it. (it was nothing really friends gf must have put it there) but i replied by saying it was nothing and why would you even think that. how would you like it if i searched your phones text messages. she said go ahead and look theres nothing.
i came across some guys name and asked about it. heres what the text conversation said.
gf -" come to xxx bar"
guy- "cool"
later in the night around 2am
"so you live off xxx right? can i come?"
she didnt respond.
i asked for an explanation she said that it was a guy she dated one time before me. she now hookd him up with her girl friend. the girlfriend that night asked my gf to text him to come to the bar. she did. she said after the bar she saw that text and she was mad he would do that and didnt respond.
so now i dont know how to react. we talked about it last nite and that was the explanation i got. do i bring it up again today? do i not bring it up because it isnt alpha? we have been together for 2 years with a 4month break. in between. if i do bring it up how do i talk about it. thanks for help guys. your advice is appreaciated.
the next day she found a tampon wrapper in my house bathroom so she questioned me about it. (it was nothing really friends gf must have put it there) but i replied by saying it was nothing and why would you even think that. how would you like it if i searched your phones text messages. she said go ahead and look theres nothing.
i came across some guys name and asked about it. heres what the text conversation said.
gf -" come to xxx bar"
guy- "cool"
later in the night around 2am
"so you live off xxx right? can i come?"
she didnt respond.
i asked for an explanation she said that it was a guy she dated one time before me. she now hookd him up with her girl friend. the girlfriend that night asked my gf to text him to come to the bar. she did. she said after the bar she saw that text and she was mad he would do that and didnt respond.
so now i dont know how to react. we talked about it last nite and that was the explanation i got. do i bring it up again today? do i not bring it up because it isnt alpha? we have been together for 2 years with a 4month break. in between. if i do bring it up how do i talk about it. thanks for help guys. your advice is appreaciated.