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Dear fellow DJ's,

I am here today to ask some for some advice on a certain situation, and hopefully some of you could shed light on it for me seeing as I've never been in a situation like this before.

So basically some girl is coming over to my house tomorrow for secks, which is awesome, and she's probably like 7/10-7.5/10, very cute.

Although I get the STRONG feeling that she has some mental illness.

So today I implemented something that I read somewhere (to be honest i forget where i read it) but basically it said to stop talking-texting/contacting a girl to see how she reacts to it, and it will show you what you need to know about her.

Well, I did just that, and she messaged me 17 times today, and Facebook messaged me maybe 2 times.

One text would be along the lines of "your rude" or "Well I guess were not chilling tomorrow" and then 20 minutes later it would be "I snap chatted you my tits ;)" to "check your Facebook"

Plus I only talked to her for maybe the last week and she's already asking why I "didn't reply to her texts"

I get the eerie feeling that I shouldn't let her know where I live, because she seems like the stalker type, and especially since I only want her for secks a couple times and nothing else maybe it's best to not have her come over tomorrow. Plus I live with a couple other people and do not want to risk their comfortability.

BUT I also wouldn't mind going balls-deep in this broad.

So basically what I am asking you guys is this:

1. Should I have her come over for secks or is it not worth the risk of having a crazy stalker?

2. Have you guys ever had a situation where you slept with a crazy broad and wish you didn't?
 

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I had a girl like this before, bleh several to be honest. I ignored this girl for A DAY A FVCKING DAY and I had about30 somthing text messages from her calling me names from each end of the spectrum. Didnt sleep with her, she was mentally insane, dropped her.

Next girl I nailed many many many times. I would ignore her on multiple occasions and she would send me 10-15 text messages PISSEd off. But then always still wanted to have sex. Why? Who the hell knows. All I know is I nutted all over her and thats where it counts.

Might as well just go for the lay brotha! get it done.
 

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Why cant you go to her house?

I hate bringing them to mine - that's my private place. Ill go to theirs and splash on the sheets instead ;)
 

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Yeah thats what I'm thinking, mid as well go balls-deep, what's the absolute worst that could happen - in 100 years it wont matter right? Lol.

But I'm thinking Purefilth's idea is the best.

I'm going to get her to pick me up and take me to her house. But I will get her to pick me up away from my house, thus she wont get the information to where I live. Win-win.

I do regret giving her my number though, I hate when b*tches won't stfu over text, and funny enough I just had my number changed 1-2 weeks ago because of my ex, and her ringing my phone everyday... haha the irony - i change my number to get away from psychotic texters and get one the next week.

Anyways, thanks for the help DJ's. Repped.
 

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Haha okay well heres the weird thing,

After her plethora of text messages and Facebook msgs, the last one being "ok. don't msg back" - which was to her previous text "why have you been ignoring me"

I reply with "Be in my area, 11 sharp"

I decided to go against Purefilth's advice, even though it was very good advice.. and decided I would just slam at my house, because I'm a LAZY f*ck. Lol.

Well, to that she replied INSTANTLY, almost like she was looking at her phone, waiting for my message.

She replies back: "No i'm not coming"

Me: "y?"

Her: "cause i really hate being ignored:
Her: "I've slept with one person I'm not gonna bang someone who ignores me."
Her: "idc how hot they are."

Me: "ok well if thats what u want" - like 25 minutes later

Her: "No, it's what i dont want"
Her: "like i want to **** you but you're probably just gonna **** me then ignore me"
Her: "so if you ever feel like not doing that lemme know"
Her: "just so you know though studying and getting you **** sucked at the same time is a lot more fun then the alternative"

Me: "so then come"


Blah blah blah, conversation after that is her confirming that she's going to come, and I give her my address (maybe not the best idea).. And she continues to message me like CRAZY, which i maybe sent her another 2-3 messages all night. Lol but heres a funny little part of the conversation, in my opinion:

Her: "I fully dont get how you got it so that im trying to get in your pants"

Me: "explain"

Her: "i dont have to try"

Me: "what do u mean"

Her: "i constantly have to get rid of guys that are trying to get into my pants"
Her: "But you ignore me and dont snap chat back and im actually trying to get on your d*ick its weird"
Her: "like me having to go around your schedule....... thats never happened to me before"

Lol then I completely ignored what she said and sent her "send me a snap chat" like 20 minutes later.

So all in all thats how the dynamics of our conversations went, she's completely on my nuts and sending me snap chats of everything.

BUT heres the weird thing... SHE FLAKED!

Haha she didn't come over today.. Which is very strange, maybe you guys can shed light on the situation.

Personally, I don't even care if I don't get to slam her, BUT like I said before I wouldn't mind.

All I sent her today was "how close are you" at like 1130. And she replied saying "oh I went to school. some other time.. (with like a heart and a wink face or something)"

I didn't respond to that text.

So, kind of interesting. What do you guys think? How should I go about this situation? And do you think I did anything to warrant a flake?

criticize criticize criticize! it's all a learning experience so if I don't slam not a big deal, theres so many other girls out there, so please tell me how it is!

Plus I'm using girl's right now as purely experimental devices to step my game up and see what works for me, I'm not too worried about the outcome, so if you guys have any interesting tactics, I'll will be more then happy to implement them. This is mainly because I feel like i'm in the experimental stages of Duan Juanism, which is an important step.

Anyways, thanks for reading DJ's
 

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Would you guys also be able to give me a couple telltale signs of "nutjobism" i feel like it would help me and a lot of others out there to know if they are dealing with a so called nutjob crazy b*tch.
 

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...... well shes crazy,

just texted me this after a full day of not texting her and her texting me every consecutive 2-3 hours

"hey i just got a concussion"
 

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She's trying to turn the tables on you because you ignored her. She thinks she is tough enough to ignore her little brain that's telling her to come to your house. Had chicks like that before. My answer to them was "when you feel like s*cking d*ck, text me that you are 2 minutes away. You wanna try to play games, I'll delete your number". You'll see how many messages from her you get after that. Do NOT answer any of them except the one that says "I'm 2 minutes away". When you get her in the house put her on her knees the very first thing, don't say a word to her. You'll have a guaranteed c*mcatcher for a long time to come after that.
She's craving somebody to dominate her, that's all it is. Have fun and keep us posted. :rock:
 
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This should be a rule. Never f**k a girl in your house unless you're going steady or the girl's house isn't conducive (has housemates, lives with parents etc). I haven't brought a girl over. In fact, I've never given them my Facebook or Twitter or Google Plus. So when we end things, it's over for good. No crazy ex.
 

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Haha thats exactly what i plan on doing my friend!

Theres no way ill be replying to any of her stupid texts, but yeah great idea i will implement the one text and drop technique and only reply when she's outside my house, which in that scenario, give her the d right away. No f*ckin around.

thanks el suave, keep ya guys posted for sure
 

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She's 17 so she still lives with her parents.

I try to follow that rule as well but in this case I don't think there is any other option.
 
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narcissist said:
She's 17 so she still lives with her parents.

I try to follow that rule as well but in this case I don't think there is any other option.
Okay. Hmmm...I hope you're under 18 as well. I don't want to be giving advice to a pedo.
 
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