Advice Please

[pvf94]

Im starting to wonder if this was all planned by her. She could of flaked on you on purpose in an attempt to create interest in herself. If this is true she is now realizing she failed to create interest and is now trying to recover.

If that was the case, it would be odd that she is doing it so randomly....I have known her a while....never hung out until recently and now she is doing this weird stuff...I feel kinda bad not answering her but at the same time it feel's kinda good having her try to get a hold of me through im's and me not answering. Almost as if the tables are turned and I hold some sort of power now......the question is, how and what do I do with this upperhand.....she obviously wants to talk....the last time I spoke with her was when I told her to call me. And she didnt.


Now she is attempting to make convo every single time she signs on aim.....:crazy:

 

[The Realest Thing]

so you saw her 4 times in the last month - how far did u get with her??? did you make out or **** her? That kind of this is very important in determining if she's your friend, or if she's your "friend"

 

[pvf94]

so you saw her 4 times in the last month - how far did u get with her??? did you make out or **** her? That kind of this is very important in determining if she's your friend, or if she's your "friend"

naw man....movie, dinner and went to get a tatoo with her, a night out runnin around being *******s....entering factories and other random things.....

Didnt do anything really, but she always wants to hangout....

The night we went out exploring she said her hands where cold so I handed her some gloves.....I placed them in my palm and than held them to her chest.....she didnt try to get me to move my hand or anything, I said "gloves take um" and she laughed and said "oh I thought you were grabbing my boobs" She didnt try to get me to stop or anything....though it was cold and she had a hoodie on and so forth I was definently feeling her boobs on accident =P

Friends "friends" who knows! I just WANNA HIT IT!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhghhhh :crackup:

 

[The Realest Thing]

if you want to hit it, then you have absolutely no excuse for going to a dinner and movies, and NOT trying to kiss her. Cmon - you deserve to be flaked on because she wants a man to **** her, and you are not acting like it!!! See her again, and switch it up. You need to be sexual and ACT SEXUAL instead of telling sosuave that you "wanna hit it" - ACT

 

[ryannath]

Man, when she said her hands were cold, I'm pretty sure what she wanted you to do was hold her hands. You should have done that. But, you are doing a good thing by ignoring her IMS. If she is interested in you, she will call you eventually. And, also, if she had high interest, she would have called you to at least tell you she wasn't going to the play. Hope that makes it clear. I'm thinking you should move on, if she contacts you on the phone, give her another shot, but if she doesn't call, then forget her.

 

[pvf94]

Man, when she said her hands were cold, I'm pretty sure what she wanted you to do was hold her hands. You should have done that. But, you are doing a good thing by ignoring her IMS. If she is interested in you, she will call you eventually. And, also, if she had high interest, she would have called you to at least tell you she wasn't going to the play. Hope that makes it clear. I'm thinking you should move on, if she contacts you on the phone, give her another shot, but if she doesn't call, then forget her.

I personally think she is afraid to call.....she wants to clear things up on aim instead of possibly getting *****ed at on the phone I think.

We shall see.....updates will come as thing's progress.

 

[pvf94]

Update


So I have cut contact with this girl for over a week, and nearly every day she gets on aim and without a doubt she drop's me a message. Regardless of my status......afk, out, later, gone, in the area....you name it she still IM's.

I ignored her for a week. So tonight after doing my daily task's I sign on and go away.......15 or so minutes later she get's on and I didnt notice.

I came out of away mode, and within 5 seconds she sends me an IM. I didnt mean to respond, but my suprise and witty thought got the best of me. (besides a week's time of ignoring her was pretty good, considering the amount of attention she tried to attract)

Convo was as follow's...there are a few inside jokes in there..the whole taint thing. lol =P

her: douche
me: miss quick finger
me: dying for me to come off of away mode?
her: i get practice
me: lol
her: lol
her: lol what up
me: nothing
me: hey what happened friday night
her: umm
her: i dont know
me: u stood me up
her: ooo that
her: i was a little under the weather
me: Shoulda let me know
her: i am sorry i went to bed for the rest of the night
me: Thanks for the apology
me: well anyhow
me: whats new
her: nothing what about you
me: nothin, I just got back from kevins place
me: bull****tin for like 3 hours
me: lol
her: lol thats fun
me: Ofcourse
her: why do people call it bull****ting but you are really just talking
her: ..?
me: I dunno
me: lol
me: Google it
her: ok
her: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bull****
me: lmao
me: wikipedia has everything
me: Probably even has taint
her: LMAO
me: Try it
her: what
her: lol no
me: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taint_(slang)
me: lmao it did
me: ew
her: haha sick
me: alright, I gotta head out I gotta be somewhere at 9:30 and I have a paper to write....later!
her: lol, bye


Attention, sexual innuendo on her part, and me closing before she had a chance to.

Good or Bad Gentleman?