Advice please... Stop me from being an AFC...

[Johnny Alias]

So... Banged this chick HARD yesterday. She broke up with her bf 2 weeks ago and we always had a thing for each other. Great right?

So we agreed to hang out at a party last night but when I get there she's... Sort of aloof. I play it cool. Then she starts flirting HARD with a friend of mine.

I continue to play it cool, but pull him aside at one point and let him know we were just together and that I'm interested in her. He ignores this.

At this point I am full bore AFC.

Not sure if they went home together or not. Sent him a text saying we need to talk.

She is... Weird. Hot as **** but obviously a Bona fide slut. She went from talking about us dating to that in no time flat. Strange. Also told me wacky PD related **** about her mom and they usually breed more. Definite red flag.

Need to ditch my ego. This could be a great escape and I got off. Headed to gym and have a girl coming over later in a trenchcoat and lingerie. That'll help.

Any other ideas? More ticked with friend than anything else.

 

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athough it was a mistake telling your 'friend' about how you felt about this girl - at least you discovered what kind of a 'friend' he is. so that's good.

other than that focus on yourself and other women in the first instance.

 

[Bible_Belt]

pull him aside at one point and let him know we were just together and that I'm interested in her. He ignores this.

There's a life lesson for you - most people who you think are your friend will trade that friendship for pvssy without hesitation.

Did you tell him you banged her? It looks like you need to embellish the story a little bit. Tell him you gangbanged her with a hockey team and their sled dog mascot, and you think the dog gave you d!ck mange. You can't stop her from being a ho, but you can make it entertaining for yourself instead of painful.

 

[NewToTheGame]

Having your "friend" involved in this will make this situation more difficult that it would have been otherwise.

I got involved with a pretty crazy chick (for a couple months) that ended up screwing one of my friends. It was really hard for awhile dealing with it. I also had to watch other friends of mine throw themselves at her in various AFC ways.

Then when the situation between the two of us she actually screwed blew up, all of these people in the social circle (who of course had nothing to do with it) started taking sides.

I learned that only one of 5+ of these people was actually my friend. And I pretty much went ghost on the entire social circle.

The original guy that she screwed ended up reaching out and apologizing. I accepted, only for my own piece of mind, so I could finally let the whole thing go. Its been six months, and everyone from that group continues to contact me. The girl herself hits me up from time to time looking for a good lay.

But I'm not interested in any of that. And especially not in her. Hot, crazy girls are fun, but as soon as **** happens like you talk about in the OP, its time to bail. Don't waste months of your life like I did, wondering about some chick who is beyond F'd in the head.

She's gone. I'm sure you already know that. And while none of us is perfect, it is not your fault. And your "friend"? Is not. If you end up talking to him, a simple, emotionless "that wasn't cool" and fade-out on the friendship will suffice. A friend being involved stirs up intense emotions that you want to avoid at all costs. And getting angry is exactly how this thing will get worse. Trust me.

You dodged a major bullet here. I am absolutely certain. Let nothing persuade you otherwise.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Your B*tch Choose Him

So we agreed to hang out at a party last night but when I get there she's... Sort of aloof. I play it cool. Then she starts flirting HARD with a friend of mine.

I'm going to have to find it and post the link so you can listen it, but Harry Wilington does a pdocast on why you're not suppose to introduce a chick to your friends too and you definitely don't take them to parties, for the exact reason that you stated, why might start f*cking with one of your friends.

Why did you take a chick that you were interested in and barely know to party? How was taking her to a party suppose to facilitate and increase her attraction towards you considering all of the other distractions that are taking place at a party?

I continue to play it cool, but pull him aside at one point and let him know we were just together and that I'm interested in her. He ignores this.

You're not aware of the rules of the game, your b*tch choose him.

Sent him a text saying we need to talk. More ticked with friend than anything else.

@ you and you're potna need to talk. Talk about what? The poor f*ckin' decisions that you made? I can hear the conversation now,

Johnny Alias: Hey man. You remember that punk a$$ hoe b*tch that I brought to the function. The one I told you that I was tryin' to f*ck wit?

Pimpin' A$$ Potna: Yeah man, what about her?

Johnny Alias: Well, like I said, I told you that I was trying to f*ck with ole girl, but went and hook up with her anyway. That was f*cked up and I'm feeling some kinda way about that.

Pimpin' A$$ Potna: Really nigga? You're over here trippin on some smut b*tch that was throwin' me the p*ssy. You can't be serious. C'mon man, that's some straight hoe sh*t. I can understand if this your girl or maybe even some chick that you went on a few dates with, but this b*tch just broke with her man two weeks ago, f*cked you the other day, then turned around and wanted f*ck with me. Dude, really, stop it. You have your cape on a little too tight. I can't believe this, muta****as are out here feelin' salty behind hoes. Damn, what's the world comin' to in 2014?


1) As I stated earlier, you f*cked up by taking some new broad to a party (on some pseduo "boyfriend/girlfriend," sh*t anyway. So what you hit that a$$, baby girl doesn't owe you a damn thing, hell y'all aren't even "dating," but you're expecting some half-a$$ed fidelity sh*t.

2) And this is where you REALLY f*cked up at. When this punk a$$ b*tch initially flirted potna, why didn't you check her a$$ right then and there? Right then, you were suppose to pull her to the side, ask her what was going on, explain what you thought the parameters of the relationship was, and tell her what she was doing wasn't cool.

Getting at your friend behind some hoe b*tch is only going to cause needless tension in your friendship and when this little tidbit of information makes the rounds in your social circle, you won't come out looking too favorably. The only thing you and your potna need to be discussing is the train y'all are going to be running on this b*tch early Christmas morning or at about 3 A.M. New Year's Day.

 

[trent_afc]

In the words of the great philosopher Snoop Dogg (or whatever the fk he calls himself now):

It ain't no fun if the homies can't have none

She's a slvt. Hook a brother up.

 

[Johnny Alias]

Wow. That's certainly an interesting perspective without the whole story. I didn't take her to the party. She was already invited and we said we'd meet up there... Potna. Lol.

Already called friend. He was blackout drunk and doesn't remember ****. He also got thrown out of an after hours party later without her. He doesn't even remember me telling him I banged her and I believe him. He feels terrible about it.

I forgave him. It's just a chick and to be honest it sounds like he did me a favor by allowing her true nature to manifest.

I was more concerned about his loyalty than the "trick ass hoe" or whatever you want to call her. Damn boys. Y'all get aggressive on here. Haha.

The other chick is coming here in 2 hours. That's four in one week. My Kung fu is just fine.