SuaveSausage
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So I met a woman on bumble. chatted for a bit etc.
1st Date - picked her up from her place, out for dinner (lots of touching), changed venue for desert (kissing), back to her place; we both played some songs on guitars and sang a bit then finished up with a solid makeout session on the couch, then I leave
Then a few phone calls and texts back and forth, setup a second date
(4 days later)
2nd date - Her house again, after her kids are asleep. She makes some food (great cook), we drink some champagne, play some records, then relocate to her bedroom, get it on. Both commenting about how natural and good the sex was, says she doesn't usually orgasm from just penetration etc. I leave around midnight.
She call the next day, say that she's worried I'll think she's slutty because we had sex too soon, I talked her through it, put her mind at ease. We schedule another date 3 days after the second, this time at my place.
Her house was immaculate, so I tidy up mine a bit etc. Again, its planned for after my kids had gone to bed. We're texting during the day, she asks for my address, I tease a bit, then give it to her about 4 in the afternoon. Then about 2 hours later, she says she's tired and she's not coming. WTF??
I tried to diffuse it with something like
"Aww I'm sorry to hear that, I totally understand. But I have the most incredible cure that will make you feel a thousand times better....a tall dose of Me. Side effects may include spontaneity, adventure, awesomeness, getting lost in the moment, and mild cases of euphoria coupled with constant ear-to-ear grinning."
But no reply.
Trouble is I was actually starting to like her, she's got her **** together, owns her house, she cooks, plays music, our kids are around the same age, etc. I know its way to soon get serious with her, but maybe this chink in my steadfast resolve has led me to behave or talk differently with her. Perhaps I've been to available to her.
Anyways, I'm looking for your thoughts on my next move, leave it and move on, or text her again?
1st Date - picked her up from her place, out for dinner (lots of touching), changed venue for desert (kissing), back to her place; we both played some songs on guitars and sang a bit then finished up with a solid makeout session on the couch, then I leave
Then a few phone calls and texts back and forth, setup a second date
(4 days later)
2nd date - Her house again, after her kids are asleep. She makes some food (great cook), we drink some champagne, play some records, then relocate to her bedroom, get it on. Both commenting about how natural and good the sex was, says she doesn't usually orgasm from just penetration etc. I leave around midnight.
She call the next day, say that she's worried I'll think she's slutty because we had sex too soon, I talked her through it, put her mind at ease. We schedule another date 3 days after the second, this time at my place.
Her house was immaculate, so I tidy up mine a bit etc. Again, its planned for after my kids had gone to bed. We're texting during the day, she asks for my address, I tease a bit, then give it to her about 4 in the afternoon. Then about 2 hours later, she says she's tired and she's not coming. WTF??
I tried to diffuse it with something like
"Aww I'm sorry to hear that, I totally understand. But I have the most incredible cure that will make you feel a thousand times better....a tall dose of Me. Side effects may include spontaneity, adventure, awesomeness, getting lost in the moment, and mild cases of euphoria coupled with constant ear-to-ear grinning."
But no reply.
Trouble is I was actually starting to like her, she's got her **** together, owns her house, she cooks, plays music, our kids are around the same age, etc. I know its way to soon get serious with her, but maybe this chink in my steadfast resolve has led me to behave or talk differently with her. Perhaps I've been to available to her.
Anyways, I'm looking for your thoughts on my next move, leave it and move on, or text her again?
". ****y funny genuine and not a single fuk given. I was legit sad/dissapointed momentarily just like anyone would that she wasnt coming through to smash, but i didnt try to entice her much further or oversell myself. just a quick reminder to her cerebral cortex about why we are even together and what her purpose is. ridin my D!
