The Logical Player
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- Mar 2, 2009
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Okay DjInTraining, I am getting tired of calling you chump and being mean to you, since it is not getting through to you. Thus, I will be nice to you and let me make some points here. Before I make my points, I want to tell you that I have hooked up, dated, and even had more guuurlfriends than you could imagine, so I know everything about female behavior that there is to know, and I have even been in your situation before, where I had some guuurlfriend who simply did not want to have sex. Here are my points, take note that they are all equally important, and you will only suffer if you don't follow ALL of my points.
Do not argue my points, they are not up for discussion, they are only there for you to follow if you want to save yourself, okay my friend?
1) Your happiness is the #1 most important thing in the world. It is up to YOU to always do what makes you happy, and to NOT FALL FOR SOCIETY'S TRAPS. YOU are not obligated to stay in this relationship, no matter how many tears the girl cries, no matter how much she wants to argue with you that nothing is wrong. YOU feel something big is wrong, and that is all that matters. HER OPINION DOES NOT COUNT. She is clearly beyond reason and is pulling some very obvious low quality female crap by the way she has treated you over the sex thing. It is YOUR duty as a man, as a don juan, as a player, to realize that you do not deserve a lifetime of this. Even if she goes back to normal, you will still know that she is not stable and something else could come up in the future where you will feel equally stressed.
2) She has your balls. She has gotten you to COMMIT to her p*ssy and ONLY her p*ssy, and now she has taken her p*ssy away. It does not matter if it is something you are doing wrong or not. It does not matter if she thinks she has HIV, or if she thinks she's pregnant, or if she is cheating on you - IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS, WHAT MATTERS IS THAT SHE HAS GOTTEN YOU TO COMMIT TO ONLY HER P*SSY, ONLY FOR HER TO NOT GIVE YOU ANY. A girl that loved you would have sex on demand, and if she didn't like the sex, then she would say something and try to spice the sex up - you DESERVE this for having actually committed to her. She has abused your committment, and then I say that you drop the committment and go find as many new girls as possible. STOP LISTENING TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND, SHE IS NOT BEING 100% HONEST TO YOU OR TO HER HERSELF.
3) You are not happy. You are scared. You have let this witch control you emotionally, and yes you ARE acting like a DjinTraining and not like a TrainedDJ. You thought you found love, but what you found was a girl that is not right for you, and a girl who is manipulating you with tears and shaming tactics whenever you bring up VALID issues about your relationships. Like I said, because you committed to her, you deserve to be treated like a king because you actually gave this girl the gift of your exclusivity - but all she has done is abuse it.
4) I have done to girls what this girl is doing to you. I did not live with any of these girls, but I did manipulate them to get what I want. I would tell them how much i looooved them, I would promise them marriage in the future, and I would avoid arguments by making them feel guily and making myself look like the victim. I did all that to get as much sex as I possibly could. I also had some of these girls buying me things - I was king and they were my little servants. What's the lesson in all this? The lesson is, I did not care about any of them, and all of my love and marriage talk was FAKE to get them to do what I wanted and to have control of each one of them. To these girls, all of my feelings seemed as real as they could be - just like you feel that your girlfriend has the same feelings for you, ARE YOU FOLLOWING?
5) It does not matter what your girlfriend's problem is, and it does not matter why she is acting this way. It also does not matter how much she cries, or how much "fatigue" she has at 10PM every night. She doesn't seem so fatigued when you take her out and pay for her, does she??? It does not matter how much she tells you she loves you, because she is doing what I did by manipulating with words to get what she wants from you. She is now getting upset because you are calling her out on her BULLSHYT and she is getting scared that she is losing control and that you are growing balls. NOW is the time to act and show her who is man. Follow step #6 very carefully, and you have to do it in order to show me that you fully understand steps 1 - 5.
6) Let your girlfriend go to sleep at 10PM. Then, you go and take a shower, shave, dress up in your best possible clothes, put some nice smelling cologne on. Then when your girlfriend sees you and asks you why you are all dressed up, you tell her calmly in these exact words:
"Honey, I have decided that this relationship has run its course, and I have chosen to move on. I am going to give you a week to find a new place and move out, right now I am going out to find some new ladies to mingle with, have a good night".
Tuck her in, and LEAVE. Have FUN with your newly found freedom.
Then the next morning, call every single company that you pay bills for (Comcast, electricity, ect.....i know you are paying the bills and not her, its pretty obvious), and tell each of them that you would like to cancel your services immediately. YOU will go stay with your best friend, or with your parents, I am sure they will help you out and support you. If not, stay at a cheap motel for the time being. Your ex-girlfriend will not want to stay in an empty apartment with no TV, no internet, no lights, and no heat - she will move out. If she decides to break all of your stuff, then you go to the police and you sue her (and her family) for every penny they have for damages of private property (though I suggest that while she is at work, you move as much of your stuff out as you can.) Once she moves out, you move back in, change the locks, and enjoy your bachelor pad all to yourself.
What your ex-girlfriend does at this point is IRRELEVANT, because she is a cancer to your life and you cut her out - any and all issues she now has are HER problem, not yours.
I am sorry, but if you do not follow this advice, then I will never ever help you again and will just let you rot away until you die in this dead-end relationship.
Do not argue my points, they are not up for discussion, they are only there for you to follow if you want to save yourself, okay my friend?
1) Your happiness is the #1 most important thing in the world. It is up to YOU to always do what makes you happy, and to NOT FALL FOR SOCIETY'S TRAPS. YOU are not obligated to stay in this relationship, no matter how many tears the girl cries, no matter how much she wants to argue with you that nothing is wrong. YOU feel something big is wrong, and that is all that matters. HER OPINION DOES NOT COUNT. She is clearly beyond reason and is pulling some very obvious low quality female crap by the way she has treated you over the sex thing. It is YOUR duty as a man, as a don juan, as a player, to realize that you do not deserve a lifetime of this. Even if she goes back to normal, you will still know that she is not stable and something else could come up in the future where you will feel equally stressed.
2) She has your balls. She has gotten you to COMMIT to her p*ssy and ONLY her p*ssy, and now she has taken her p*ssy away. It does not matter if it is something you are doing wrong or not. It does not matter if she thinks she has HIV, or if she thinks she's pregnant, or if she is cheating on you - IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS, WHAT MATTERS IS THAT SHE HAS GOTTEN YOU TO COMMIT TO ONLY HER P*SSY, ONLY FOR HER TO NOT GIVE YOU ANY. A girl that loved you would have sex on demand, and if she didn't like the sex, then she would say something and try to spice the sex up - you DESERVE this for having actually committed to her. She has abused your committment, and then I say that you drop the committment and go find as many new girls as possible. STOP LISTENING TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND, SHE IS NOT BEING 100% HONEST TO YOU OR TO HER HERSELF.
3) You are not happy. You are scared. You have let this witch control you emotionally, and yes you ARE acting like a DjinTraining and not like a TrainedDJ. You thought you found love, but what you found was a girl that is not right for you, and a girl who is manipulating you with tears and shaming tactics whenever you bring up VALID issues about your relationships. Like I said, because you committed to her, you deserve to be treated like a king because you actually gave this girl the gift of your exclusivity - but all she has done is abuse it.
4) I have done to girls what this girl is doing to you. I did not live with any of these girls, but I did manipulate them to get what I want. I would tell them how much i looooved them, I would promise them marriage in the future, and I would avoid arguments by making them feel guily and making myself look like the victim. I did all that to get as much sex as I possibly could. I also had some of these girls buying me things - I was king and they were my little servants. What's the lesson in all this? The lesson is, I did not care about any of them, and all of my love and marriage talk was FAKE to get them to do what I wanted and to have control of each one of them. To these girls, all of my feelings seemed as real as they could be - just like you feel that your girlfriend has the same feelings for you, ARE YOU FOLLOWING?
5) It does not matter what your girlfriend's problem is, and it does not matter why she is acting this way. It also does not matter how much she cries, or how much "fatigue" she has at 10PM every night. She doesn't seem so fatigued when you take her out and pay for her, does she??? It does not matter how much she tells you she loves you, because she is doing what I did by manipulating with words to get what she wants from you. She is now getting upset because you are calling her out on her BULLSHYT and she is getting scared that she is losing control and that you are growing balls. NOW is the time to act and show her who is man. Follow step #6 very carefully, and you have to do it in order to show me that you fully understand steps 1 - 5.
6) Let your girlfriend go to sleep at 10PM. Then, you go and take a shower, shave, dress up in your best possible clothes, put some nice smelling cologne on. Then when your girlfriend sees you and asks you why you are all dressed up, you tell her calmly in these exact words:
"Honey, I have decided that this relationship has run its course, and I have chosen to move on. I am going to give you a week to find a new place and move out, right now I am going out to find some new ladies to mingle with, have a good night".
Tuck her in, and LEAVE. Have FUN with your newly found freedom.
Then the next morning, call every single company that you pay bills for (Comcast, electricity, ect.....i know you are paying the bills and not her, its pretty obvious), and tell each of them that you would like to cancel your services immediately. YOU will go stay with your best friend, or with your parents, I am sure they will help you out and support you. If not, stay at a cheap motel for the time being. Your ex-girlfriend will not want to stay in an empty apartment with no TV, no internet, no lights, and no heat - she will move out. If she decides to break all of your stuff, then you go to the police and you sue her (and her family) for every penny they have for damages of private property (though I suggest that while she is at work, you move as much of your stuff out as you can.) Once she moves out, you move back in, change the locks, and enjoy your bachelor pad all to yourself.
What your ex-girlfriend does at this point is IRRELEVANT, because she is a cancer to your life and you cut her out - any and all issues she now has are HER problem, not yours.
I am sorry, but if you do not follow this advice, then I will never ever help you again and will just let you rot away until you die in this dead-end relationship.
