Attended a small party today, and met a few girls. While I have made a lot of improvements in the area of attracting girls, I am still having a bit trouble in sealing the deal. Then again, I might not, but I do believe that you could give a bit of insight if I did do something wrong/missed any opportunities.
Was speaking with a few friends - male and female, when a girl joined us. We had noticed each other earlier on, without any major contact. In fact I first saw her at another event a few days before, where she was giggling when I made eye contact. So she joined us and offered me cookies - she ended up offering them for the others too who were close by. She did have only a few of them, and she waved me that she will be back - and left. She game back with more cookies and ended up bringing me(the group) cookies for at least ten times. Later on she sat next to me (after eye contact), and we got to talk in a more private fashion. She was laughing at my jokes, so I thought all was good. Again, she brought some cookies with her, this time along with a few cubes of cheese on a dental stick. I then asked her if she brought the cheese for both of us, and she let me have it - we shared the same dental stick.
I left earlier on and asked her name - though officially we had made introductions on the first event. There were many people at that event and I did not remember all their names (though I remembered hers), and I assumed that neither did she. She told me her name, but did not ask mine. The whole time she was not that much interested in what I do - at least she was not asking me about it. Most of our talking involved me teasing her, and her laughing and adding to my jokes. Mind you, she is 19 (I looked her up on Facebook, her age was public), and I am 29. I do look a lot younger, though.
The second girl joined the party at a later stage. We had an improvised theatre, where I took the lead role together with another girl. It was well done, and both of the girls liked it.
The second girl was shy, but I got her talking. She talked about herself and was interested in what I was doing, and showed an appreciation for it. She works in a popular museum and invited me to come there. She did tell me that she works there mostly on the weekends... and tomorrow (the next day).
I managed to "get caught" figuring out her age. She did not tell me how old she was, but told me not to worry, as she is far from 30, basically in her early 20'es.
I asked for her name first before it was time for her to leave. She did the same. She then told me that we would see each other in again - we have an event plannet for March (The group of people), but then told me that perhaps we will see each other sooner than that.
The stupid thing is, I forgot her name.
(I believe I remember the first letter and the sound of the name, but not the name itself). I saw her once more when she was about to leave and asked her if she had a Facebook account. She said she had one (I know, asked if she had one, so she could answer either "yes" or "no"), and said that I would find it there. (She was with another girl when I asked that)
I will see both of the girls again in due time. Did I do something wrong in my interactions with them? Is it common for the younger ones to have less interest in what one does? Also, I am not completely sure what she meant by telling that she has an Facebook account and that it will be easy for me to find it by her first name alone. Well, obviously it is quite easy to do (using mutual friends), but she could have given me her last name too.
Was speaking with a few friends - male and female, when a girl joined us. We had noticed each other earlier on, without any major contact. In fact I first saw her at another event a few days before, where she was giggling when I made eye contact. So she joined us and offered me cookies - she ended up offering them for the others too who were close by. She did have only a few of them, and she waved me that she will be back - and left. She game back with more cookies and ended up bringing me(the group) cookies for at least ten times. Later on she sat next to me (after eye contact), and we got to talk in a more private fashion. She was laughing at my jokes, so I thought all was good. Again, she brought some cookies with her, this time along with a few cubes of cheese on a dental stick. I then asked her if she brought the cheese for both of us, and she let me have it - we shared the same dental stick.
I left earlier on and asked her name - though officially we had made introductions on the first event. There were many people at that event and I did not remember all their names (though I remembered hers), and I assumed that neither did she. She told me her name, but did not ask mine. The whole time she was not that much interested in what I do - at least she was not asking me about it. Most of our talking involved me teasing her, and her laughing and adding to my jokes. Mind you, she is 19 (I looked her up on Facebook, her age was public), and I am 29. I do look a lot younger, though.
The second girl joined the party at a later stage. We had an improvised theatre, where I took the lead role together with another girl. It was well done, and both of the girls liked it.
The second girl was shy, but I got her talking. She talked about herself and was interested in what I was doing, and showed an appreciation for it. She works in a popular museum and invited me to come there. She did tell me that she works there mostly on the weekends... and tomorrow (the next day).
I managed to "get caught" figuring out her age. She did not tell me how old she was, but told me not to worry, as she is far from 30, basically in her early 20'es.
I asked for her name first before it was time for her to leave. She did the same. She then told me that we would see each other in again - we have an event plannet for March (The group of people), but then told me that perhaps we will see each other sooner than that.
The stupid thing is, I forgot her name.
(I believe I remember the first letter and the sound of the name, but not the name itself). I saw her once more when she was about to leave and asked her if she had a Facebook account. She said she had one (I know, asked if she had one, so she could answer either "yes" or "no"), and said that I would find it there. (She was with another girl when I asked that)I will see both of the girls again in due time. Did I do something wrong in my interactions with them? Is it common for the younger ones to have less interest in what one does? Also, I am not completely sure what she meant by telling that she has an Facebook account and that it will be easy for me to find it by her first name alone. Well, obviously it is quite easy to do (using mutual friends), but she could have given me her last name too.