Advice on how to respond...

[dustmuffin]

I got a text this morning from x......"Do you hate me".....I am leaning towards not responding . If I did what would I say? Thanks in advance . I really appreciate you guys.

 

[MrWood]

"sometimes"

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

"Why do you ask?" - answering with another question is always good.
"Yes" - this ironically will excite her, as long as she's not emotionally backwards.
"Of course not, I'm deliriously in love with you" - she'll get the irony, as long as she's not academically backwards.
"Hate's a strong word".
"Not as much as I hate [Clinton] [Trump]."

 

[dustmuffin]

"Why do you ask?" - answering with another question is always good.
"Yes" - this ironically will excite her, as long as she's not emotionally backwards.
"Of course not, I'm deliriously in love with you" - she'll get the irony, as long as she's not academically backwards.
"Hate's a strong word".
"Not as much as I hate [Clinton] [Trump]."

I like the pressure flip ideas. The am is good too. Leaning towards why do you ask.

 

[dustmuffin]

Alright, going with why do you ask. I think the reason she texted is because something I did made national news.

 

[dustmuffin]

She replied with I was in a weird mood, hi how are you.

 

[CMNILS87]

She replied with I was in a weird mood, hi how are you.

Nooooooooo. The answer is no response. She wanted attention and super insecure chick. Had numerous do this bull****. Don't reply to the hoe are you unless it's a date offer

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

She replied with I was in a weird mood, hi how are you.

Nooooooooo. The answer is no response. She wanted attention and super insecure chick. Had numerous do this bull****. Don't reply to the hoe are you unless it's a date offer

She does now sound like she's fishing for attention, or trying to say she wants to see you in a really socially inept kind of way. Some girls are just really socially inadequate like this. It's not really their fault. They are just so passive and apathetic towards things.

It's like one of my exes who will message every now and again saying, 'Hi, how are you', every month or so. I've tried hooking up with her again, but every time she's either busy or flakes, or whatever. So I don't bother anymore, and this seems to surprise her somehow.

There comes a point with women like this who have flaked so often or just seeking attention like that, they have to take some initiative themselves. I've got time for women who are interested and show it; not this kind of self-pitying, or half-hearted, 'Hi, how are you nonsense'. Women should be maintaining your interest, as much as you need to keep theirs.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

The **** did you do DustMuffin? I'm intrigued as hell lol. Anyhow, I would go with MrWood's or ignoring and then saying "you ok now?" I've done this before when a chick was mad as hell at me for overjerking it lol. She said "yes im sorry ". I love girls Anyhow, this might not work for your age range.

 

[dustmuffin]

I went with why did you ask. She then replied she was in a weird mood

Well it seems like it was for attention. She has been bed ridden for three weeks after an operation. She had her vag removed.

She deffinately has mental issues. I'm not going to ask her out. She lives about an hour and a half away and don't want to see her. I have plenty of women around here that want to f uck me. I'm just going to let the convo die.

 

[wifehunter]

Vag removed!?!

huh, is that a thing?

 

[dustmuffin]

Vag removed!?!

huh, is that a thing?

had her uterus removed. A hysterectomy. She had growths or some such. When it's really bad they just take it all. Can be caused by c-sections.

 

[El Payaso]

Tell her get well soon.

Block.

Delete.

 

[Igetit!]

The **** did you do DustMuffin? I'm intrigued as hell lol.

That's what I was thinking. Isn't anybody else here curious as to what the hell this guy did?

He said he made NATIONAL NEWS.

 

[Juanto]

Is he the one investigating Hillary? (not in a sexual way)

 

[CMNILS87]

That's what I was thinking. Isn't anybody else here curious as to what the hell this guy did?

He said he made NATIONAL NEWS.

It's what he didn't do. He hasn't been giving her enough attention. She hamsters that he's mad at her for whatever reason while she's shacked up in bed and bored from her uterus surgery

 

[dude99]

I got a text this morning from x......"Do you hate me".....I am leaning towards not responding . If I did what would I say? Thanks in advance . I really appreciate you guys.

How long ago did you break up with said x? She is reaching out, probably looking backwards to rekindle an old flame. How long has it been? Weeks ? Months? Years?

If its been years then she has been pining over you. If its months or weeks, then she is just fishing and looking to see if she can still get a rise out of you and get her ego stroked

Here is how i would respond.

Week -- no reply.

Months -- no reply......or if you feel you mustm... i haven't really given you a second thought. I've been crazy busy. Gottal go.

Years-- oh hi. I haven't given you much thought. Life has been crazy. Would love to catch up some time but im crazy busy. Ill talk to you later

 

[dude99]

Alright, going with why do you ask. I think the reason she texted is because something I did made national news.

Makes sense. If you made the national news ( in a good way ) it raised your value in her eyes.

 

[dude99]

That's what I was thinking. Isn't anybody else here curious as to what the hell this guy did?

He said he made NATIONAL NEWS.

He is running for president.....