Advice on how to break it off with style?

[Aengus]

Dear DJ's,

I'm long-time reader but first time poster --looking for advice on how to end affairs, and even run multiple affairs at the same time without the women getting hurt.

I feel its karmically good to have very positive affairs with women, where your relationship has been as good an experience for them as it was for you: where the memory of this emotionally powerful affair with the DJ is a great romantic fantasy that they keep with them.

So, how do you end it with them in a very positive way (especially if you've used your best DJ kung-fu when you were building the attraction, which has made the affair very emotionally intense) and if it's someone you want to remain friends with-- how do you play your game so that she's still attracted to you, has very positive feelings about you, but isn't stalky about restarting the romantic/sexual realtionship?


Aengus

 

[JackPrescott]

Break up with them on the phone, and advise them, that there is someone else.

 

[Sugar Bee]

Why not just be honest and tell them that you want to let go of the affair relationship but want to retain a relationship with them as you feel that she is an important part of your life that you do not want to see vanish.

This would be in person.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I had the perfect smoothest "break-up" technique!

I can't find it in another thread I responded to a few weeks ago -- anybody remeber it - it had to do with the baseball umpire outfit - can any body find it?

 

[Luscious]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
I had the perfect smoothest "break-up" technique!

I can't find it in another thread I responded to a few weeks ago -- anybody remeber it - it had to do with the baseball umpire outfit - can any body find it?

Dude, I don't even wanna know...


But in all seriousness, if you're breaking it off with a girl, you don't need to make it classy. Just get the business done and over with and move on.

 

[Aengus]

Thanks for the advice guys, but I'm not sure I agree with you-- I think I might not have articulated things well enough in my post.

I'm sure you guys understand that once your DJ skills start coming up to scratch, there is a mindset/attitude that lets women come to you, and there's a mindset/attitude that keeps them. There must also be a way to leave like a master Don Juan.

True-- you don't -need- to break up that way-- but the key to the whole game (for me at least) seems to be knowing what you want-- and I want to learn this, mainly because it fits into my concept of my reality. I bet there would also be real rewards to this strategy. Having a large number of ex-girlfriends who really still like you, say fantastic things about you to their friends, still find you *very* sexually attractive, and you still socialise with----

Think about it-you should be able to imagine the incredible opportunites this willl afford.

 

[Skullcrusher]

Break up with style? Light her car on fire!