Advice On Getting the Most out of this website

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I am 25 years old and have had very little success with the female gender. I like looking at them but dont know what to say to them. Things are hard for me, I have only had one serious long term relationship and that ended badly.
I want to learn how to be a good player and bag chicks, so I have come to this website.
I just wanted to know if there was any advice out there for getting the most out of this website, like do's and dont's. Thanks.
 

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Congratulations on finding this site. It's helped me TONS. Definitely get in to the DJ bible (there is a link to that at the bottom of this page). The bible isn't a "how to" get chicks, but the philosophies in there should get you thinking right. There is some pretty knowledgable people here, feel free to ask for advice. Try not to ask about advice til you read the bible. A whole boatload of info is in there, and many many basic questions are covered multiple times.

Also I still swing by the tip area some times, just to see whats going on.

Welcome aboard.
 
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Yeah thanks guys. I was hoping for more responses to this one. I'm amazed at how much arguing goes on in here, you would think we would be trying to help each other.
 

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this site can become a crutch for not taking action. Be sure to spend 80% of your time in the field and 20% reading posts. Don't get caught in the sosuave trap....there's alot of losers here (including guys who get chicks) who have no idea what they're talking about. Get in the field and judge what works and what doesn't
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Victory Unlimited

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The Victory Unlimited New Recruit Briefing:



Consider the information you get here as WEAPONS for you to sample. Pick out a few, try them out, use them on a few FIELD MISSIONS, THEN decide whether or not THAT weapon is worthy to be added to YOUR arsenal.

If not, then throw it away and yank another big assed Uzi from off the DJ Gunrack. Do this until you get SO comfortable using the techniques, strategies, and weapons that you INTERNALIZE THEM---and they become a part of who YOU are. You must focus on becoming a LIVING WEAPON.

Never change anything you like about yourself (ESPECIALLY if it's working) just because the DJ Bible or some famous poster says it's Whack. Filter your training here through the lens of behaviors that you have ALREADY battletested for yourself. Is who YOU are working? Or is it NOT?

Dont' fall into the trap of HORIZONTAL THINKING and assume like many here that ALL women are EXACTLY the same. Yes, there are MANY similiarities, so ONLY those that break the mold in a POSITIVE way should merit more than 5 minutes of your concentrated attention. Until one rises to the top by the BEHAVIORS towards you that she exhibits, treat them all the same.

Continue to focus on being a better man. Sosuave is just a headquarters, a training ground, a military school for you to use to build yoursef into a TRUE MASCULINE MAN. In MY branch of the sosuave Armed Services, this is defined as a MAN who rules himself----and is NOT ruled by women, his hormones, his weaknesses, OR the 'half-assed" opinions of other people. So BATTLE-TEST everything...

As you go about your missions, you will find that there are women that you need to use only a minimum amount of strategies, techniques, and weapons to engage. And you will also meet women who REQUIRE that you use your WHOLE arsenal in order to engage. Much of this depends on how high that woman's interest in YOU actually is.

Growth into a mature man is often predicated on how well you can discern the two apart, AND how DEDICATED you are to ONLY engaging those women that you suspect will ultimately ADD to your life rather than detract from it.

Welcome to the War, soldier.

You HAVE been briefed.

March on!
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Good advice above so far.

There is an element here, of mysogonistic, bitter losers who will go on about how girls are hors, can't be trusted, spoiled, selfish etc etc. Don't listen to em. Don't get sucked into their negative defeated frame.

A guy who macks it with high quality babes is a happy guy who loves women. They know how to get the best women and get the best out of them. Their lives are filled with joy coz of the babes. Someone who is a hater is obviously a failure.

So don't trust the female haters.

Secondly, banging heaps of chicks doesn't bring happiness, it doesn't make other guys look up to you (most will resent you) and doesn't make you a better person.

The goal should be to be happy and the best person you can be, not to **** heaps of girls. Ironially, when you embrace that idea and only when you embrace that idea, will you get the kind of girls, the kind of respect and the kind of sex you really want.


JJ

p.s. Read everything written by pook and (senior or spirit)fingers.
 
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Jay Jay said:
There is an element here, of mysogonistic, bitter losers who will go on about how girls are hors, can't be trusted, spoiled, selfish etc etc. Don't listen to em. Don't get sucked into their negative defeated frame.

A guy who macks it with high quality babes is a happy guy who loves women. They know how to get the best women and get the best out of them. Their lives are filled with joy coz of the babes. Someone who is a hater is obviously a failure.

So don't trust the female haters.

Secondly, banging heaps of chicks doesn't bring happiness, it doesn't make other guys look up to you (most will resent you) and doesn't make you a better person.

The goal should be to be happy and the best person you can be, not to **** heaps of girls. Ironially, when you embrace that idea and only when you embrace that idea, will you get the kind of girls, the kind of respect and the kind of sex you really want.


JJ

p.s. Read everything written by pook and (senior or spirit)fingers.

Yeah, I've noticed quite a few guys here who do that. It seems like they hate themselves more than women. I love women, and how could you not?

Just out of couriousity, who on this site should I avoid listening to?
 

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I Want To Be a Playa said:
Yeah, I've noticed quite a few guys here who do that. It seems like they hate themselves more than women. I love women, and how could you not?

Just out of couriousity, who on this site should I avoid listening to?
Decide that for yourself brother.

JJ
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. Read DJ bible then HS bible
2. Go to tips section read all the 5 and 4 star threads.
3. Go out every week have a social life and start sarging for fun.
4. Get a hobbie and take care of youself both your body and clothes/hair/style.
5. Talk to many girls as possible, age doesn't matter they all think the same. Once you know what they want you just get it.
6. David Delangelo stuff is pretty good, not all good but mostly good like his DVD series is GOLD.
7. Ignore the criticisms the haters are just jealous of your will to success.
8. Make sure you have fun, I would rather go out with HB8 who's fun than a HB10 who's boring as a brick... well I'll probably have sex with the HB10 but still go out with the HB8 lol
 
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CCKazi007 said:
1. Read DJ bible then HS bible
2. Go to tips section read all the 5 and 4 star threads.
3. Go out every week have a social life and start sarging for fun.
4. Get a hobbie and take care of youself both your body and clothes/hair/style.
5. Talk to many girls as possible, age doesn't matter they all think the same. Once you know what they want you just get it.
6. David Delangelo stuff is pretty good, not all good but mostly good like his DVD series is GOLD.
7. Ignore the criticisms the haters are just jealous of your will to success.
8. Make sure you have fun, I would rather go out with HB8 who's fun than a HB10 who's boring as a brick... well I'll probably have sex with the HB10 but still go out with the HB8 lol

Who have you found to be "haters" on this site?
 

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I'm amazed at how much arguing goes on in here, you would think we would be trying to help each other.
Yeah, I've noticed quite a few guys here who do that. It seems like they hate themselves more than women. I love women, and how could you not?

Just out of couriousity, who on this site should I avoid listening to?
Oh come on, you guys must have your opinions on who in here is a flame starter or bad at giving advice.
Who have you found to be "haters" on this site?

Why are you so bent on figuring out who NOT to listen to?

Try asking who the good posters are, not the bad ones.

And listen to yourself, not us. We can help, but you can learn.

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I already don't like you. You've come onto this forum and "noticed" all the arguments, and are now asking who not to listen to. Start focusing on the good, instead of the bad.
 

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Next time you talk to a pretty girl you fancy, get her digits immediately. If it's fake, or she in any way refuses = Low interest. Move on to the next girl.

Also, a girl truly interested in hanging around you, will call 75% of the shots. The only date a guy should set up is the first, and maybe second. But the next couple are hers.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Quiksilver said:
Why are you so bent on figuring out who NOT to listen to?

Try asking who the good posters are, not the bad ones.

And listen to yourself, not us. We can help, but you can learn.

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I already don't like you. You've come onto this forum and "noticed" all the arguments, and are now asking who not to listen to. Start focusing on the good, instead of the bad.


Good point man. I'll take that into consideration. Now that you mention it, who are the good posters?
 

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I Want To Be a Playa said:
Good point man. I'll take that into consideration. Now that you mention it, who are the good posters?
Dude, you are looking at things the wrong way.

The "best" posters are often different from the best mackers. A lot of KJs can write superduper posts by reguritating what DeAngelo or Mystery or Pook or TD say. You'll just learn to be a KJ from these guys.

Some dudes who don't know **** about approaching might be gurus when it comes to maintaining a relationship. The guys who are great at the night club scene might have no day game, the best C/F merchants might not know where the **** is.

Each of us have to work to our strengths. A really good looking dude who isn't good at conversation is going to have radically different game from a short funny looking bloke with a wicked sense of humour.

The guys who are great mackers will often throw in troll post, will be sarcastic, crack a joke, write something counter intuitive, play devils advocate, one day be all spiritual and deep and meaningful the next day full of testosterone and feel like flaming every ****er who writes a dumb post, will write what the person who is asking the question needs to hear not what is the best text book answer is etc etc...

Real DJs undertsand that there is no magic bullet, no single success formular, that opposites are the same; that good is bad, up is down, right is wrong, night is day, black is white, failure is success, confusion is understanding, not knowing is knowing... those ****ers can be real frustrating!

That kind of unpredicatabilty is a sign of a dude who loves and spends a lot of time interacting with the babes. It is a sign of a guy who has real experience and is here, not to win approval but coz he's having fun. Sometimes they will give you gold, but sometimes it will be fools gold.

Don't be so concerned with who the "best" posters are. Be more concerned with each post. Try to relate the advice to situations in real life. Try to figure out not so much what is being said but the content behind it. That will also put you on the path to better understanding of the way women communicate.

Make sure you get out there and put things to the test. And make up your own mind about EVERYTHING!

JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
Decide that for yourself brother.

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exactly. also, jus because someone is a good poster, doesnt mean u should follow every little ting they say.

you should discover your own game and find out what works for you,not follow wat other guys do like robots. you are you, not them. Jus because they pulled off some insane technique doesnt mean that if you follow exactly wat they did you will get the same result. and thats how all women are handled

read here, go out, try different things, and find out wat works for u and ur style.

you have to decide wat to listen too and wat not too, and wat techniques will work and wat ones and total BS.

be more worried about improving urself instead of whos good and who's not.
 

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I Want To Be a Playa said:
Who have you found to be "haters" on this site?
I mean both ppl on this forum and the people in your REAL LIFE your "friends" and stuff. I usually get along with people, but once in a while I meet an assh*le/jerk or b*tch who's jealous and diss what I'm doing. Sometimes after your improvement your old friends might leave you cuz you "changed" or they diss the old you and you figure out what they were REALLY THINKING. Just ignore what other people think/say I spent too much time getting caught up in the drama and BS it's not worth the time.

Make sure you have good friends, I call it "referance group" that you can learn good habits from. If you want something find someone who's good at it and stick with him so you can learn by example. If your surrounded by weak/negative people they WILL drag you down, sometimes it's hard but you have to cut off some ppl if they are getting in your way. Alpha has goals and will do anything to achieve them.
 
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