Advice on first date situation

[cokewave]

Couple weeks back I met a gorgeous girl at an on campus party. She came up to me, gave me a shot to take with her and told me I should take down her number.

Texted her a couple days later and after a few texts shot back and forth, decided to meet for drinks at a bar between our two campuses

we met at the bar and things went great. conversation was good, she got closer and closer to me as the night went on, solid eye contact, light touching. We had an engaging conversation back and forth for 3 hours before I suggested we leave cause I had work early the next morning

as we left, she said thank you for the night out (even though we split the chick 50-50) and that she had fun....i went for a kiss and we made out before finally parting ways

texted her the next day teasing her about something from the night before and she answered promptly and positively. i texted her a couple hours later telling her it was nice chilling with her and we should do it again sometime. she never answered and i never texted her back

just a little confused since i got so many great signs from the first date...ive never had a date go as this one did that did not result in a guaranteed hook up

anyway this girl is absolutely smoking and quite interesting as well. I want to hit her up one last time?

Im already kind of seeing someone so its not the end of the world if this doesnt work out but im looking for suggestions as to how i can get at her without looking lame at this point (if thats even possible)


thanks in advance boys!

 

[backseatjuan]

She wanted to fvck. Chances are she already found what was looking for.

 

[Hotsauce]

It seems like she is on the search for the d, not a vag. Good luck with your adventure, and don't btch out.

 

[perseverance]

If you were more brazen, you would no doubt have had sex with this girl.

She wanted a one night thing, you wanted to date, you missed your opportunity there.

 

[cokewave]

damn dudes....seems to be a mass consensus that i could have railed her....didnt even pick up on that cause i legit had to bounce and wasnt planning on getting any myself

so fuk it? should i even bother contacting her again? like i said i already got a chick but she was cute as hell and i really wouldnt mind getting it in...just dont know how to go about it at this point?

if the ship has sailed though thats cool dont really care....looking for opinions

 

[ilikecharlene]

you could still go out with her again, and then see what happens. if she still wants you, go for it. if she's cool and does not come on to you, then sadly an opportunity was wasted.

 

[runner83]

My advice is to wait until Wed/Thurs and get right to the point--invite her out on a simple date for Fri/sat. Of course you know not say a single fvucking word about having to get up early tomorrow, etc. You can sleep the following night. Ideally, get a few drinks in her then cash out and then go for the kiss-closing/petting in the parking lot. Don't wait long if she's into it--say, "You wanna follow me back to my place?"

If she declines, its important that you answer in a way that conveys an insouciant but respectful understanding--and then you leave.

Then you wait a few more days and repeat the process until she fvucks you.

^ This.

You probably blew it by wasting it 3 hours in conversation without making a move to close, but probably worth another shot.

Remember:

"Condoms are for closers"

Doesn't matter at all how much a girl is into you if you don't have the balls to close the deal by ending up with her spreadeagled under you on the bed.

You're the man, she wants you to do it and was probably disappointed when you didn't .