brat-buster
Don Juan
Hello fellow DJ'ners,
This is my first post so a little background 411 is probably in order....
39 yrs old
divorced 2 years after 16 of marriage
AFC for about 6 mos after marriage
Very good looking and in prime shape
Studied up on seduction techniques
Read DYD and assoc. cd's
Fvcked all shapes and sizes ranging from 3's to 9's after divorce.
My issue is with very hot women over the age of 40. Something about this age group really attracts me but only if they are really hott!! Out of the say...........2 dozen Iv'e been with since my divorce, I'd say 2 could have been LTR material.
The first was a rebound thing and she was independently weathy. The second was the most recent who was the same in looks but not wealthy. The thing they both had in common was ex's who were 10 years younger than them. I got left by the first one cuz she said......she thought I would go back to my ex wife(we wern't divorced yet). She ended up going back to her boy toy even tho she said she couldn't stand him nor could her kids.
So.........fast forward about 22 girls later. I meet the second 42 yr old hottie. same sitch.......just broke up with boy toy. was an on again off again thing for 7 years. He cheated on her all the time. Started dating (4-5 dates) then she starts telling me he wants her back, and that she is confused. I told her I was burned before and didn't want to get in the middle of that sitch.
My friend (who introduced me to her) kept telling me to not get attached cuz she will go back to ex. So I played it cool, leaned back, showed a little interest but not too much, played a bit hard to get and basically did all the things any DJ would do.
She showed a lot of affection while we were together although no fvcking. Told me she thought all the good guys were gone that's why she stayed with him so long. Then she met me....the attraction dial was high. Then last week she went back with him. He is a dork!! She has called me 2 times since and I have not taken her call.
I think she knows it will fall apart again, so she is keeping me hanging on in case.
2 things..........?????
If she calls again should I pick up and what to say (I thought about "Why are you calling me when you're back with ex...I'm dating/fvcking someone else right now anyway so lose my number")
And finally....what do 32 yr olds see in 42 yr olds anyways?? Maturity?? Experience?? Maybe I need to start chasing some 28 yr olds??
Advice appreciated
Brat Buster
This is my first post so a little background 411 is probably in order....
39 yrs old
divorced 2 years after 16 of marriage
AFC for about 6 mos after marriage
Very good looking and in prime shape
Studied up on seduction techniques
Read DYD and assoc. cd's
Fvcked all shapes and sizes ranging from 3's to 9's after divorce.
My issue is with very hot women over the age of 40. Something about this age group really attracts me but only if they are really hott!! Out of the say...........2 dozen Iv'e been with since my divorce, I'd say 2 could have been LTR material.
The first was a rebound thing and she was independently weathy. The second was the most recent who was the same in looks but not wealthy. The thing they both had in common was ex's who were 10 years younger than them. I got left by the first one cuz she said......she thought I would go back to my ex wife(we wern't divorced yet). She ended up going back to her boy toy even tho she said she couldn't stand him nor could her kids.
So.........fast forward about 22 girls later. I meet the second 42 yr old hottie. same sitch.......just broke up with boy toy. was an on again off again thing for 7 years. He cheated on her all the time. Started dating (4-5 dates) then she starts telling me he wants her back, and that she is confused. I told her I was burned before and didn't want to get in the middle of that sitch.
My friend (who introduced me to her) kept telling me to not get attached cuz she will go back to ex. So I played it cool, leaned back, showed a little interest but not too much, played a bit hard to get and basically did all the things any DJ would do.
She showed a lot of affection while we were together although no fvcking. Told me she thought all the good guys were gone that's why she stayed with him so long. Then she met me....the attraction dial was high. Then last week she went back with him. He is a dork!! She has called me 2 times since and I have not taken her call.
I think she knows it will fall apart again, so she is keeping me hanging on in case.
2 things..........?????
If she calls again should I pick up and what to say (I thought about "Why are you calling me when you're back with ex...I'm dating/fvcking someone else right now anyway so lose my number")
And finally....what do 32 yr olds see in 42 yr olds anyways?? Maturity?? Experience?? Maybe I need to start chasing some 28 yr olds??
Advice appreciated
Brat Buster
