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I'm going out with a girl tonight, I suggested that we go see matrix 3 but she said she was flat broke, so I said "Oh, that sucks. We'll find something else to do then"
I'm picking her up at 5:30, should I just pay for her, or think of something else?
 
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If it's a date pay for her - just don't be taken for a ride - i.e. don't pay for it everytime.
 
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I don't know how you look to her but from here ya look kinda cheap.

It's just a movie for God's sake.

You could always sneak in a couple of candy bars and make her pack her bra with popcorn.

Hey, you could do that at home...sounds like fun.
 
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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Yes and No.

It depends on their situation.
If he always pays for her, it's AFC and she'll probably end up using him or LJBF him.
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sigh. this again.

it is only AFC and stupid to pay if the girl is using you. as in not interested. as in you are just something to do. if her IL is low, and only peaks when dinero is involved you are being used.

we should do a thread on how to tell if you are being used.

other than that, it is not AFC to pay for a woman.

flame away!!!
 
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echo1212

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Don't be so cheap pay for the girls movie for cryin' out loud.
 

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am4591

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I don't spend money on any woman I'm not bangin'. The only exception is if she buys me dinner or whatever, I'll return the favor some other time. To each his own.
 
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I've never seen so many cheap people in my life. If you invite her out to a movie, dinner, what have you..you pay. Be a man not a cheapskate.
 
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Leon Phelps

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There is a big misconception on this website:

People think its AFC- like to pay for a woman on a date that you asked her on.

As its been said before, its only AFC if that is the reason she is going, and us being DJ's, i think we can tell if she is really interested can we not.

Damn man, pay for the girl, you asked her on the date.
 
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pay if you want to see the movie for you and her... then say "its ok, ill get this one, you can pay the next time we go out"
 
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