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Ive come to terms that the playing field in my area is not equal at all. My best option is to leave the country, but thats not gonna happen anytime soon. My question is what are some good parts of the states that are equal or fair to minorities.
 

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What is your area? And is this another ”the color of my skin prevents me from having success with women” thread?
 

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Im black and have no disadvantages with women


black,white,hispanic, I have had them all

but most of the time, if your area is not giving you the women up to your standards you got to campagin in another area.

I remember I took a trip to austin, and my success rate with 7,8, and 9 was incredible, I guess the bigger the city the easiest it is.
 

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Ya I go to Ole Miss, and im not even going to waste my time arguing with white people on this site
 
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Solomon said:
aren't there tons of sisters who are cooperating down south? just wondering brah

if you like white girls

Minneapolis
Cali
Colorado
Washington State
D.C.

are some great places to go
Im attracted to white girls and the black girls Id actually date are interested in white guys. Im pretty good looking and im muscular, theres nothing wrong with me at all.
 

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I tend to be more of a proper black man. Girls around my area either don't like them or want them to be the stereotypical black guy. It's possible though, I've still had my success even if the area seem mostly turned off from me.

So to answer your question, no. You don't have to move out of the country or your area (unless you live in a super small area), you just need to put in more effort or approaches.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Ive come to terms that the playing field in my area is not equal at all. My best option is to leave the country, but thats not gonna happen anytime soon. My question is what are some good parts of the states that are equal or fair to minorities.
i'm 100% certain your success rate on the campus of ole miss is not indicitive of your success rate in other areas of the south let alone the united states of america. go to grad school/get a job in another part of the country.

what do you look like? are you confident? are you fit? do you approach? have game? doesnt matter if you do move and lack in these areas.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Ive come to terms that the playing field in my area is not equal at all. My best option is to leave the country, but thats not gonna happen anytime soon. My question is what are some good parts of the states that are equal or fair to minorities.
i'm 100% certain your success rate on the campus of ole miss is not indicitive of your success rate in other areas of the south let alone the united states of america. go to grad school/get a job in another part of the country.

what do you look like? are you confident? are you fit? do you approach? have game? doesnt matter if you do move and lack in these areas.
 

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You go to Ole Miss? For ****s sake that school's mascot is a confederate rebel. No wonder your success with hotties is bad ****ing move! I'm black and have had success with White, Asian, and Hispanic girls. Do not EVER go to a huge frat/sorority Greek school in the Deep South. It's the very reason I refuse to go UA(theres a reason the 3rd most diverse campus in the nation is in Alabama, but not UA itself)The Greek system is set up to make it hard on anybody non-white to get involved on campus and we all know getting involved=best way to get laid in college.
 

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To the OP - I am a minority (non-black) and have lived in the U.S. my entire life.

I have now lived in the United Kingdom for almost 2 years - I have to admit honestly that the caucasian women here are MUCH more open to racial integration than in the United States.

I enjoy my life here SO MUCH, that I fear ever going back to live in the U.S. because of the neverending racial divide and prejudice in the back of American's minds living there. The United States has a root in racial conflicts and prejudice, and that has carried on in the minds of endless generations of Americans unfortunately; where such conflict and history does not exist in much of the European community in the intensity it has had for the U.S.

I must tell you that the 'white' women here in London/UK are so diverse, not just British - in fact, I have had beautiful women as girlfriends (white) from other European countries (German, Polish, Lithuanian, Croatian, Ukranian/Russian, French, etc). British women to me are the more boring bunch, unfortunately.

So to answer your question, live abroad a bit if you can. I wouldn't speak for Germany because they are quite close minded, as well as France. But London/UK you can't go wrong - this place is a huge melting pot of all races and women think of anything 'different' as RARE and EXOTIC, more so than the mentality of racial divide in the United States.

Good luck

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Bros before hoes and I love my frat bros to death but it makes me feel like shvt watching them get girls. I really wanna transfer and how did u get to the uk
 

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sigma335 said:
i'm 100% certain your success rate on the campus of ole miss is not indicitive of your success rate in other areas of the south let alone the united states of america. go to grad school/get a job in another part of the country.

what do you look like? are you confident? are you fit? do you approach? have game? doesnt matter if you do move and lack in these areas.
Im confident, good looking, muscular, and tall. Theres no reason I shouldnt be failing so bad
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Bros before hoes and I love my frat bros to death but it makes me feel like shvt watching them get girls. I really wanna transfer and how did u get to the uk
Wait so are you in a NPHC frat or an IFC frat?
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Im attracted to white girls and the black girls Id actually date are interested in white guys. Im pretty good looking and im muscular, theres nothing wrong with me at all.
Ringleader41 said:
Im confident, good looking, muscular, and tall. Theres no reason I shouldnt be failing so bad
Apparently there is. Unless your plan is to continue blaming other people for your own failures.

I mean, "there's nothing wrong with me at all"...hah. This is like the 20th thread where I've seen you whine about race. So I don't know about females, but I dislike you and I've never met you.

If race is a problem for you, then I guess it is. I don't understand why you keep coming here complaining about it. As if you're going to get new advice on being black.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Bros before hoes and I love my frat bros to death but it makes me feel like shvt watching them get girls. I really wanna transfer and how did u get to the uk
I work for the federal government and took a position overseas. You are still quite young, shoot for large companies in your future career that has potential to sponsor your visa to live in the UK perhaps. Good luck.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
Oh that's surprising at UA and Auburn nonwhites are not allowed in the IFC. Are the black girls on your campus hot? I'm guessing no though lol.
 

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Iceberg said:
Apparently there is. Unless your plan is to continue blaming other people for your own failures.

I mean, "there's nothing wrong with me at all"...hah. This is like the 20th thread where I've seen you whine about race. So I don't know about females, but I dislike you and I've never met you.

If race is a problem for you, then I guess it is. I don't understand why you keep coming here complaining about it. As if you're going to get new advice on being black.
have to co sign this.

i'm black and when i was single my white associates / horse racing friends didn't' want me anywhere near their dates/girlfriends. if some friends and i went out to a bar or club i always got my pick of the litter. my (white) wife is gorgeous.

the problem is YOU. it's funny beucase yo keep coming here talking about i'm black i can't get dates.. no... the reason you can't get dates is that you cry like a little ***** anytime you face any adversity in lfie. no woman,w hite black, asian, whatever, wants to date a crying *****.
 

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